I am an LDK only PL. My limits are no direct contact with my genitals and I don't touch my dancer's directly. Just curious where others stand. Are there things you limit yourself to by choice with a stripper?
I am an LDK only PL. My limits are no direct contact with my genitals and I don't touch my dancer's directly. Just curious where others stand. Are there things you limit yourself to by choice with a stripper?
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last commentI typically don’t give a stripper my social security number or my home address.
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My last name and address is usually of limits. I broke my own cardinal rule recently and hoping it does not bite me in the ass. Physically I will do BBBJ but only CFS and yes I have gone down on strippers without a barrier with no STDs so far, but usually only those who recent std exams and pass my physical inspection. Yes I know how stupid that is, but hell, something will kill me sooner or later anyways. I also get regular checks for stds.
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I understand if you don't want to share, but you married SirLapdancealot?
I can see why a married guy (or a guy in a committed LTR) would draw the line. I think it's admirable and brilliant that you set limits. Not sure why you would set sexual limits if you're not married/in an LTR.
For me it is drugs. I don't want to be around them.
Also, keep things safe.
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Scratch the question I asked SirLapdancealot. Just saw lapdanceking82's thread where you referred to your wife.
Like I said, admirable and brilliant! ;)
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No anal!
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@4got2wipe yes my marriage is important to me and is the key factor defining my limits. If I were single I would likely limit myself to always wearing a condom but have BJs and FS with strippers.
Although my wife turns a blind eye to my porn and clubbing, she doesn't know the magnitude and mileage of my LDs. I don't know truly where she would stand if she knew, but at least I have the personal knowledge that I will never have sex with another woman which is a vow I took. And yes I know LDKing pushes boundaries and definition of 'sex' but it is a limit that my conscience can accept. The fact that she allows my porn and some clubbing is something that I love about her and I want to respect that (as best possible for a POS PL).
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I draw the line at double penetration...
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I draw the line at joining the strippers in the donkey shows in Tijuana.
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Limits that I have and don't wish to exceed without extreme cautionary measures:
No hard drugs, no BBFS, no DATY/O, no marriage
Limits that I have that I want to exceed:
FIV, CFS ITC/OTC, BJ ITC/OTC
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But bubba you know who could really use the money now. :)
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Limits? Some. Maybe. For now.
The other day I decided to pass on a dancer who was obviously, surprisingly desperate and completely bit on my white knight maneuver. Does that count?
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I have some limits. I am also a believer that (most) rules are meant to be broken -- you need to have the flexibility and wisdom to recognize when it's the right situation to do so.
My limits, every one of which I've broken at some time or other, even if only once:
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The non-sex limits for me are to only know my first name and know that I'm married and what I do for a living. And this is only if asked. Anything beyond this is off limits.
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Wasting my time on dancers I don't like.
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I draw the line at a dancer wanting to be my GF (not b/c I'm so desirable but b/c they're looking for someone to take care of them ($$$))
:)
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@Papi_Chulo that wanting to be a sugar baby, not GF.
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^ I guess that is what i meant
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My limit is two shits at McD's a day
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I never tell a stripper anything that I've done with other strippers. Also no small talk during dances. We can small talk when I'm not paying you.
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Yes
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Drugs sex in the club.
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Very good question.
Those are off the top of my head. I may come up with more if I think about it.
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Yes, excellent question, to which my answer is identical to rh48hr's plus:
5. No FS
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I didn't know we were supposed to have limits. Damn.
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Rh48hr put it perfectly so I'll just add a couple of more.
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I have very few limits - but my main limit is that I always wear a condom. Being safe is important.
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LOL all you no MMF threesome guys don't want another dick involved. I can relate to that.
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I've slipped up a couple of times, but no bsreback sex!
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In most cases I use a variation of my true first name...
Last year I made the mistake of using my real first name with a girl I had seen before for a photo shoot and we got together for a second shoot. She ended up staying at my hotel and when we went to check out just before noon the next morning, the valet asked for my last name to get my car. Without thinking, I blurted it out in front of her and her eyes blossomed when the valet brought it to the front.
This little indiscretion created a lot of trouble in my personal life but as luck would have it, she shortly became a popular web cam model and quickly forgot about me!
Outside of that...protection is required for all contact.
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Not in my home
Not in my town
Not in my county
Never my last name
Cash only
No drugs, ever
No loans
I have the only dick in the room
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No BB.
Safety first!
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My first rule. I have to be good with whatever.
Second rule. Don't argue if her mouth is full. Teeth can hurt.
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Yeah, I don't let the faggots here, Douchester/txtittydumbass, Trucidos suck my dick. LMAO
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I agree with the OP, and if they happen to give me a sample of their pussy, it better taste like butterscotch!
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Keep it covered
No blow back into my personal life
Be home at a decent hour
@SirLapdanceAlot said: "I don't touch my dancer's directly."
^^^ I follow that, too, but it's more of a club and dancer imposed rule. But for the most part I follow the golden rule of treating others how I'd want to be treated rather than being opportunistic. That may change as and if I become more predatory. I figure it bothers the dancers so I don't do it (not sure why I care but I do). Contact is nice but it's not everything. For now I'm having fun so why change it.
TL;dr : today butterscotch, tomorrow their soul. ;-) tuscl.net
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^@D77 To be clear I just don't touch her pussy directly, if at all.
And YAY! Finally someone else with limits like me!
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Larry Fisherman says he doesn do bareback! He better be freaking out after going to Detroit and the stripper slipped it in and told him not to worry about it.
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