What Nichole really needs is a train pulled on her.
If she were a member of the organization I am building, she would get that. It will be one of the stages in the women's initiation, all inspired by Story of O, they will be serving as sex slaves.
We will do it well, with the customary fluffers and all.
S&M is usually very scripted and the levels/types of pain are spelled out in great detail. Whoever is on the receiving end knows exactly what they want and they seek out partners who understand this. And if things start going in the wrong direction, there's a 'safe word'.
In actual fact, a good S&M relationship requires levels of trust, communication, and respect that is difficult to achieve in conventional relationships. It's not how I have fun, but I've known two couples that were in the "lifestyle" and casually met others. They all seemed to have remarkably strong relationships.
This is a nitpick, but I see S&M as being more theater than fantasy.
We're in agreement. This isn't the first time SJG has posted something incredibly rapey, gets called on it, and then he rushes back to insist that there's always "consent".
Of course, there's the whole 'sleepy time rapist' thing.
The good news is that I don't believe that SJG has ever seen a vagina. And, yes, I know that he was married. I'm sticking with my assertion.
One of my favorite experiences in a SC was when a “feature act” was on stage, pulled me up to stage, took my belt off and beat me as hard as she could with it. Apparently, she was known in porn as a dominatrix. She asked me if it hurt. I told her to give it her all. After five tries, she looked me in the eyes and told me that I was a little crazy. Well, I didn’t know what else to say other than, “so, when are you going to sit on my face? “. She made me get off stage then. Very attractive dancer !
@loloitaLove I’m not commenting about S & M or anything consenting adults do with each other, the very notion of a woman having a train pulled on her, is absolutely non-consensual and disgusting, anyone who would get any pleasure from that is a sick individual that shouldn’t be allowed to run the streets, or even think of promoting that kind of barbarism.
I don't engage in S and M which causes pain or which uses real restraints. And I don't plan to. But adults can consent to that. DC, you and that Christian girl are going into bad territory, telling people what adult consensual behavior will blacken their souls. Martin Luther said that the Pope was the Anti-Christ. Clearly he was only able to perceive part of the problem.
And 25, we used to have here a special weekly night, Thursdays, at the Edge Water West Adult Resort, reserved for Gang Bang Girls, those who come there to get a train pulled on them.
When my group does it, it will be part of an initiation. And remember, many of our other women will be there, and some will be doing the fluffing. The main reason they are there is to be shills to let the the initiatic candidate feel comfortable, so she will follow through with it.
"worldwide apparatus of persuasive technology designed to keep users engaged by appealing to lizard brain emotions and modifying their behavior, all while harvesting personal data and metadata to sell to advertisers"
Thing is the harm done and the exit costs are so high, that I say that it is playing Russian Roulette, except instead of using just one bullet, you are using 3.
She believes that sex has to be regulated, made to serve a purpose, otherwise it is improper. And yes, she has got you hooked.
"worldwide apparatus of persuasive technology designed to keep users engaged by appealing to lizard brain emotions and modifying their behavior, all while harvesting personal data and metadata to sell to advertisers"
You have bought into a conservative doctrine, blaming the poor and miserable for being poor and miserable, and blaming people's sexual desires. And labeling those most effected by sexual frustration for their own sexual frustration.
You blame sexual desire for things it has nothing to do with.
And who ever said anytihng about fucking more girls and bragging?
DC, Chemicals produced are a natural resource which makes people happy?
You believe in drugging, fixing how people feel, rather than dealing with the things that their feelings pertain to. That is what it is all about for you, how you feel. Very serious character disorder.
Most people want companionship. The guys on this forum are an oddity. But they are the way they are because they don't want to look at the real sources of their pain.
But believing that with an agreement to monogamy your needs can be satiated, I still say that that is neurotic.
You get the monogamy, but the costs to it are so very high.
See, a formative time in my life was when I realized that the way the group I call "The Beloved Latina Escorts" thinks, is superior to the way in which my then wife thought. My wife was committed to monogamy. But all that really meant was social conformity. Her monogamy was not only weapon used to force monogamy. That would have been survivable. No, her commitment to monogamy was a weapon used to force complete social conformity. Monogamy was a weapon, monogamy was the central component of a death trap.
So just like making out with cute black girl at SF New Century got me to appreciate that the bohemian life that that girl was living was superior to my own, experiences with the Beloved Latina Escorts showed me that the ways in which they thought and were living were superior to the ways in which my wife thought and was living.
So it goes beyond just treating strippers as equal to other women. It gets into seeing that these Latina's are far more open and accepting and represent a superior level of evolution than my then wife did.
They create openness, caring, and acceptance. Whereas my wife was creating pain and immanent death. Monogamy is not the root cause, but it was a central component.
