Younger Customer Observations
nicespice
*Last night (that was a very slow shift), I made $600 off a customer. During the last hour, I gave him 15 dances. When I asked him for $300, he shrugged his shoulders, counted out six benjies, and gave it to me. He looked like he was either my age or maybe even younger.
*I had an ex regular during the summer of 2017. He was a college student doing a summer internship in Austin. He believed that he was older than me, but that was because I lied about my age. I was actually the older one. For one month, he would visit me 3-4 times a week and give me ~$100-150 each time.
*I also had a generous but short lived ex-regular who also was younger.
*I used to go to school with somebody who was familiar with both strippers and escorts, but he preferred escorts. We had a conversation about it before he was even 21.
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Even past those times, I’ve had enough positive experiences with younger customers. If a younger customer seems interested, I’m happy to approach him.
I’m writing this because I noticed some dogpiling on DC9428 earlier today. But...
1. DC9428 and Vantablack, based on my experience, aren’t all that unusual.
2. I do believe there is a culture change going on that sets the stage for younger PLs.
2a. “In the early 2000s, about 73 percent of adults between the ages of 18 and 30 had sex at least twice a month. That fell to 66 percent in the period from 2014 to 2016, according to our analysis of the GSS.”
2b. “From 2002 to 2004, 12 percent of them reported having no sex in the preceding year. A decade later, during the two years from 2014 to 2016, that number rose to 18 percent.”
Source: https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/…
^Also the above reading gives speculation for the reason for less sex among young adults. Such as #metoo movements and the like.
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Because there is an increasing trend of (non-mongering) males working less hours and living off their parents or even a girlfriend.
They don't have any genetalia? What letter is that in the LGBTQ.... acronym?
I'll agree the whole going to school, not finding a career that is self supporting, and living in your parents basement probably has an impact on the mindset of a 20 something male
When you reference Austin, TX you have a fair amount of "kids" that come from money.....peeling off a few 100's to them isn't the same as the kid who comes from middle class America.
I grew up when HIV and many of the other nasty viruses that are out there today didn't exist. I'm not going to give a blow by blow account but having sex by the time you hit 16 was no big deal. There were girls that "didn't" but there were plenty that did and the ones that didn't for the most part had a Plan B to keep steady boyfriends happy.
I also do believe women are much more comfortable being the aggressor today than 10 years ago.
My last steady SA girl was about as forward as any man could want once the bedroom door closed. In public you'd never expect it. Not by her looks or by her actions.
The sex decline could be due to a variety of reasons in addition to the ones mentioned in the article. I haven't had sex in a while because I don't go actively looking for it. As of recently I've just been focusing on my career
that number seems very high. these guys are probably much more of the exception than the norm.
Agreed
So these guys had no SO to hide this from. There was no reason they couldn't be banging a GF. In earlier decades these guys probably would have been married.
There does seem to be in both men and women a new turning against marriage.
And so it does not surprise me then that these same sorts of guys are also showing up at high mileage strip clubs.
SJG
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DC I don't mean to disregard your experiences but is it possible that you've just had an unusual experience that is shaping your opinion? I don't really notice people being so exclusively into one time hookups as you describe. Either your experience is odd or maybe your college is just super weird but I don't think your experience can really be generalized to apply to all colleges. Plenty of people have one night stands here but its not like that's literally all anyone does. I know plenty of people who have relationships like you describe, they can just text somebody and they come over and have sex.
Nobody should listen to anything PhatBoy says, he probably rapes most of those girls anyway and then acts like it counts under his "no doesn't mean no" philosophy and then convinces himself he's the casanova of TUSCL. In-fact, I'm going to put him on ignore from now on and I suggest y'all do the same.
So of those in college, they do not want relationships or marriage. They insist that such be delayed until they are out of college and pursuing an elite career. And, only to a man who is the same.
https://www.amazon.com/Marriage-Markets-…
And their earlier work:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01MZ5…
And so these two authors came to the unexpected conclusion that as these women have turned entirely to the hook up culture, it is a necessity that they have access to contraception and abortion. Otherwise they could fall into the plight of the Red Families, locked out of the elite levels of education and employment.
DC has posted about his experiences before and I believe that this is exactly what he is seeing.
Even when I was in college, so very long ago, I feel now that I was also seeing this.
And I am not making these women wrong either. They have the right to do what they want, and in large measure I am applauding them. But for a young man in college, and with little outside world experience, and not understanding what is going on, it can be really hard on him.
I do not agree with the interpretations of these MG-TOW - MRA - Men's Right's types. But in their underlying experience I believe that there is truth. College in particular can really suck.
And so some do turn to P4P, even thought they have no spouse they need to hide things from.
SJG
The women want to graduate. More women graduate from college today than men. And the same for graduate school.
They know that unless a man has graduated and is in fact proceeding with an elite career, then likely there will be employment troubles down the road. They don't want to have to break up a nest egg in a divorce. So marriage is to be delayed.
