Onyk , Foxxy's or Gold diggers. Which one would you recommend?

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• Cashman1234

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  7 years ago

  I’m not an expert on Houston clubs. But I would not recommend trying to get dates or a girlfriend in a strip club. What you will find at specific extras oriented clubs, will be paid extras. If you are able to arrange sex outside - it will also be paid. If you are looking for a civilian type of relationship - what you find in strip clubs will be very different.
• jackslash

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  7 years ago

  I don't know the Houston scene, but you should definitely date a stripper.
• Chaz6422

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  7 years ago

  Oooh I read this just in time! Hadn't been on here in a minute since I've been reading more articles on another for other hobbies(not gonna advertise against TUSCL...they've been wonderful to me! ). But from what I've read both here and in other places... There's a top 5 list in my mind. I personally have only been to gold diggers as far as my list goes... But I'm planning to explore these other spots too. My list is based on my own preference and what in looking for... Lots of ass, lots of Pussy, and my dollar going far! #1 Gold Diggers #2. G5 Primetime #3. ST Lounge #4. Foxxys #5. Club Onyx PM me for more info if you like.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  If u don't have game to get puss in the real world b/c ur introverted, then how do u plan to get it from hot strippers whose sole purpose for being in the club is to get paid; most of them r sharks and they'll eat u for lunch; unless u implied paid sex and dates.
• Cashman1234

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  7 years ago

  I saw that as well Papi. I didn’t mention that, as I didn’t want to be too negative, but I’m glad you did. He’s either going to get very frustrated, or very broke, or both.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  Visited Onyx once, upscale AA club with attractive ebonies and quality staff - $20/dance. I keep up with the reviews of Gold Diggers but never visited, seems more raunchy than Onyx and $10 floor-dances and $20 VIP dances I believe. Both clubs are good if one is into ebonies they're just a bit different, it's up to you to visit and decide for yourself which one is better
• Chaz6422

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  7 years ago

  Raunchy is an understatement for Diggers. Onyx and Diggers are two polar opposites with only two things in common, black girls and being in Houston lol.
• Darkhorse23

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  7 years ago

  Wow i'm actually regretting that i posted my question, you guys really do a lot of assuming on here. When did i imply i didn't have "game" to get women in real life. I really didn't want to get in full detail about myself but i'm new to this city, and just finished school back in Jan 2016 out of the state so simply now that i'm in Houston to stay(my parents live out here)i'm trying to go to many places in Houston to give myself the best chance to be seen and choose, and also find women of interest to me. And yes i'm introverted which simply means i'm not a big club or bar person. That's never been my thing, but i do realize if i want to meet the type of women that i'm interested in, then i gotta get out the house more. Thanks anyway to those who actually stuck to my question instead of diverting into who i am, and my pulling capabilities.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  Damn, I gotta hit Gold Diggers
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  Your "logic" is illogical - if u can pull pussy then why go into a hardened target like strip clubs and deal with the drama many of those girls bring - most of us on here have way more experience in strip clubs than u seem to have, we're just giving it to you straight, sorry if that is what your millennial sensibilities didn't wanna hear - if u r gonna be that thin-skinned and sensitive, you r gonma learn some hard lessons in the shark-infested waters of strip clubs - we r actually trying to help you
• Darkhorse23

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  7 years ago

  Millenial sensibilities? Really man? How condescending of you smh, but expecting anything less from a "white hispanic" guy in his mid 40's would be silly of me. I personally never understood that "logic" either. How are you both white and hispanic at the same time, i always felt people who claim that suffer from some type of identity crisis but i digress. To answer your question though, one of my closet friends shared with me the amount of strippers he's had sex with on many occasions. So anyway taking account his experiences with strippers and seeing as strippers tend to be GENERALLY more physically attractive/sexually appealing than most women giving strip clubs another look sparked my interest, and yes i was referring to actually going into one and trying to pull numbers from a few that I really like. After all they are still women at the end of the day..right?
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  Outta the house and almost out of juice on my cell ph, will reply to your misunderstandings tomorrow
• Cashman1234

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  7 years ago

  This is what I expected. He’s upset with our reality check. Papi is right again, he doesn’t want to hear the truth. Clubs aren’t good places to meet girls if you want civilian dates. Clubs are fun for introverted guys because you pay girls and they act interested. But, the dancers will quickly find another mark as soon as your cash gets low. Good luck with your plans. It’s good you are still living with your parents. Hopefully you have a good paying job, as this is an expensive hobby.
• TFP

