I had way more exposure to young hot women when I was in my early 20's, so thus I think I was more horny back then. Now I work 8 hours+ a day where probably 1% or less of the women I work with, I find attractive. So I think it's more environmental than anything else with me.
I was never truly horny until mid-20's and since then nothing has changed. I think about sex multiple times a day every day. The only thing that distracts me from thinking about sex is when I'm on a complex project or at an event with friends or family. Or sleeping. The rest of the time my brain is sex sex sex sex.
It feels about the same or maybe a little more horny. Rather than have sex twice a day in my 20s, it's more like every other day now. So I feel friskier longer.
Earlier when I followed @bj99's advice to cut down on spending for cosmetics and clothes for the Missus, she got mad and lost her libido for about 3 weeks. I damn near wanted to fuck a mailbox ... and almost paid a dancer for sex.
@DC I meant like sexual things..like sexting porn etc. That was just in the summer b4 school started lol I had things on my mind..I would think or indulge in those things literally for like 5 hrs a day...Lmao . now just like 20 min a day..
My porn viewing has definitely gone down with age. I definitely don't look at porn every day. Not even every week. I get most of my fill glancing at women outside, at the gym, library, strip club, etc. I also look at the pics the dancers post on here to imgur or imgbox. I'm mostly no-fap, not for any real reason other than I get plenty of sex and prefer that to self release.
Much less horny. That's normal with age I heard.
Except for a while many mornings and things are about the same.
I'm wondering if some of that could be a supernatural entity invading my dreams. I haven't noticed the entity during the day time recently so it or she may have left to bug someone else who posts here. I think she occasionally may have possessed dancers dancing for me which makes things interesting. Dancers didn't understand what happened.
i'm 31 and i ain't nearly as horny as when i was a youngin, never got the pussy back then though cause i was a broke ass nigga. funny eh. i don't know if i am not as horny as i used to be or if its just all the booze and coke and sizzurp i been drinking.
Maybe, supposedly Testosterone levels are related to nutritious eating and regular exercise. So perhaps this can be maintained as one ages, to a certain point?
I was going to post @Papi's point about the inevitable decline in testosterone with age, but thought it was too obvious. By the time you're @Flag's age, there's so little testosterone that all the muscles sag like an enfeebled geriatric elf, and your dick is perpetually flaccid.
Depends on how it affects the person. I was very violent and aggressive as a teen and early 20s adult. Wrestling, racketball, explosives (chemistry), and Death Metal were some of my outlets. Without those and regular sex, I might have been even more of a handful.
So High-T can contribute to more than just sex drive. For me, High-T literally drives everything. I wouldn't have dated or chased women successfully without it nor taken other risks.
I'm thinking the guys were maybe just getting more or different women? For me years 24/25 were the best for that. At that point I started getting more responsive to women's needs in bed, too. Or at least paying attention to it and learning fast. Her g-spot, the a-spot, multiple orgasms for her. Also I didn't really start getting good at sex until 26, but the Missus would probably say it was more around 38 after me getting tips from stripperweb.
Maybe in the teens it was: I must have sex. Whereas late twenties and thirties it was: I must have MOAR sex! Like more if a different type of sex drive?
Like when the Missus still worked, we'd be getting ready in the morning to leave together, then I'd toss her over the arm of the couch by the front door, hike up her short skirt, and fuck her good. Brazen and more often. I didn't do quite that much as a teen. But that's a function of opportunity, and cohabitation. Plus being *driven* to act instead of *sitting* frustrated. A lot of teens for me was courting and getting to know each other.
Not sure what the other guys mean as I'm not them. But I still do think about sex nonstop. It's just I get less spontaneous erections these days. And sometimes (starting at 25) the erections dysfunction from time to time (and you just laugh about it and start again).
N94 - that’s your 2nd best avatar pic, Girl!!
Tough question - in my 20’s I was a late bloomer and opportunities were WAY scarcer than now. Call it “conditioned response”, but my recent later years have been much more active, so it’s more on my mind.
@nicole1994 posted: "Lol I wanaknow what sex tips u learned from stripper web?"
A few tips:
+ Be rougher with your hands than with your dick. (DC this doesn’t mean what you think it means).
+ porn is not an instructions manual***
+ You’re going too fast if you can’t keep the pace steady for 9-10 minutes.***
+ Slow down your steady thrust pace, if you can’t last 9 minutes.***
+ You’re too out of shape, slow down until you find a pace you can keep up.
+ Switch positions every 1.5 to 3.0 minutes.
+ Be a multi-tasker! Use her erogenous zones. All of them!
*** already knew that, but to be reminded of this from time to time is still good advice.
I like to add:
+ Your female partner should multiple orgasm about 3 times. 1-2 times from sex with your dick (steady pace helps). 1-2 times though DATY or stimulation with your hand (esp. thumb).
+ Good multiple orgasms are built from good foreplay. Foreplay is what helps her cum later on. Oral sex is not foreplay. Oral sex is sex. I mean actual foreplay, like kissing or touch.
+ Her vaginal canal has natural lubrication that seems to last 9-10 minutes with normal stimulation. After which, it may be uncomfortable for her.
+ rather than have LONG sessions (30 minutes). Try for MULTIPLE sessions of 9-10 minutes each. It will keep her lubed better. It will stimulate her better. Make her more likely to cum. Plus I’d rather have multiple pops (MSOG) that just one pop.
+ Plan 5-10 minutes of rest time between male climaxes, a little longer if your over 35.
