Average Club Budgeting and Negotiation

Depends who’s there a lot of time. But when I go clubbing I’m prepared to spend $150. Try to keep it under. If I see a fave I’ll find a way to get over $200.

My average limit is anywhere from $200-600 including booze and Uber.

There are times when I can’t find anyone I find attractive and just end up going home early.

I almost forgot to mention that I’m terrible at negotiating and any tiles are appreciated.

I usually take $300 w/ me but it's kinda a crapshoot if I end up spending less or more

I always bring enough to get anything with anyone I want in the club, which to me is $600 realistic, but once I walk in and catch the vibe I will know if I will have that kind of night or more of a $200 night. Most often I've averaged around that $200 with a couple of instances where I burned $400.

I kinda feel that $300 is a good benchmark and the returns aren’t that great after.

Papi or others what kind of mileage should I expect with that kind of cash at places like Deans, Scarlets or Tootsies?

Well the biggest tip I can give out is don’t give any freebies. If a girl comes up to you that you do not find attractive then it’s fucking no. Don’t be dick about it. But your the one spending the money. You pick what you want not them.

Funny how I destroyed an airplane shitter yesterday!

If u just want dances then you can have a good time with $300 - if u want extras, Tootsies will run you ~$400 with the $100 room and Deans ~$450+ with the ~$150 room - not sure about extras at Scarlett's but I think the VIP rooms there are very expensive (extras at Scarlett's is kinda an unknown so I'd avoid it)

For a quick social visit with just some floor dances, talk to the girls, and have a couple drinks I’ll bring around $250. For a short visit, about 2 hours at the club including 1 hour of VIP, I go with $700. For a full night, 3+ hours at the club, with 2 hours of VIP I’ll bring $1500.

Thanks all, does the same 400-600 generally get me the same at Dallas, NYC, LA, clubs?

I probably take 600-1000 once a month and any others visits are 100-300.

98% of the time I bring more than I'm willing to spend. Only once in the past few years did I go over budget and mostly I come a good bit under.

The only time I’ve gone beyond $600 was when I was new to the club, I had no idea what I was doing and got played.

Maybe handful of other occasions - I hit my bonus or found the elusive 11 unicorn.

Between $150 to $300. If I find a dancer extremely attractive and gives good lap dances then $300 otherwise lower end of the range. If I find rare girl and agrees to say with me all night then it will be max $700 including all tips and drinks

In Los Angeles, I recommend you focus and select the girl you want. I usually stay away from the bar and the stage and just look until I see someone that I like, I observe her behavior for a few minutes and if I get a good vibe I am interested. In most cases I dress “business casual” like I am from out of town in a busses trip. If she comes to me first and start a conversation, I ask her questions that would make her laugh “may I see some identification to verify you are over 18?” “I saw in the internet that Brittany Spears (o any celebrity she may have a resemblance off) was working in a Stripclub in preparation for a movie, so how is your preparation going?” etc. if I have to, I will approach her and compliment her outfit or her dance in either case we start talking. Then I ask her for the prices and the menu (that I already know from the waitress and the signs and the research in TUSCL) I f she is honest and accurate, I suggest that I am interested in more fun than that, and pay attention to her response and see if she is interested. If I decide I am interested and she seems open to the possibility of ITC or OTC, I get a lap dance nude ($40) and workout the details for either ITC and OTC. I have been lucky enough to get ITC for $300 in the COI and OTC for $400. Most will agree to meet you at your hotel after the club closes. In any case YMMV, it a matter of being in the right place at the right time. Goo luck and let us know how your experience went.

Cjkent Is that true? Isn't it risky for then to go to strangers hotel room. In east coast clubs where I go to most of them dont even share phone numbers. ^^^^^ will agree to meet you at your hotel after the club closes. ^^^^^^^

It is matter of luck; “Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity” ~ Seneca, Roman philosopher.

Luck isn't just about being at the right place at the right time, but also about being open to the possibilities and opportunities and being ready to try.

You have to be prepared, girls will be more open to ITC and OTC if they feel comfortable with you and you make them laugh and act as a wealthy gentleman in a business trip having some fun and trying to enjoy himself and want no complications. Remember the movie Pretty Woman? Well many strippers have seen it and is a modern version of Cinderella, in any case I have red many comments by strippers in the internet regarding OTC where they said: “I fell like the girl in the movie Pretty Woman” Sometimes life imitates art.

“Lucky” people are smart at noticing chance opportunities, listening to their instincts, sometimes even create self-fulfilling prophesies being optimistic and positive expectations, and know that if they don’t try they can’t win.

Like I said I have been lucky a few times. As always prepare for the worst and hope for the best, remember YMMV. Good luck, let us know how it goes. Thank you.

Hey you said you're excluding Vegas, but I've done Vegas clubs. I typically build up my budget slowly and once I breach $600, I'll plan a trip, sometimes adding a bit more to it. This is usually too much but I like leaving the club with extra money and you never know when you might need it for that elusive unicorn. I don't spend more than $100 on a girl the first time I meet her if we stay in the club. The ones who aren't fine with being groped on for $100 will self-select themselves and I turn away all the 8s and below before they even introduce themselves. This leaves the super hot chicks that are fine with me being thrifty and I focus my spending efforts on them over multiple visits until everything peters out and I need to move on to another girl.

I don't know about other cities but in LA you can get almost anything you want from the hottest dancers in a club for $600 or less including VIP, entrance and some drinks. Honestly even $500 is enough. I give myself a buffer because even if I want to go for high mileage I still might do some test run LDs with some other girls which might run anywhere from $40 to $100 overall plus tips for the good ones.

Escorts and strippers aren't really the same dynamic. Escort ads are also not really the best way to meet up with them, but I honestly have not been on that landscape for a long time and the online means to find them (or reviews) is now sparse. $300-400 is the real range for most for 1 hour. I'm not a member of HX but from what I understand it's still possible to find a willing provider in the $150-250 range there, but the site seems a bit risky.

I bring a $150 and usually leave with $80, because the girls know that I’m not the big spender and they avoid me unless they want a couple quick dances out of me to fill in the gap, no Pun.