So that is fine, if you get hook ups and if that is what you want.
The women do not want relationships because they take time, and they need that time for their studies.
Elliot Rodger was wrong to blame the women, they did not make our world the way it is. But if he was out in the work place, women would have been throwing themselves at him. I can testify to that first hand. They jump into your field of vision and call out to you and offer their phone numbers.
And I remember now a time at the Pink Poodle when a real hot big tits dance was throwing herself at an Asian man about the same height and weight as Elliot.
I commented to another girl, "Well, she likes him."
If a guy understands the situation of college and is prepared to make the conscious choice, usually VoCel, then fine. But most guys do not have the degree of perception at that age.
SJG
The hookup oriented women, they do it that way because they want to be the ones in the driver's seat. They will get what they want, but without extra baggage.
Out in the work place, things are totally different. In college can be hell, especially if one does not understand it. And most young men will not understand it if they do not have other outside experience. College entails a huge slate of costs, and only some of them are directly monetary.
SJG
College is also way too much money and a poor venue for an education. We need to create other options.
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But my organization will be even better.
SJG
DC9428 thats not true. You dont have to pay to have sex with hot chicks. And admitting you're a trick is nothing to be proud of. Instead of working on yourself and trying to better yourself and get women the normal way, you try to justify this shit. That's not manly and not respectable.
College girls do not want relationships. With no outside career, college man has no standing among outside women, and he has no time either.
College can be a prolonged hell.
Need to invent other alternatives, in my opinion.
SJG
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Admit that I'm suspicious of young guys who inhabit strip clubs and call escorts. I didn't set foot in a strip club until age 38.
However just in a practical sense, if you consider time-value-of-money, it's a big mistake to blow money on luxuries like strippers and expensive cars while you're in your 20s. All that can wait until you have a career and passive income.
...unless you happen to be a trust-fund baby.
As a regular? Tbh I don’t think I can. He reminds me too much of my boyfriend. Mostly in how he talks. It would be too weird.
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@che Well that sucks. Idk what the situation is like in the Philippines. But if she wanted to do FS for money, then she should have pretended to be more enthusiastic about it. If there is a trafficking situation, then that sucks :(
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@RandomMember Hmm, what would you consider a good net worth and/or income level?
Sex isn't rape! A drunk girl who WANTS to fuck you is more normal than paying a hoe who just needs/wants the money. YOU'RE the real sexual predator lurking around strip clubs looking for dancers desperate enough to engage in prostitution or who need money badly enough to give you a GFE. THATS exploitive.
“- I'm really a jerk which is why strippers hate me
- I'm broke
- I spend all day posting on TUSCL b/c I have no life
- I am scared of approaching women in night clubs
- I couldn't get a date or get laid to save my life: I have no idea how women, or normal people think”
Source https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php5?id…
But instead of reaching out to others to improve himself just like DC is doing, he has instead spent the last 12 years doing nothing to fix his own issues.
wish i was doing stripclubs (as we know some of them are now) when i was young. my life would have been simpler in many ways.
Sometimes, a customer will do that. These customer types tend to be occasional big spenders rather than people who frequent strip clubs.
But I think most of this site would agree with you. I remember when one person wrote a review describing his own spending:
https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php5?id…
This individual received plenty of backlash on his review and there was even a thread here on the discussion board dedicated to it.
Every girlfriend Ive had has been a stripper and my side bitches too.
I said alcohol loosens bitches up. That's not date rape. That's the norm retard.
Why don’t you log back into your RomanticLover account?
https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php5?id…
I really need to give a lot of thanks to the accounts:
RomanicLover
&&&
Troll_Defense_HQ
For giving me all the information needed. Spotting the pattern is a lot easier because of it. Lol!
DC9428 work on your reading comprehension retard.
And no, I won’t stop trolling you. You have provided me and several other users over the years too much entertainment.
“Dougster has evolved significantly over the 11 years he's been sharing here. First, he was obsessed with STARTING DISCUSSIONS IN ALL CAPS, afterwards moving on to a focus on DATING strippers, followed by attacking older customers who "need to pay for it". His latest incarnation using the current alias is lovable bad guy.
While Dougster admitted to paying for lap dances as a newbie, he quickly moved on to PUA (pick-up artist) techniques to get into relationships with strippers, especially during the davids era, and that remains his goal to this day”
https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php5?id…
I made a couple of observations based on your posting style, and then later realized others already figured you out a long time ago.
1. Too hyper aware of other posters considering “phatboy” takes too many breaks from this board to realize what’s going on?
2. Timing of your posts in relation to your other aliases.
3. In the long run, showing yourself inconsistent and running off onto a new persona. And maybe coming back after a while.
...I can’t believe I actually stopped believing you were a troll for a short while. That was pretty silly of me lol.
But now that I have a better grip on your posting style, I hopefully won’t be making that mistake ever again. And I’ll keep having fun with you for a while, with several of your accounts.