A little bit confused
SuperPony
Washington
I went to a strip club/ gentleman's club last night for Halloween. A little before it closed a dancer came to me and asked for a dance. She is the hottest and probably youngest dancer I've met so far so I agreed. When we sat down she said each stripper has her own prices(they were higher than other girls) and said she was giving me a discount(now normal price) because I was cute I guess. When we dancing she asked where I work and if I got a girlfriend(I don't). She said she wanted to meet for lunch the next day(today) and gave me her number. We agreed on a time and asked if lobster was good. I texted her to ask about lunch but she never answered. It's about the time we were supposed to meet up. Was it just flattery? I get called cute a lot and one girl even said I should try stripping because i'm pretty. I'm 18 and probably a bit naive. Help will be useful
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you taken should be “you’ve taken”
You s/b your
Hoes s/b goes
Or maybe she does like you, but she got cold feet and decided to call it off. However a stripper falling for a customer is still a very unlikely scenario.
And you said girls call you cute and that you should strip? Are you a male or female?
I hope you received a good lapdance.
Update: shes called and now wants to meet Krispy Kreme now I guess
Also don't expect a stripper to hold her word, like ever. They are so full of shit sometimes. Don't ever plan your day around them. Often times it will fall through. I have a bunch of numbers and hit a bunch of them up on a saturday, see who wants to chill, FULL WELL KNOWING that they are playing the exact same game. You are probably number #88 in her phone. Play it cool and you might hear back from her randomly down the line. Do not over pursue. Good job on getting a number. Now go get a few more. One strippers number is not gonna be reliable at all (unless she becomes CF then only a little bit moreso) However there just might be a great time somewhere in 30 numbers on a random friday night.
Translation: It’s closing time and I want to squeeze every last penny out of whoever I can before I leave.
As for lunch, even if she had answered, something likely would have “come up” that would prevent her from making it, “but I’ll be at the club tonight if you’d like to come in and see me.” (at full price this time)
As well, what’s up with the lobster? She might have thought that was a little over the top and you’d want “something” in return.
Aside from the Krispy Kreme (yum!), ask *her* where she wants to go instead of making a suggestion. If you’re willing to spring for lobster on a first “date” with someone you’ve never met before, your limits are probably pretty high, but don’t be afraid to set them anyway. Certainly don’t say anything like “anywhere you want.”
A sandwich shop is lunch. Pizza is lunch. Chili’s/Macaroni/Qdoba and their cousins are lunch. Lobster is late night dinner on the river on a summer night watching the pretty boats slide past.
Unless she meant a tire store. That might be almost as plausible as Krispy Kreme. After all, she might want SuperPony to buy her a new set of snow tires.
And SuperPony, if she wants new snow tires demand something in return. It’s the brilliant way! ;)
4got, no disrespect, but this is only because you haven't had a lot of experience with OTCs, otherwise you'd understand; if you're doing SJG-style theorizing, then I suppose you might rationalize yourself into thinking Krispy Kreme is totally realistic. In actuality, I can't remember if you've ever mentioned OTCing or not, but based on your statement above, with 100% confidence I know you haven't. Note that Michelin-starred restaurant isn't the most likely thing to come up either.
But if you're coming at them as a trick, its gonna be about money. Unless she really likes you that's all it is.
If you are taking a whore to lunch - find a place with a salad bar - so other guys get a peek at her titties as she goes for the dressing!
Ride My Pony -Ginuwine
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=D7UxaLcUyZ…
This isn’t criticism. You do you and if that involves meeting strippers outside the club that’s aces. But I’ll do me and just say that I don’t want anything crazier than I can get in the club!
That said, I don’t see why you are asserting that Krispy Kreme is absolutely implausible. All I said was that the Krispy Kreme story is not so implausible that it indicated SuperPony is the author of a work of fiction. And more plausible than a request to meet at a Michelin-starred restaurant.
Are you saying that strippers don’t like doughnuts? Or that they prefer Dunkin?
Let’s see if SuperPony went to the Krispy Kreme. I’ll go with the story being fiction if he says they used a box of crullers as sex toys or something equally unlikely. But you never know! After all, would have thought that rickdugan likes to watch girls through their window while he exercises with his tug toner?
Anyways, I hope 4got2wipe shows up to my club one day with a dachshund. It would be brilliant!
4got, it's not impossible, of course, but so improbable that your confusion here is what correctly convinced me you didn't have a lot of experience OTCing with strippers.
So what happened with the chick???
She just wanted free food. She might try and string me along but I won't let that happen. I might be quick to fall for somebody but I know when they aren't genuinely interested. I want to see her in the club but that's it
Falling in love with a dancer will only result in BAD things
I’m missing something. If he’s not interested in sex, why go to a strip club - and why take a stripper out for lunch? The conversation must be intense.
BTW - when she texts you to come see her at the club, she’s looking for business. She most likely sent a similar text to several other guys, as it was slow at the club.
It's been causing me a bit of grief these past 2 weeks, I'll keep my effort up but it feels like a lost cause
That's pretty awesome. A lot of guys here don't like spending time with strippers when there's no sex involved, but I personally think strippers are always fun to hang out with, regardless.
-->" Falling in love with her and her not wanting to fall in love with you is no different of a situation than it would be if you fell in love with any other girl and she didn't reciprocate your feelings."
I'm not so sure. Vanta, you still pay her at the club, don't you? So this is a matter of, still a stripper/customer relationship, but one where she enjoys his company enough that she'll allow strictly-friendzoned experience out of the club. If that's the case, it remains a more dangerous situation than simply being friendzoned by a civilian
She says I'm a fun guy to be around, but I don't think I'm her type