SJG
Pull the red time bar back some from the present. AOC and others are questioning Cohen about Trump's tax returns. It goes back a little over three hours. They ask him about the making of a shell company to pay hush money to Stormy Daniels. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swSD-o1Y…
I think the problem is, neither the Christian Girls nor the Party Girls are any good.
Christianity is a reactionary identification system. An obligatory monogamy is just a means of social control.
Look, you are miles ahead, decades ahead, of where I was when I was your age. But as I am older now, I have to say, the enforced monogamy legalized property relationship is the main reason for the pain, suffering, and sexual frustration.
There is no better solution already in play. But we can build that better solution, and this is what i am not trying to do.
But part of what this is predicated on is the necessity of non-monogamy. And then also just the fact that the best sex workers are the better types of women to be involved with. They are the ones you want to be waking up in the mornings with, and putting your time and energy into.
Christianity in the US is heavily influenced by the Evangelical Movement, and this is pure poison. Michelle Goldberg calls this Christian Nationalism. Defend against it by any and all available means. US different from most other countries here.
Catholicism is anti-sex, but it is still not the same sort of a problem which the I AM A CHRISTIAN MOVEMENT has created here.
And you see here on TUSCL, guys with access to all the sex workers they want, but still only going for ejaculation services.
Maybe the strip clubs are clip joints, but one could still see the girl outside and get the best sort of GFE relationship going.
Monogamy, really enforced as a property ownership system, is a huge part of the problem. Monogamy comes with property ownership, turning people into property.
And so I could tell that the black girl DFKing me and the Latina Escorts I was making out with were very different from this, and very different from my then wife, and very different from the sort of a life I had gotten boxed into and have just barely survived.
And Christianity, especially the US Evangelical sort which has seeped into all the denominational churches, is also a huge part of the problem. Like the Retired Episcopalian Bishop of Newark John Shelby Spong says, it is Tribal Religion, a Theistic Appropriation.
As I say, it is an ideology, a vicious kind of a belief system, idol worshiping.
And I say that women go for it because they feel that it gives them power, and that means POWER OVER YOU!
DC, to be middle-class is to be living in Bad Faith. The middle-class does not want to admit that they create their own values, that they are the first large group of people who actually have a choice as to how they will live.
So they try to hide by pretending that they are those of a traditional society, people who do not really have choice. And the biggest choice they deny that they are making is to have children.
As de Beauvoir said, maternity is for most women, "an inauthentic choice".
Speaking from my own observations, the biggest difference between those who accept a Christian identity and are happy to sit in the pews, is that the former accepts a family based identity, whereas the later does not.
There are girls who embrace a Christian identity and worship the Middle-Class Family, and there are those who do not.
With this former group they live for outer appearances, and they will force you to do the same. And the middle-class family exists only to exploit and abuse children. Children are now the exploited workers, giving identity to the parents and protecting them from having to face the fact that they have made choices.
There are bohemian girls. You will find more of them in the arts, music, humanities, and philosophy. Some might be totally outside of the college. Some might be strippers.
Your college might not be the best to find such. Like here we have Stanford, mostly rich kids. We have UC Berkeley, mostly people on high power career tracks. But we also have San Jose and San Francisco State. More bohemian girls there.
Enjoy your life, live it fully. Stay away from these Christian girls who support the interests of the Middle-Class Family. They are poison.
House Votes to Block Trump National Emergency Declaration ( tally means this must have been bipartisan, so it then could pass the Senate. Walls take time to build. So the idea that you build it by declaring a National Emergency is preposterous.) https://www.democracynow.org/2019/2/27/h…
^^^^^ No, you are giving in to the ideology of the middle-class. The vast majority of middle-class abuse is never even recognized. The premise of the middle-class family is that children need to be broken in spirit, to get them to comply with social norms.
When you have a single parent, or other things which open the family up, abuses are more likely to be recognized and there are more chances for the child to seek outside aide.
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If she were a member of the organization I am building, she would get that. It will be one of the stages in the women's initiation, all inspired by Story of O, they will be serving as sex slaves.
We will do it well, with the customary fluffers and all.
https://cdn-3.cinemaparadiso.co.uk/clp/1…
SJG
Oakland CA
http://doxyspotting.com/?p=118715
In Poland, this is what their Lot Lizards look like
http://doxyspotting.com/lot-lizards-pola…
Italy, Lot Lizards
http://doxyspotting.com/lot-lizards/
S and M play is consensual.
Its just not styled as hearts and flowers
SJG
In that regard I am stopping short of Story of O.
But some people do it and it is consensual and they love it.
SJG
In actual fact, a good S&M relationship requires levels of trust, communication, and respect that is difficult to achieve in conventional relationships. It's not how I have fun, but I've known two couples that were in the "lifestyle" and casually met others. They all seemed to have remarkably strong relationships.
