Two groups here
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Seems to me we have two fairly distinct groups of people here, with widely divergent interests: those who enjoy talking about their club visits and how much contact they get, and those (like me) who enjoy talking about strip clubs in more general terms. People in the former group talk mostly about specific clubs and specific girls. People in the latter group seem more interested in discussing what makes dancers tick and how clubs relate to society. If you look at each subject heading it's fairly easy to predict who is going to respond and who isn't. And what they're each going to say. Maybe I've been here too long.
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Chitown, I think you'd have to go back a lot farther than the 1980's to have witnessed the change to which you refer. Frankly I don't think clubs have changed all that much since the 1980's except for the three areas we all talk about: clubs in some areas moving upscale so they can charge more, dancer talent going downhill as the number of clubs and dancers increases, and higher contact and extras becoming more readily available to combat declining dancer incomes. These are all pretty gradual trends, rather than changes in kind, that have been going on for a long time. Which is what interests me the most here.
Chitown, I think you'd have to go back a lot farther than the 1980's to have witnessed the change to which you refer. Frankly I don't think clubs have changed all that much since the 1980's except for the three areas we all talk about: clubs in some areas moving upscale so they can charge more, dancer talent going downhill as the number of clubs and dancers increases, and higher contact and extras becoming more readily available to combat declining dancer incomes. These are all pretty gradual trends, rather than changes in kind, that have been going on for a long time. Which is what interests me the most here.
The main reason I thought we kept things general is that this is a national board (potentially international), and there's another section devoted to specific clubs. Here, we can share opinions about issues that aren't confined to our local club or area. However, I think anything can get dull when the discussions are always too general, so it's good to bring up specifics as long as it doesn't narrow the conversation too much.
BTW, I agree that mentioning specific club or dancer names in regards to illegal activity is a bad idea. The sad fact is that the local club boards have become so inundated with BS from jealous dancers that it's difficult to believe anything that you read on them anyway.
And we've had lots of previous threads about us and they've gotten a lot of responses, so somebidy must be interested in learning more about each other here. Personally I find it interesting to know a little ore about who is posting here. But what puzzles me is why anyone would bother reading and responding to a thread in which they claim no interest?
I agree with the comment about both groups of people. The only thing I am concerned with is posting reviews that are too detailed. It has been stated in previous discussions that those reviews can get the very activities that are being discussed gone - either by some persons version of a 'good time' being misunderstood as an act of prostitution or someone blatantly saying that if you go to Club A and get a LD from Girl A and tip her a certain amount you will get a BJ/FS or something of that ilk. This can be dangerous. I try to keep my experiences somewhat general when it comes to an open forum... not sure how others feel.
I don't get to go clubbing very often, usually only once every three or four months. While I read the discussions about club politics, societal relevance and what makes a dancer tick, I generally focus on the individual clubs and who gives the best dance in the club. I don't have a thousand bucks per trip to test drive multiple dancers at several clubs in each city I may be passing through, so my interest lies more with the nitty-gritty info.
Now then, before anyone jumps on me for being a cheap SOB while clubbing, I tip well, at the rail and after a good VIP dance. I do not tip each and every girl that walks across the stage, just the ones I might be interested spending some time with during my visit.
My reason for participating on the site is the information sharing so I can make the best use of my money possible.
I would also like to see more new blood here just to try and breathe some new life into the topics. Talking about other posters is about as exciting as watching a fat stripper swing around the pole...