Slow night grind and how most strippers don't understand how to play it
JuiceBox69
Fucking on Young N Dumb Chicken Heads
Imagine an average size club on a slow Monday through Wednesday evening or night. Energy from the club as a whole is low and slow. Most the girls don't desire to be present with obvious reasons due to the nature of the early weekday grind of little to no money.
The usual play i see from these ladies is avoiding clients. Hanging in the back room or on phone to much and so on. Most of these girls have a today mindset and see no one spending hence no value to be gained. Most choke it up as a complete wash and even ditch out early.
As when in real life a man has a getting pussy today method of picking up a girl it usually never works well. The girls can see the obvious reasons of the approach and will build a wall to rightfully protect herself from an individual that cares only for himself and his pleasure and nothing of her.
The correct play for a man in the pick up game is to forget about sex. This helps get ride of that creepy vibe. It will also do him great service to focus on each integration as enjoyable and playful. He should enjoy what is allowed for the time being and allow the object of his affection set the pace for the future pay off for this investment.
Hang with me I'll tye this in soon lol
Now if a man only waited for girls he desired he would never get the reps in to be truely good at game once he found a target worth while. It serves him well to practice his social skills on any lady young or old. Pretty or not. It helps build and perfect the skills needed.
Same for a stripper on a dead night. Long term success i believe is built on girls experimenting on these dead days thus making value even if not dollar's as of now. You will perfect and trouble shoot skills needed to find and manipulate the right clients and gain larger payoffs in my humble opinion
The usual play i see from these ladies is avoiding clients. Hanging in the back room or on phone to much and so on. Most of these girls have a today mindset and see no one spending hence no value to be gained. Most choke it up as a complete wash and even ditch out early.
As when in real life a man has a getting pussy today method of picking up a girl it usually never works well. The girls can see the obvious reasons of the approach and will build a wall to rightfully protect herself from an individual that cares only for himself and his pleasure and nothing of her.
The correct play for a man in the pick up game is to forget about sex. This helps get ride of that creepy vibe. It will also do him great service to focus on each integration as enjoyable and playful. He should enjoy what is allowed for the time being and allow the object of his affection set the pace for the future pay off for this investment.
Hang with me I'll tye this in soon lol
Now if a man only waited for girls he desired he would never get the reps in to be truely good at game once he found a target worth while. It serves him well to practice his social skills on any lady young or old. Pretty or not. It helps build and perfect the skills needed.
Same for a stripper on a dead night. Long term success i believe is built on girls experimenting on these dead days thus making value even if not dollar's as of now. You will perfect and trouble shoot skills needed to find and manipulate the right clients and gain larger payoffs in my humble opinion
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If a girl makes a man forget this he will get lost in the fantasy and will spend more even past his budgets.
Many men have walked in willing and ready to bust off $500 to only walk out after 4 hours and $50 or $100 out
Same as the guy that goes in to soend just $100 then finds a fantasy so hypnotic that he has no choice but to hit the ATM in the club or leace and come back with $300 to $500 more to soend that he really should not
With a little luck as life goes anyways you'll meet the guy with $590 and find a way to lock him uo and get all of close to it
Same as the times you make a whale love drunk with passion over his fantasy and thus all the wotk and time truely paying off all because of your skills being sharpened in the more difficult times
I respect your reply and thank you for it.. It will help make a great discussion if one takes off
Giving out too much time for free is just as cheapening as engaging in $100 blowjobs.
Probably a good balance when it’s slow is about five songs. That’s a good 15-22 minutes and gives a customer plenty of time to decide.
But I ditch out early all the time. Lol
For example, there is a dancer who I was not attracted to initially but she would always say hi and make small talk and sometimes soft sell a dance, which I didn't accept.
The last time I saw her, she had hair extensions and was a little more flirty, we had a decent conversation but she did not offer me a dance.
Now, no doubt I'm going to take her to the VIP the next time I see her.
The usual play i see from these ladies is avoiding clients. Hanging in the back room or on phone to much and so on. Most of these girls have a today mindset and see no one spending hence no value to be gained. Most choke it up as a complete wash and even ditch out early.
As when in real life a man has a getting pussy today method of picking up a girl it usually never works well. The girls can see the obvious reasons of the approach and will build a wall to rightfully protect herself from an individual that cares only for himself and his pleasure and nothing of her.
The correct play for a man in the pick up game is to forget about sex. This helps get ride of that creepy vibe. It will also do him great service to focus on each integration as enjoyable and playful. He should enjoy what is allowed for the time being and allow the object of his affection set the pace for the future pay off for this investment.
Hang with me I'll tye this in soon lol
Now if a man only waited for girls he desired he would never get the reps in to be truely good at game once he found a target worth while. It serves him well to practice his social skills on any lady young or old. Pretty or not. It helps build and perfect the skills needed.
Same for a stripper on a dead night. Long term success i believe is built on girls experimenting on these dead days thus making value even if not dollar's as of now. You will perfect and trouble shoot skills needed to find and manipulate the right clients and gain larger payoffs in my humble opinion
But there's numerous reasons why most of them won't. And there's ways to do it without coming off as desperate or hustling.
But there's numerous reasons why most of them won't. And there's ways to do it without coming off as desperate or hustling.
I only have so much patience for people treating me like this. No, my house fee isn’t lower on these days, it’s the same. If I don’t talk to you or I leave early, it’s my prerogative. I would rather do that than waste my time “making value and not dollars,” wtf??
What I invest at the club is my time and my labor/skills/conversation in giving a dance and chatting etc. What customers invest is money. So turn the tables and ask yourself if it would be acceptable for you to commit your side of the investment, and I don’t deliver mine—that’s what you’re saying strippers should do, just because it’s slower in the club.
Give me a break, what a foolish argument. — eye roll —
Of course we both want more, dancer and customer. But it is a two way street. Give love, get love.
I just meant in general, not you in particular.
But even then, if the goal is trying to play the long game with club regulars, then I think it’s more important to:
1. Make the effort to remember everybody’s name
2. Maintain a postive and upbeat attitude
...rather than spend more physical time with him in a non-paid way.
If he rejected a dance in the past, doesn't matter. In the future, whenever you pass by his table, just spend the 3 seconds to say “hi [insert name here]” in a happy & upbeat way, and then continue walking. That is what will cause him to stop you and ask for a dance, if he might want one.
Another tip in mongering is to stop applying logic to dancers. The majority of them are attracted to the flexibility of hours and quick money. This isnt a trade where girls learn business strategies and customer service. We'd like to think so, but there are enough guys showing up daily to help these girls make thier ends meet. Of course there are the smart ones but they are few.
With a new customer I understand the viewpoint expressed by PSD and nicespice that people don't deserve freebies when the club is slow. However I have personally experienced that when a club is dead that many inexperienced/immature dancers tend to get pissy and actually give less free time. I tend to think they have consigned themselves to having a bad day and aren't in the right mood to hustle.
When it comes to being a valuable regular then yes I do expect a little more freebies when the club is slow. However personally I also am willing to spend less time on a day the club is packed and my CF is clearly in demand. I generally tell favs of mine to give me extra time on slow days and I'll give it back on a busy day when they need it.
But hey, I don't want to be the storm cloud in Juice's sunshine and rainbows story, so I'll stop there. After all, a guy like Juice, who recently waived a roll of dollars in a girl's face and then tipped her a lousy single, wouldn't dream of eating up gobs of her time for free barside, now would he? ;)
I didn’t read that part. :(
Shame on you juice. :(
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