The outlier dancer
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
Sunday, May 6, 2018 12:05 PM
You ever have a stripper that gave you a dance that blew away your expectations of all dancers/dances going forward? I first started having this happen with the current ATF. And then more recently, i had a few more hot dancers that gave unbelievable dances, yes even better than the ATF. Now i pretty much compare any new dance i receive from a stripper to these dances. If they don't measure up, which is very likely (especially at a club where VHM/UHM dances don't happen), i cut the dances to pretty much to one, maybe two to give a chance for her to improve. And then never again. These aren't ROB dances or low mileage or low fun. Not even close. Just at a different but very noticeable level to me. Some of these dances might have even been "former" favorite level of dances. I never SCed before with this mindset, but now it seems a bit strange for me. Makes visits less fun than before, if i don't experience these great dances.
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It is very simple why I became selective and only got dances with the ATF. She was a non-extras dancer that worked in an extras club for a while. She wasn’t shy about giving high contact lap dances. While what she did meets very basic expectations at a lot of clubs, it was well beyond what you would typically expect at this club.
Flash in a pan though - dancer never seems to last long.
I can understand - it is unsustainable.
... and rest of the dancers become very boring for a while.
I have experienced certain dancers that made me think/feel DAMN I wasn't expecting that but I don't expect that to be the norm with most other dancers - unfortunately for me even if a dancer is very-good I can't be with the same dancer every time over and over and over again - I prefer to experience someone new every time I hit the club - I'm not looking for a GF IRL and less-so in the clubs.
Then it would stink if you were "captive" to the few clubs that i frequent as a non-traveler. Because sooner or later, eventually every girl that works there would become long in the tooth to you after enough visits, besides the occasional new talent that shows up every now and then. Even then, the new ones that don't make it usually suck, and the ones that do stick around will suffer the same fate from your predicament. Fortunately, a decent percentage of these newer dancers give hotter dances than i expected.
@chess
I guess that's my predicament. Disappointment will always be unavoidable, especially when i consider value. But at the same time, it kind of helps me "save" money. By using this as the litmus test, i avoid getting more dances from girls that don't quite measure up, then and in the future. But i agree, raising expectations is not a good way to have a good time. I "almost" feel bad for all these girls coming up to me, like they have no idea what they are going up against.
@loper
Yes, that is my concern. That the last experience i had with the most recent super hot dancer wasn't the last and only time i saw her. Can't get her out of my head. I'm already kicking myself for not doing a VIP/CR with her and i was heavily considering it at the time. It was toward the end of my visit and money was getting tight, but i had just enough. Oh well, hopefully that wasn't the last i saw of her. If it was, live and learn.
There are a lot of clubs in my region of South FL - in the past I'd rotate up to 10-clubs but with time I narrowed it to about 3 or 4 that were the most up my PL-alley and gave the best ROI/value - consequently I've been kinda burned-out on my local-scene and feels too-much like the same-o same-o and would do me good to take an extended break or do some SC-trips b/c I don't often get a PL-rush these days
SJG
SJG
Had that a couple of times at Bourdon Street. One I was damn-near laughing during the dance, it was comical.
But a better way is to find out right there in the front room if you and that girl can get it on. The basic test is the front room makeout session. Mostly its just a matter of how you talk to her. If yes, continue in the back room, and expect to be waking up with her in the mornings.
Otherwise cut your losses and find a replacement.
SJG
You always want to get your girl off script as early as possible. "dances" is a gimmick invented for take money off of chumps.
All kinds of ways to hand a girl money that don't involve falling for the dances scam.
SJG