This is a nitpick, but I see S&M as being more theater than fantasy.
Of course, there's the whole 'sleepy time rapist' thing.
The good news is that I don't believe that SJG has ever seen a vagina. And, yes, I know that he was married. I'm sticking with my assertion.
And 25, we used to have here a special weekly night, Thursdays, at the Edge Water West Adult Resort, reserved for Gang Bang Girls, those who come there to get a train pulled on them.
When my group does it, it will be part of an initiation. And remember, many of our other women will be there, and some will be doing the fluffing. The main reason they are there is to be shills to let the the initiatic candidate feel comfortable, so she will follow through with it.
Really good, Brazilian Soft Core, 1975
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0073115/
SJG
Joe Bonamassa : Live At The Greek Theatre ( full album)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qoX0Olfq…
Trump's Enemies List
https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…
Oakland CA
http://doxyspotting.com/?p=137215
http://doxyspotting.com/?p=115288
http://doxyspotting.com/oakland-curb-wal…
http://doxyspotting.com/?p=113690
For her, sex is going to be something which is expendable.
SJG
Sorry.
SJG
Not a negative commentary on DC’s interest (hopefully it goes well) I just thought this image is appropriate and amusing.
SJG
Asking for a friend.
DC, are you prepared to live the letter and spirit of monogamy from this point on?
SJG
Zucked
http://activate.metroactive.com/2019/02/…
Zucked: Waking Up to the Facebook Catastrophe
https://www.amazon.com/Zucked-Waking-Up-…
"worldwide apparatus of persuasive technology designed to keep users engaged by appealing to lizard brain emotions and modifying their behavior, all while harvesting personal data and metadata to sell to advertisers"
Broken Book
http://www.metroactive.com/features/Zuck…
Hidden Camera inside a Freemason Lodge ???? Looks good to me! ( stripper )
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks_D2drI…
Miles Davis, Love for Sale
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-i6wNgg5…
John Coltrane My Favorite Things (1961)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHVarQbN…
She believes that sex has to be regulated, made to serve a purpose, otherwise it is improper. And yes, she has got you hooked.
SJG
Zucked
http://activate.metroactive.com/2019/02/…
Zucked: Waking Up to the Facebook Catastrophe
https://www.amazon.com/Zucked-Waking-Up-…
"worldwide apparatus of persuasive technology designed to keep users engaged by appealing to lizard brain emotions and modifying their behavior, all while harvesting personal data and metadata to sell to advertisers"
Broken Book
http://www.metroactive.com/features/Zuck…
Hidden Camera inside a Freemason Lodge ???? Looks good to me! ( stripper )
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks_D2drI…
Miles Davis, Love for Sale
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-i6wNgg5…
John Coltrane My Favorite Things (1961)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHVarQbN…
New York Jazz Lounge - Bar Jazz Classics
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_sI_Ps7J…
Do strippers usually makeout
https://www.tuscl.net/app/discussion.php…
You blame sexual desire for things it has nothing to do with.
And who ever said anytihng about fucking more girls and bragging?
You are already a lost cause.
I mean it!
SJG
You and your GF are neurotic.
SJG
You believe in drugging, fixing how people feel, rather than dealing with the things that their feelings pertain to. That is what it is all about for you, how you feel. Very serious character disorder.
Most people want companionship. The guys on this forum are an oddity. But they are the way they are because they don't want to look at the real sources of their pain.
But believing that with an agreement to monogamy your needs can be satiated, I still say that that is neurotic.
You get the monogamy, but the costs to it are so very high.
See, a formative time in my life was when I realized that the way the group I call "The Beloved Latina Escorts" thinks, is superior to the way in which my then wife thought. My wife was committed to monogamy. But all that really meant was social conformity. Her monogamy was not only weapon used to force monogamy. That would have been survivable. No, her commitment to monogamy was a weapon used to force complete social conformity. Monogamy was a weapon, monogamy was the central component of a death trap.
So just like making out with cute black girl at SF New Century got me to appreciate that the bohemian life that that girl was living was superior to my own, experiences with the Beloved Latina Escorts showed me that the ways in which they thought and were living were superior to the ways in which my wife thought and was living.
So it goes beyond just treating strippers as equal to other women. It gets into seeing that these Latina's are far more open and accepting and represent a superior level of evolution than my then wife did.
They create openness, caring, and acceptance. Whereas my wife was creating pain and immanent death. Monogamy is not the root cause, but it was a central component.