ON BEING A MULTI TASKER
One of the dancers, (vyanka maybe?) mentioned a particular male porn star and cited his multi tasking abilities. In addition to him giving her the D, he would also use both hands, her mouth, and anything else. So while fucking the actress he would be pitching or sucking her nipples (sometimes hard),
He’d map out all sorts of erogenous zones. Her neck. Her butt. Her inner thighs. The part just in front of her ear, that can make some women go wild with Xtasy when rubbed with the tip of a man’s tongue. Maybe light hair pulling (light!). Maybe lightly holding one or both of her wrists behind her or at her sides. It’s slight, but sort of constricting for her and ooh so fun. I’d like BDSM light. Some ladies like that, just a light feeling of restriction, and the guy’s power.
Maybe work a finger up her ass hole, while your fucking her with your dick. For light DP (double penetration). Maybe keep working a finger up her ass while fucking her, then give her your other thumb to suck on for the feeling of triple penetration!! (use your head to balance you on the bed, I’m a wrestler, so this type of fucking while playing twister makes sense to me). Or do all of that, while alternating which nipple you suck on (suck hard).
Basically the porn star would be fucking actress, but every finger, palm, forearm, tongue, lips (not all at once, obviously) he’s me seriously multi tasking, like fucking her but touching her neck, which sucking a nipple, and his other hand working something. Then he’d switch around.
Every woman is different. You need to try something, then watch the response you get. Breathing, moaning, do her pupils dilate? Does her cheeks flush white or turn red? Does she squirm a little because it feels good.
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When I was 19, I once jerked off 12 times in 1 day. That's my record.
Earlier when I followed @bj99's advice to cut down on spending for cosmetics and clothes for the Missus, she got mad and lost her libido for about 3 weeks. I damn near wanted to fuck a mailbox ... and almost paid a dancer for sex.
Except for a while many mornings and things are about the same.
I'm wondering if some of that could be a supernatural entity invading my dreams. I haven't noticed the entity during the day time recently so it or she may have left to bug someone else who posts here. I think she occasionally may have possessed dancers dancing for me which makes things interesting. Dancers didn't understand what happened.
So High-T can contribute to more than just sex drive. For me, High-T literally drives everything. I wouldn't have dated or chased women successfully without it nor taken other risks.
I'm thinking the guys were maybe just getting more or different women? For me years 24/25 were the best for that. At that point I started getting more responsive to women's needs in bed, too. Or at least paying attention to it and learning fast. Her g-spot, the a-spot, multiple orgasms for her. Also I didn't really start getting good at sex until 26, but the Missus would probably say it was more around 38 after me getting tips from stripperweb.
Maybe in the teens it was: I must have sex. Whereas late twenties and thirties it was: I must have MOAR sex! Like more if a different type of sex drive?
Not sure what the other guys mean as I'm not them. But I still do think about sex nonstop. It's just I get less spontaneous erections these days. And sometimes (starting at 25) the erections dysfunction from time to time (and you just laugh about it and start again).
Tough question - in my 20’s I was a late bloomer and opportunities were WAY scarcer than now. Call it “conditioned response”, but my recent later years have been much more active, so it’s more on my mind.
A few tips:
+ Be rougher with your hands than with your dick. (DC this doesn’t mean what you think it means).
+ porn is not an instructions manual***
+ You’re going too fast if you can’t keep the pace steady for 9-10 minutes.***
+ Slow down your steady thrust pace, if you can’t last 9 minutes.***
+ You’re too out of shape, slow down until you find a pace you can keep up.
+ Switch positions every 1.5 to 3.0 minutes.
+ Be a multi-tasker! Use her erogenous zones. All of them!
*** already knew that, but to be reminded of this from time to time is still good advice.
I like to add:
+ Your female partner should multiple orgasm about 3 times. 1-2 times from sex with your dick (steady pace helps). 1-2 times though DATY or stimulation with your hand (esp. thumb).
+ Good multiple orgasms are built from good foreplay. Foreplay is what helps her cum later on. Oral sex is not foreplay. Oral sex is sex. I mean actual foreplay, like kissing or touch.
+ Her vaginal canal has natural lubrication that seems to last 9-10 minutes with normal stimulation. After which, it may be uncomfortable for her.
+ rather than have LONG sessions (30 minutes). Try for MULTIPLE sessions of 9-10 minutes each. It will keep her lubed better. It will stimulate her better. Make her more likely to cum. Plus I’d rather have multiple pops (MSOG) that just one pop.
+ Plan 5-10 minutes of rest time between male climaxes, a little longer if your over 35.
ON BEING A MULTI TASKER
One of the dancers, (vyanka maybe?) mentioned a particular male porn star and cited his multi tasking abilities. In addition to him giving her the D, he would also use both hands, her mouth, and anything else. So while fucking the actress he would be pitching or sucking her nipples (sometimes hard),
He’d map out all sorts of erogenous zones. Her neck. Her butt. Her inner thighs. The part just in front of her ear, that can make some women go wild with Xtasy when rubbed with the tip of a man’s tongue. Maybe light hair pulling (light!). Maybe lightly holding one or both of her wrists behind her or at her sides. It’s slight, but sort of constricting for her and ooh so fun. I’d like BDSM light. Some ladies like that, just a light feeling of restriction, and the guy’s power.
Maybe work a finger up her ass hole, while your fucking her with your dick. For light DP (double penetration). Maybe keep working a finger up her ass while fucking her, then give her your other thumb to suck on for the feeling of triple penetration!! (use your head to balance you on the bed, I’m a wrestler, so this type of fucking while playing twister makes sense to me). Or do all of that, while alternating which nipple you suck on (suck hard).
Basically the porn star would be fucking actress, but every finger, palm, forearm, tongue, lips (not all at once, obviously) he’s me seriously multi tasking, like fucking her but touching her neck, which sucking a nipple, and his other hand working something. Then he’d switch around.
Every woman is different. You need to try something, then watch the response you get. Breathing, moaning, do her pupils dilate? Does her cheeks flush white or turn red? Does she squirm a little because it feels good.