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  7 years ago

  Sounds like you have the same agenda as another member named SJG. At least so far you don't sound like a bonafide lunatic like him. Hey if you wanna hit the strip club to try to pull dancers, more power to you. I'd imagine that they deal with men trying to get at them all the time and thus might be harder to crack their defensive shell. I'd think it would actually be easier to get at them OUTSIDE of the club. But I digress. Good luck you you and let us know if you're successful.
• PrimetimeSchein

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  7 years ago

  Look man the guys on here can be direct but I'm tell you it's for your own good. This club world is no joke and these dancers are legitimate hustlers in every sense of the world. Even veteran mongers take losses. You might not like their delivery but they're giving you the honest truth. If you're just finishing school you might not even have enough cash to get into this world. Shit by you being so young the dancers probably won't take you seriously. If you think a civies girl will use you, you haven't seen shit yet! Especially in a SC scene like Houston! You might not be ready for rhis
• Chaz6422

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  7 years ago

  ^^^^^^^^++++++1!
• Cashman1234

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  7 years ago

  Well said BigTezzy. Sometimes, folks ask for advice, and they get upset when the answers go in a different direction than they expected. Rather than getting upset, it’s best to use the knowledge and learn from it. This hobby can be expensive. The expense is part of the reason there are many older guys who post here. However, for a young (uninformed) hobbyist, the learning curve can be very expensive.
• Darkhorse23

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  7 years ago

  Well honestly guys i wasn't saying anything about going in there and spending my whole check, i just wanted to check out the scene and see what it's about. Yes the direction of the answers kinda took me back so that did offend me somewhat, but i do appreciate the honest advice though. My friend i was referring to even gave it to me straight saying that no matter how good looking, charismatic or whatever you are, there is always someone in there with more of those qualities than you so don't go in there thinking you going be special because those girls are all about money at the end of the day. Nonetheless date a stripper that was probably me talking out of my neck, but i would like to sleep with one, actually many of them....
• Darkhorse23

