Do you PLs have your own limits?

37 comments

• shailynn

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  7 years ago

  I typically don’t give a stripper my social security number or my home address.
• Doces300

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  7 years ago

  My last name and address is usually of limits. I broke my own cardinal rule recently and hoping it does not bite me in the ass. Physically I will do BBBJ but only CFS and yes I have gone down on strippers without a barrier with no STDs so far, but usually only those who recent std exams and pass my physical inspection. Yes I know how stupid that is, but hell, something will kill me sooner or later anyways. I also get regular checks for stds.
• 4got2wipe

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  7 years ago

  I understand if you don't want to share, but you married SirLapdancealot? I can see why a married guy (or a guy in a committed LTR) would draw the line. I think it's admirable and brilliant that you set limits. Not sure why you would set sexual limits if you're not married/in an LTR. For me it is drugs. I don't want to be around them. Also, keep things safe.
• 4got2wipe

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  7 years ago

  Scratch the question I asked SirLapdancealot. Just saw lapdanceking82's thread where you referred to your wife. Like I said, admirable and brilliant! ;)
• shadowcat

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  7 years ago

  No anal!
• SirLapdancealot

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  7 years ago

  @4got2wipe yes my marriage is important to me and is the key factor defining my limits. If I were single I would likely limit myself to always wearing a condom but have BJs and FS with strippers. Although my wife turns a blind eye to my porn and clubbing, she doesn't know the magnitude and mileage of my LDs. I don't know truly where she would stand if she knew, but at least I have the personal knowledge that I will never have sex with another woman which is a vow I took. And yes I know LDKing pushes boundaries and definition of 'sex' but it is a limit that my conscience can accept. The fact that she allows my porn and some clubbing is something that I love about her and I want to respect that (as best possible for a POS PL).
• bubba267

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  7 years ago

  I draw the line at double penetration...
• jackslash

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  7 years ago

  I draw the line at joining the strippers in the donkey shows in Tijuana.
• FTS

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  7 years ago

  Limits that I have and don't wish to exceed without extreme cautionary measures: No hard drugs, no BBFS, no DATY/O, no marriage Limits that I have that I want to exceed: FIV, CFS ITC/OTC, BJ ITC/OTC
• shadowcat

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  7 years ago

  But bubba you know who could really use the money now. :)
• wallanon

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  7 years ago

  Limits? Some. Maybe. For now. The other day I decided to pass on a dancer who was obviously, surprisingly desperate and completely bit on my white knight maneuver. Does that count? [view link]
• Subraman

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  7 years ago

  I have some limits. I am also a believer that (most) rules are meant to be broken -- you need to have the flexibility and wisdom to recognize when it's the right situation to do so. My limits, every one of which I've broken at some time or other, even if only once: - No unprotected contact with her body fluids, other than maybe light kissing. Alas, that means no BBBJ or BBDATY or BBFS - She can't come to my house - She doesn't get to know my real name - I don't do drugs with them, or let them do drugs around me
• SirLapdancealot

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  7 years ago

  The non-sex limits for me are to only know my first name and know that I'm married and what I do for a living. And this is only if asked. Anything beyond this is off limits.
• vincemichaels

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  7 years ago

  Wasting my time on dancers I don't like.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  I draw the line at a dancer wanting to be my GF (not b/c I'm so desirable but b/c they're looking for someone to take care of them ($$$)) :)
• SirLapdancealot

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  7 years ago

  @Papi_Chulo that wanting to be a sugar baby, not GF.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  ^ I guess that is what i meant
• MackTruck

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  7 years ago

  My limit is two shits at McD's a day
• DisRuptive1

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  7 years ago

  I never tell a stripper anything that I've done with other strippers. Also no small talk during dances. We can small talk when I'm not paying you.
• flagooner

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  7 years ago

  Yes
• twentyfive

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  7 years ago

  Drugs sex in the club.
• rh48hr

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  7 years ago

  Very good question. 1) No drugs. 2) No Anal 3) No MMF threesomes 4) I will not be come a BF, husband or sugar daddy Those are off the top of my head. I may come up with more if I think about it.
• MrDeuce

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  7 years ago

  Yes, excellent question, to which my answer is identical to rh48hr's plus: 5. No FS
• Corvus

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  7 years ago

  I didn't know we were supposed to have limits. Damn.
• whodey

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  7 years ago

  Rh48hr put it perfectly so I'll just add a couple of more. 1) No drugs. 2) No Anal 3) No MMF threesomes 4) I will not be come a BF, husband or sugar daddy 5) I will not "lend" a stripper money. I only give money to strippers who have earned it 6) No fat chicks (only room for one fat person in a pay for play situation and that's me)
• Cashman1234

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  7 years ago

  I have very few limits - but my main limit is that I always wear a condom. Being safe is important.
• SirLapdancealot

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  7 years ago

  LOL all you no MMF threesome guys don't want another dick involved. I can relate to that.
• larryfisherman

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  7 years ago

  I've slipped up a couple of times, but no bsreback sex!
• wildbourbon

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  7 years ago

  In most cases I use a variation of my true first name... Last year I made the mistake of using my real first name with a girl I had seen before for a photo shoot and we got together for a second shoot. She ended up staying at my hotel and when we went to check out just before noon the next morning, the valet asked for my last name to get my car. Without thinking, I blurted it out in front of her and her eyes blossomed when the valet brought it to the front. This little indiscretion created a lot of trouble in my personal life but as luck would have it, she shortly became a popular web cam model and quickly forgot about me! Outside of that...protection is required for all contact.
• pensionking

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  7 years ago

  Not in my home Not in my town Not in my county Never my last name Cash only No drugs, ever No loans I have the only dick in the room
• dancewdcpa

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  7 years ago

  No BB. Safety first!
• sharkhunter

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  7 years ago

  My first rule. I have to be good with whatever. Second rule. Don't argue if her mouth is full. Teeth can hurt.
• vincemichaels

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  7 years ago

  Yeah, I don't let the faggots here, Douchester/txtittydumbass, Trucidos suck my dick. LMAO
• Mate27

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  7 years ago

  I agree with the OP, and if they happen to give me a sample of their pussy, it better taste like butterscotch!
• Dominic77

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  7 years ago

  Keep it covered No blow back into my personal life Be home at a decent hour @SirLapdanceAlot said: "I don't touch my dancer's directly." ^^^ I follow that, too, but it's more of a club and dancer imposed rule. But for the most part I follow the golden rule of treating others how I'd want to be treated rather than being opportunistic. That may change as and if I become more predatory. I figure it bothers the dancers so I don't do it (not sure why I care but I do). Contact is nice but it's not everything. For now I'm having fun so why change it. TL;dr : today butterscotch, tomorrow their soul. ;-) [view link]
• SirLapdancealot

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  7 years ago

  ^@D77 To be clear I just don't touch her pussy directly, if at all. And YAY! Finally someone else with limits like me!
• Mate27

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  7 years ago

  Larry Fisherman says he doesn do bareback! He better be freaking out after going to Detroit and the stripper slipped it in and told him not to worry about it.