Ever Not Pay a Dancer

@Ch3ll - Haha, yes! My old (now closed) club had an odd set-up where the lap dance area was to the immediate left of the entrance. I was in the habit of getting a final lap dance "for the road" from my favorite there just before I left. Like you, when I checked my wallet the next day I realized I had forgotten to pay her. The next time I went to the club I did give the money. She was surprised, said she didn't remember me not paying, but that she would gladly take it!

On another occasion at the same place, I forget to pay my bar tab, LOL. I was a regular and the waitress knew me well, so it was a true tab (no credit card imprint involved). Luckily I remembered about half way home, turned around, and went back and paid. Needless to say, the waitress was relieved to see me.

Im shocked she didnt realize it(or didnt say anything).

Q How can I make a stripper scream and moan?

A Don't pay her.

The only time I never paid a ROB dancer was one who effectively doubled the # of dances to some extreme number....I'm well known for generous tipping and over paying...but this bitch was really pushing it...When it came time to pay after about 12 songs....(she says 30 or some ridiculous shit) I did straight walk out on her. I came back a week later, never saw the girl again at my home club...If I didn't pay someone now, they all know me and I'd probably get a text or message lol...But I wouldn't do that.

When that happens it’s usually a result of having too much to drink, although I have never not paid a dancer, my friend did that one time accidentally a few weeks later she ran into me and told me about it. I promised her to tell my friend and I did. The next day after I told him he went to the club found the dancer and paid her. She subsequently told me about him coming in and apologizing then she proceeded to buy all of my drinks on that afternoon.

Several times I've been caught up in post dance conversation with regular dancers or we're hugging/cuddling and we both kinda forget the money part of things, but I've always caught myself before leaving the club. They're usually embarrassed but I figure it's worth the short-term awkwardness to keep things cool for the future.

I have forgotten a few times, always Mary Janes fault. Usually I remember eventually, and occasionally they remind me. I don’t think I’ve ever walked out without paying though.

It’s happened to me once that I know of. The guy was pretty drunk and I forgot until way later.

^^Did you cut him later?

Once with a favorite dancer, we had done a few lapdances and the next song was beginning. I told her I had spent my money and coudn't be able to pay for the next one. But she said "Don't worry, it's okay". That was the first and only time I got freebie lapdances at a club.

Almost. She was about to walk off as she was called to stage. WAs about to leave before having to chase her down.

Buying dances is a chumps game!

On your lap, start feeding her money. Civilianize her and let her drop her psychological barriers with a front room makeout session.

Then when it is time for your own pants to come down, you invite her to the back room.

Then take her home with you and continue to see her regularly.

Select the girl you plan on waking up in the mornings with. Be prepared for that to ensue.

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By accident, almost once.

About a dozen years ago at the now closed Fantasy Ranch in Arlington, TX

Why did you not pay, and was there any negative fall out?

And I also have to ask, did you select the girl you want to be waking up with in the mornings with and approach her yourself? And did you feed her money and let a front room makeout session ensue, before inviting her to the back room so that your own pants could come down? Do you agree that doing it this way would have averted any poor performance problems with the girl, as well as providing you with an excellent regular bed mate?

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It was nearing closing time and I was thinking of calling it a night - saw a tanned thick blond with a black woman's body and decided to get 3 last LDs (I had $60 left) - she was attractive and had stripper-game - she was very confident and talked to you as if someone you were picking up at a bar that wanted to be picked- up - after the dances we talked for another 15 minutes outside the LD area - she then tells me "are you gonna tip me for my dances" - I said no that I was outta $$$ (thinking I had already given her my last $60 and she was asking for a tip on top) - she then says "so you're not gonna pay me for my dances?" - at this point I was confused and as I was gonna tell her "but I already paid you" I reached into my pocket to double-check I didn't have any $$$ left and sure-enough I still had the 3 $20s in my pocket - I was a bit embarrassed b/c I would never not pay someone their $$$, stripper or not - anyway since she had been treating/talking-to me like a regular guy instead of a PL I had forgotten she was a dancer I had to pay, kinda - my M.O. was to pay a dancer as soon as I was done with the dances, but we kept on talking as soon as we finished the dances and I was caught up in the convo and got trown off from my M.O. - anyway I apologized and told her I was used to paying as soon as my dances were done but had gotten distracted with the conversation and after 15 minutes of talking I had forgotten about not having payed her since I always paid as soon as the dances were over.

Happens occasionally. Mostly newbies. Once waitress and I both forgot to settle the tab. I feel really bad though. Try to make it up next visit if dancer still there.