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  7 years ago

  @Big Teezy Understood bro i get where you coming from. @TFB Thanks for the well wishes. Yeah i like certain type of women so i'm just trying to go too as many places where they are to try and pull on. @Cashman1234 My intention is not go in there and empty my bank account, i'm fully aware i'm not financially in the place that many of you older guys are to be spending money like that. Thank you for the well wishes though.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  "... but expecting anything less from a "white hispanic" guy in his mid 40's would be silly of me. I personally never understood that "logic" either. How are you both white and hispanic at the same time, i always felt people who claim that suffer from some type of identity crisis but i digress ..." OK junior - I see you were so bent out of shape w.r.t. my previous post that you went ahead and had to "research me" by reading my lengthy bio on my profile - and I guess besides being millennially-sensitive I guess you seem racially sensitive also to jump on my white-Hispanic statement like white-on-rice (I hope this last one also doesn't offend your sensibilities) - but I'll explain the reason for my white-Hispanic statement since I imagine there are also others than wonder why I put it that way. First of all is not to emphasize my "whiteness". I was born in Cuba which is in the Caribbean - the Caribbean has a fair # of black people as a relic of slavery-times when many African slaves were brought to the Caribbean either to work the fertile lands in the Caribbean or on their way to other parts of the Americas. Cuba being a former colony of Spain, the majority race is white, but due to the influx of slaves it also has a black population as well as a fair-amount of mixing thru the centuries - thus there are black Cubans, mulato Cubans (black/whtie mix, and many white-Cubans are olive-skinned/naturally-tanned - I myself are fairly-pale and most Cubans confuse me for an Anglo. There are lots of Cubans in Miami where I live so South Floridians know there are white Cubans as well as other color Cubans - but when I lived in Dallas where there isn't a Cuban population per se, at least not when I lived there in the 2000s, on multiple occasions when I told Dallas people I was from Cuba I would get something like "I thought Cubans were black" or "I thought Cubans were dark-skinned" - thus it appeared to me that those not familiar w/ Hispanics, and Cubans in particular, were not too-aware of the ethnic makeups. In the context of TUSCL, I write A LOT of reviews, and I happen to also mostly visit all-black clubs thus most of my reviews are of black-club visits. Thus being that there seemed to be folks that had it in mind that most Hispanics were dark-skinned, particularly Caribbean Cubans, I thought I'd specify my skin-color to give context to my reviews of black-clubs since I write a lot of black-club reviews - i.e. I wanted to give the POV/angle of a white-skinned person's multiple visits of black-clubs b/c IME not many whites go to all-black clubs - IME 90% of the time I am the only white-skinned person in the entire club when I hit the small black clubs I hit - thus my white-Hispanic comment is solely for context to my reviews and my experience(s) as a white-skinned guy hitting all-black clubs - subsequently I have gotten multiple TUSCL messages from several white-guys asking me for info since they have wanted to visit black-clubs but hadn't for X, Y, or Z.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  w.r.t. your OP, it came across as you were not getting much-action and thought that you would get-it in strip-clubs, thus my original comment. First of all, this site is mostly strip club customers that are looking to get the most value for their $$$ in strip-clubs, not much about how to pull free stripper-pussy - this site has a wealth of strip-club info but won't help you much w.r.t. strategies for pulling free stripper pussy and free-dates - perhaps there are other sites that delve into this particular subject? I would imagine there are guys that do pull free-pussy from strip-clubs; but I also imagine that for every one guy that pulls this off, there are probably 100, if not a 1000, that get burned by strippers. Most guys go to strip-clubs to enjoy seeing attractive women naked (or nearly naked), squeeze some titties and get a good-grind, and in some clubs more than that - a lot of dudes that go into SCs just to look at some tits can end-up meeting a dancer that will play them like a piano and make him think she's really into him and then she bleeds him dry - this is usually the M.O.; i.e. guys getting played and bled-dry by strippers vs guys pulling free-pussy, thus most of the comments on this thread. If your mindset going-in is to try to score w/ the chicks, then that's good that you know what you are there for rather than the guy that just goes in to see some titties then gets played by a dancer pretending to be into him. There is a school-of-thought on TUSCL that if one wants to date/fuck a dancer for free, best not to spend $$$ on her in the club - most dancers already have a boyfriend, sometimes girlfriend, and sometimes both, and a baby-daddy is fairly common - thus dancers don't go to the club to "hook-up", they go there to make $$$ - they usually already got a man or prefer them to find them outside the club - once a custy starts spending $$$ on a dancer usually he goes from being a guy to a walking-ATM and that is all most-dancers will see you ass, thus the school-of-thought on-here by many to not spend $$$ on the girls except some drinks and such (that is if you want them to see you as a guy and not a walking-ATM to be fleeced). Anyway - we tend to bust each others' balls around here and disagree a fair bit and I guess as a newb you would not know that which is understandable - now that it seems a straight-forward approach is not to your personal liking I'll try to be be more diplomatic as to not make you wanna leave the site b/c if you are interested in strip-clubs there is a lot you can learn here. I have no interest in a "war of words" with you and that is not my style and has not been for the 5-years I've been on this site - thus I'll give you the last word and I'll leave it at that.
• Darkhorse23

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  7 years ago

  @Papi_Chulo I appreciate your comments especially the last one. In all honesty i don't really care about your racial background, i just felt I was being attacked(and on a personal note i've had some bad dating experiences that i'm trying to move on from) and my ego took over. In retrospect I shouldn't have done that, especially being that i'm an AA male myself. With that being said I apologize. You're right though, having the right mindset is important and knowing what you want is most important. For me i'm interested basically in the sexual experiences paid for or "free" doesn't really to me though pulling an attractive stripper would be quite an accomplishment for someone like me. Anyway as i research this site and read many of these past discussions i'm realizing there is so much about this world i know nothing about so it would be wise for me to listen to those with more experience. With that being said i appreciate you for giving it to me straight. I'll take everything you have shared with me and keep that in mind when I start going in a few months. No malice or "war of words" will be had going forward. We're good.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  :)
• Darkhorse23

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  7 years ago

  After having a week to think it over and assess where i'm at in my life common sense finally kicked back in and i've decided that i'm going leave strip clubs alone and stick to escorts. You guys were right all it would lead to is deep frustration and wasted money. Thanks again guys. ...peace