I had some guy yesterday tell me my skin looked so soft and pretty he wanted to skin me and wear me.
I didn't even try to get a dance from him anymore I just told him I was gonna go get some water and told the other girls what he said and to avoid him. Makes my skin crawl when I think about it.
I had some guy yesterday tell me my skin looked so soft and pretty he wanted to skin me and wear me.
I didn't even try to get a dance from him anymore I just told him I was gonna go get some water and told the other girls what he said and to avoid him. Makes my skin crawl when I think about it.
That kind of way, trying to debate the girl into a makeout session is no good. Does not work like that. Can't make it happen by verbal reasoning.
But even in DV San Francisco, girls who have recited the I don't kiss speech, were demonstrably reversing themselves not too much further along.
How it goes in a particular club mostly depends upon how competitive the girls are having to be. I have seen a club where a girl was giving very nice DFKing to anyone who gave her $1, from the stage. She wanted back room action.
And then most dancers are the opposite, bristling at the idea.
Your show clubs, they limit the number of girls per shit. They want them to be able to make money without bending any rules.
In Dives and Shitholes, the management does not have much of whip to crack. It is no big privilege to work there. So if they want the women to show up, they just have to let them do things their way and always be looking the other direction.
When sex workers are interviewed, what they say is that they want to handle the interactions themselves, from start to finish, and without having to justify anything to anyone.
If a girl likes you, lacking any external constraint, she won't be averse to DFKing. And not every guy wants that too, been acculturated not to expect it.
We had a dancer from Portland. She danced at dives. But these were not the lowest of dives. She said that at the lowest of dives, "the dancers were street hookers."
I had to think about that some. I had been at a place like that long ago in San Francisco. Then unadvertised, seemless relation between the inside and the outside, hookers on both sides, hookers following guys in and out of the bar.
When Jim and Artie Mitchell started lap dancing in the 70's, it was just their original stage only crew. But then they opened up the hiring and this huge new group came in. The others called them. "The Hustler Girls". They would get as much money as they could, but they would also do anything. All front room too.
At most show clubs, for each dancer on the present crew, they could quickly hire another 3. They might not have the looks, but they would make up for it with pure aggression. So in places like that, very few limits are enforceable. And lots of the girls will have zero reservations about front room DFKing.
Ever notice that Stephen Spielberg's films always include appearances of the Chariot, and that always before these there is silence and a void? Often such appearances mean that someone is going to die violently.
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I didn’t have the heart to ask him if he browses this site...
I didn't even try to get a dance from him anymore I just told him I was gonna go get some water and told the other girls what he said and to avoid him. Makes my skin crawl when I think about it.
I didn't even try to get a dance from him anymore I just told him I was gonna go get some water and told the other girls what he said and to avoid him. Makes my skin crawl when I think about it.
but I liked it
But even in DV San Francisco, girls who have recited the I don't kiss speech, were demonstrably reversing themselves not too much further along.
How it goes in a particular club mostly depends upon how competitive the girls are having to be. I have seen a club where a girl was giving very nice DFKing to anyone who gave her $1, from the stage. She wanted back room action.
And then most dancers are the opposite, bristling at the idea.
Your show clubs, they limit the number of girls per shit. They want them to be able to make money without bending any rules.
In Dives and Shitholes, the management does not have much of whip to crack. It is no big privilege to work there. So if they want the women to show up, they just have to let them do things their way and always be looking the other direction.
When sex workers are interviewed, what they say is that they want to handle the interactions themselves, from start to finish, and without having to justify anything to anyone.
If a girl likes you, lacking any external constraint, she won't be averse to DFKing. And not every guy wants that too, been acculturated not to expect it.
SJG
All the Kabbalah You Really Need To Know, Blazing Star OTO, Oakland CA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DjPRIMdD…
Generally if it is a club where girls sit on laps as a matter of course, getting a front room makeout session going will not be that hard.
Girl on your lap means that there are few defensible boundaries left.
SJG
I had to think about that some. I had been at a place like that long ago in San Francisco. Then unadvertised, seemless relation between the inside and the outside, hookers on both sides, hookers following guys in and out of the bar.
When Jim and Artie Mitchell started lap dancing in the 70's, it was just their original stage only crew. But then they opened up the hiring and this huge new group came in. The others called them. "The Hustler Girls". They would get as much money as they could, but they would also do anything. All front room too.
At most show clubs, for each dancer on the present crew, they could quickly hire another 3. They might not have the looks, but they would make up for it with pure aggression. So in places like that, very few limits are enforceable. And lots of the girls will have zero reservations about front room DFKing.
SJG
Nicki Minaj
https://nrg.radio/hiphop/wp-content/uplo…
Merkaba - Chariot of the Gods
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7TGz1bY…
Ever notice that Stephen Spielberg's films always include appearances of the Chariot, and that always before these there is silence and a void? Often such appearances mean that someone is going to die violently.
Chariot of God: Merkabah Mysticism - Vision of Ezekiel
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LIxbYy-…
Christ of the Apocalypse, from one of the doorways to Chartres
http://marc-haegeman-photography.com/img…
The Merkaba Explained IN DETAIL From Lightworkers org
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0BWTvNIA…
TJ Street
https://farm8.staticflickr.com/7290/9620…