Only once I did not regret. At All Stars in San Antonio, getting lap dances - and in the middle of 5th or 6th dance - the dancer just bails on me as she saw a big customer walk in (she left saying I'll be back). But never came back even as I got dances from others.

At one of the clubs I used to go to regularly, I stuck around til the end once. I got a dance from a new girl and when it ended, she just took off and went to the dressing room. I went to the rest room and when I was done, she was all dressed up and walking to her car. I never did see her again, at least there anyway.

My first time at Diamond Dolls Pompano about 4 years ago.

Was a busy weekend night - a light skinned ebony approached me and after some talking I agree to a dance - she was slender so not really my type but had a nice figure and the only ebony there.

We go to the dance-booths and they're all full - we wait to the end of the song and a couple in one of the booths looks like they're done - the song ends and the dancer that just finished her dance pulls open the curtain and begins to get dressed while the PL that just got dances just sits there although we're waiting to use the booth - the dancer finally finishes putting on her elaborate outfit then tells the PL how much it is - the PL decides to then start looking for his $$$ and sorting it and finally pays her and then eventually tIey walk out the booth - by this time it feels like a 1/3+ of the new song has elapsed by the time I sit down, so I tell her I wanna wait for the next song (since songs here were usually only 3-minutes long at $25 a piece) - she kinda nods yes at me telling her to wait for the next song and she stands in front of me lazily swaying side to side fully clothed - with about 20-seconds left she starts to take her clothes off I assume getting ready for the new song that will start shortly.

New song starts and I verify with her "this is the first song right?" - she replies "this is what we're gonna do ..." - I didn't let her finish her sentence and walked out of the booth not paying her anything (I wasn't interested in anything else than yeah this is our first song as I thought we had agreed to - nor was I interested in the "I'll give you part of the next song" shit - I leave the booth and go stand in the main-room - as I'm leaving the booth I hear her trying to get the bouncer's attention but for w/e reason he ignores her and he's kinda busy talking to some other dancers - as I stood in the main room I was expecting a bouncer or manager to come up to me with her complaint nut no one ever did.

On several occasions I have gotten floor dances, started talking VIP, gone go VIP, paid for VIP, and the girls never mentioned paying for the floor dances. I don’t know if they did this intentionally and decided to comp me the floor dances since I got the VIP, or just forgot. I know I just forgot and didn’t realize it until later.

@ realDougster, are all of your jokes old? You are not funny; you could at least come up w some new not funny.

I'll be paying her next visit for sure. I think she was more interested in changing and getting home or whatever it being 2 AM in the morning.

I had a fav walk away once before me paying her so she could get on stage, but when she came back I paid her. I'm a little more cautious if it's with a dancer I'm not too familiar with.

I don't pay most dancers!

I once got out of paying $140 because I said something that disturbed the dancer so much she immediately left the lap dance area and went back to her dressing room. I went back to my seat and she came back 5 minutes later flanked by 2 of her friends and told me to leave. She had been crying I think but never asked me for payment.

Now, understand that I was young and new to interacting with women and was still a virgin. Having a partially naked young girl in my lap rubbing her breasts on me kind of takes away a lot of inhibitions I might have towards saying awful things. At $20 a song (though it might have even been $10 per song), I was probably getting bored with touching just her breasts and probably started going south trying for some kitty play. This is sort of what I remember:

"What if I don't want you to touch me there?"

"But I want to give you an orgasm."

"What if I don't want an orgasm?"

"Even rape victims can have orgasms."

^ Holy fuck man. I hope you've vastly improved your dirty talk skills sense then...

I’ve never not paid. Once - I had just finished fucking a dancer - I was still hard and she had just cleaned me up. I’m standing outside of the booth - and she tells me it’s $80 - a bargain for CFS. The bouncer is standing in front of me - and I reach into my pocket - no money! I’m a bit concerned - as I had money for dances. I do a quick pocket check - and find my money in another pocket.

Liwet, lol thats fucked up.

@liwet that’s borderline menacing you’re lucky that you were asked to leave around here that would have resulted in an accidental run in with a door or worse.

I several times forgot to lay my ATF for the day’s fucking. I’d usually catch up with her at the club and give it to her. Once, she made it all the way home before either of us noticed. She got a bigger payout the next time.

One time I owed a dancer 100 bucks, I accidentally shorted her and gave her 80 bucks. I realized this quickly, I then found her and gave her the remaining 20.

gmd,

"I several times forgot to lay my ATF for the day’s fucking." WTF???