Escorts that ask for a copy of your ID
Evasparkling
Atlanta
So I just from Charlotte North Carolina to North Miami Beach about two months ago and I'm still trying to get used to the new environment.
So I have been trying to hook up with some escorts but most of the Beautiful ones I keep coming across usually ask for references { You have to know someone that has seen her before} OR { You need to send a copy of your Passport/Drivers License}
I have sent my Picture ID only once to an escort back in Charlotte North Carolina because she only does incalls but I was requesting for an outcall to my hotel room at Sheraton Airport Hotel.
The only reason I even sent my picture to her was because she had a Video in her ad that has her name, number and the date she posted that ad that way I knew I wasn't getting cat fished and knew exactly what I had coming my way.
I'm bit paranoid because these ones only have pictures on their ads but no Video whatsoever.
So I'm kinda hesitant to send my Picture ID over the internet to someone I barely know.
Are there anybody with similar experiences and should I just go ahead send a copy of my Picture ID.
So I have been trying to hook up with some escorts but most of the Beautiful ones I keep coming across usually ask for references { You have to know someone that has seen her before} OR { You need to send a copy of your Passport/Drivers License}
I have sent my Picture ID only once to an escort back in Charlotte North Carolina because she only does incalls but I was requesting for an outcall to my hotel room at Sheraton Airport Hotel.
The only reason I even sent my picture to her was because she had a Video in her ad that has her name, number and the date she posted that ad that way I knew I wasn't getting cat fished and knew exactly what I had coming my way.
I'm bit paranoid because these ones only have pictures on their ads but no Video whatsoever.
So I'm kinda hesitant to send my Picture ID over the internet to someone I barely know.
Are there anybody with similar experiences and should I just go ahead send a copy of my Picture ID.
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It's completely real. I don't wanna show her my ID since she didn't even have any video up with her name, number and today date to prove to me that she was actually real like I requested inorder to ensure that I'm not being Cat fished.
@Jacklash
I just moved to North Miami Beach about two (2) months ago and haven't had time to explore the Strip Clubs. Are there any strip club what visiting around North Miami Beach and environs where one can easily get extras plus OTC with a stripper? I'm not looking to break a bank so definitely looking for something cheaper but worth it.
Since I have never done OTC with a stripper before, are there any particular method for asking strippers for OTC without coming off as creepy?
My preference will probably be Latinas. Don't really mind if they have fake boobs since most of them do.
Budget will probably be around $200-$500 with $500 being the max I'm willing to spend during any given visit.
There have been a lot of rumors about the action at strip clubs being with the dancers. This is not actually the case. What you do is when the bouncer shakes your hand is to rub your finger against his palm. The rest will come naturally.
Like you, I had sent my information over to what looked like high-end or high-class escorts. I suspect it is part of their screening protocol (safety?) and that she's OK with pissing off a certain % of clients. I mostly went along with it because (1) they conveyed they might give might give a better experience and (2) because they on StripperWeb talk about this type screen and how it's totally normal and escorts should do it.
Look, I get the reasoning for the screening because we pose a bigger threat to them they they generally do to us. Or biggest worry is she's uglier/fatter/older than her pics (or steals our identity) and their biggest worry is they could wind up dead. She's going to be behind a closed door with some man she's never met and doesn't know and who's likely twice her size and three times her strength. So I get it.
With that said, I agree with others like @Subraman. It's the same reason we don't pre-pay. It's because (1) we have the money and because (2) we don't have to. Plus if not her, then there are PLENTY of escorts out there who will live-and-let-live or let her greed or desperate need of money override her risk to safety, in order to score some quick cash, without screening. And if she's willing to accept the risks, why not?
I would not send her a copy of your ID.
Why not try to find a willing partner from a strip club, as others have suggested.
I will definitely explore the strip club scene and try to find a willing partner. Since I have never done OTC with a stripper before, any good advice for someone like me trying to score OTC with a stripper for the first time?
https://www.tuscl.net/profile.php5?id=25…
If only there was a system for such a thing? ;) --> https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=…
The part about the white suit is satire, hpefully you're street smart, so you could tell. But it's a useful start. Written by the same-day-OTC master, himself.
written by sex is-a-beautiful-thing OTC master.
Basically, what you're doing is solicitation, no way around it. So there's not really a polite way to do it. Some are down to just ask. Some will just ask you. The sensitive way to do it is to work it into conversation, but in a way that gives her *an out*. Rather than put her on the spot for a yes or no.
Something like (lean in with eye contact, smile): Oh you like X? I have a rare collection of X at home. I'd like to show you sometime. (pause) I'd totally compensate you for your time, of course. (pause).
Then move on in the conversation. She'll get the hint, and might bite. Maybe she needs 60 seconds to process it, first? There are lots of variations. It helps if you make it playful instead of straight-up solicitation.
Though some girls respond to the direct question. Usually when I'm asked, they're more direct and say, "I'll fuck you for money." or "You look like / You tip like the kind of guy looking for sex, are you?"
Talking with her at your table or bar side for a few minutes lets you feel her out.
Sorry but I didn't understand your question. What I'm trying to say it's very unusual & rare for escorts to request for a Customer Identification Card before an appointment can be booked.
@Dominic77
Thanks for your explanation. I do appreciate it.
@Twentyfive
Thanks very much. That line "do you ever meet guys outside the club" should definitely work
SJG
Wait. I thought deploying The System (tm) meant complaining in public about any stripper who tries to know you after you choke her and steal her purse
Perhaps if you show her your ID w/ the personal info blacked-out (DL #; address; etc), and maybe just showing your first name and pic, that may be safe-enough (in her not having that much personal info) and enough for her given the rest of the ID looks legit (all state symbols, text, etc) - and you just explain you're not comfortable giving out sensitive personal info to an unknown party.
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SJG
Where is the course? On Udemy?
Dammit! I probably could have been married by now! Fuck fuck fuck fuck, I knew it didn't feel right to tell them to take a hike if they wanted me to meet them at Taco Bell for lunch.
https://www.tuscl.net/article.php?id=912
Far better than dealing with escorts!
SJG
My book recommendations to Dominic77, at the tail end, and then about Path of Least Resistance. Both speak to issues Nicole raised on her earlier thread. Some say Path of Least Resistance is really about The Prodigal Son.
https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=…
TeX, anyone have any experience using this? Mathematical notation is quite complex, and historically computers have fallen way short.
https://tex.stackexchange.com/questions/…
also now getting:
FORTH : the fourth-generation language / Steve Burnap. (1986)
Steely Dan Live 2006 Charlotte - HQ video ( really good! )
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQXobc4A…
Unapologetic: A Black, Queer, and Feminist Mandate for Radical Movements
https://www.amazon.com/Unapologetic-Femi….
From the Grassroots to the Ballot Box: How Gubernatorial Candidate Andrew Gillum Won in Florida
https://www.democracynow.org/2018/8/30/f…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APem-XOA…
But right now Shailynn is getting ready because next week will be his first day of high school.
SJG