SJG
Pull the red time bar back some from the present. AOC and others are questioning Cohen about Trump's tax returns. It goes back a little over three hours. They ask him about the making of a shell company to pay hush money to Stormy Daniels.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swSD-o1Y…
John Dean and E. Howard Hunt, portrayed:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PNBaeW54…
Jeff Healey
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5Qb-6Qk…
Christianity is a reactionary identification system. An obligatory monogamy is just a means of social control.
Look, you are miles ahead, decades ahead, of where I was when I was your age. But as I am older now, I have to say, the enforced monogamy legalized property relationship is the main reason for the pain, suffering, and sexual frustration.
There is no better solution already in play. But we can build that better solution, and this is what i am not trying to do.
SJG
Biggest Sign of Divorce
http://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/famil…
SJG
But part of what this is predicated on is the necessity of non-monogamy. And then also just the fact that the best sex workers are the better types of women to be involved with. They are the ones you want to be waking up in the mornings with, and putting your time and energy into.
Christianity in the US is heavily influenced by the Evangelical Movement, and this is pure poison. Michelle Goldberg calls this Christian Nationalism. Defend against it by any and all available means. US different from most other countries here.
Catholicism is anti-sex, but it is still not the same sort of a problem which the I AM A CHRISTIAN MOVEMENT has created here.
And you see here on TUSCL, guys with access to all the sex workers they want, but still only going for ejaculation services.
Maybe the strip clubs are clip joints, but one could still see the girl outside and get the best sort of GFE relationship going.
Monogamy, really enforced as a property ownership system, is a huge part of the problem. Monogamy comes with property ownership, turning people into property.
And so I could tell that the black girl DFKing me and the Latina Escorts I was making out with were very different from this, and very different from my then wife, and very different from the sort of a life I had gotten boxed into and have just barely survived.
And Christianity, especially the US Evangelical sort which has seeped into all the denominational churches, is also a huge part of the problem. Like the Retired Episcopalian Bishop of Newark John Shelby Spong says, it is Tribal Religion, a Theistic Appropriation.
As I say, it is an ideology, a vicious kind of a belief system, idol worshiping.
And I say that women go for it because they feel that it gives them power, and that means POWER OVER YOU!
SJG
Robert Reich on UBI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFhismSc…
Vietnam Freelancers And Hostess Ladies
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SuHCvGqK…
Avoid Getting Gobbled Up On Pattaya's Streets
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n6ZfmDh_…
Biggest Sign of Divorce
http://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/famil…
John Dean and E. Howard Hunt, portrayed:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PNBaeW54…
Jeff Healey
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5Qb-6Qk…
Those who are threatened by the dissolution of monogamy are those who have made a huge investment in it.
But it is also those who worship the middle-class family, and hence are neurotic.
That black girl making out with me, those Latina Escorts, they are part of a bohemian underground, their way is right.
SJG
Sartre - on Bad Faith and being condemned to freedom - The London Psychology Collective
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozKMUeKv…
So they try to hide by pretending that they are those of a traditional society, people who do not really have choice. And the biggest choice they deny that they are making is to have children.
As de Beauvoir said, maternity is for most women, "an inauthentic choice".
Speaking from my own observations, the biggest difference between those who accept a Christian identity and are happy to sit in the pews, is that the former accepts a family based identity, whereas the later does not.
There are girls who embrace a Christian identity and worship the Middle-Class Family, and there are those who do not.
With this former group they live for outer appearances, and they will force you to do the same. And the middle-class family exists only to exploit and abuse children. Children are now the exploited workers, giving identity to the parents and protecting them from having to face the fact that they have made choices.
There are bohemian girls. You will find more of them in the arts, music, humanities, and philosophy. Some might be totally outside of the college. Some might be strippers.
Your college might not be the best to find such. Like here we have Stanford, mostly rich kids. We have UC Berkeley, mostly people on high power career tracks. But we also have San Jose and San Francisco State. More bohemian girls there.
Enjoy your life, live it fully. Stay away from these Christian girls who support the interests of the Middle-Class Family. They are poison.
SJG
Love For Sale ( cover of Billy Holiday )
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8htJVyav…
Sunday on the Front Stoop; 'Critical Path', What was Buckminster Fuller trying to tell us?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqCZPxOB…
http://doxyspotting.com/?p=70423
http://doxyspotting.com/?p=88179
Pablo Sender - The Secret Doctrine: Part 1 - How to Study The Secret Doctrine
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_O2hdnG6…
James Phillips - Secrets of Adepts: An Introduction
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTILhZ3d…
House Votes to Block Trump National Emergency Declaration ( tally means this must have been bipartisan, so it then could pass the Senate. Walls take time to build. So the idea that you build it by declaring a National Emergency is preposterous.)
https://www.democracynow.org/2019/2/27/h…
When you have a single parent, or other things which open the family up, abuses are more likely to be recognized and there are more chances for the child to seek outside aide.
SJG