As soon as I walked into the club, a hot blonde dancer I hadn't seen in months grabbed me and greeted me effusively. I did not mind at all. We sat at a table near the stage and I bought her a drink. When she was called to perform, she asked if she could leave her purse with me.
After Blondie's first song, she removed her bra and tossed it to me. I have always liked the bra toss. I find it sexy. Of course, it also lets the other dancers know that I'm taken. With a dancer's drink, a dancer's purse and a dancer's bra at my table, the other strippers aren't going to try to poach me.
Or she thinks you are a cross-dresser .