A few months ago, I posted a story about a really cute college coed who was dancing to finance a degree in Mathematics and Cryptology. She has her degree with a 4.0 and her first job as a cryptologist lined up.
She will be leaving stripping behind in just two weeks. I, as well as a large group of PLs, will miss her but it's nice to know that some can make it out undamaged!
Not necessarily damaged, but I would say affected.
She's not damaged, she's just a ho - not that there's anything wrong with that
Actually, papi, she's not. She is a decidedly nonextras girl in a nonextras club, and a total rule follower. I've never even seen her in one of the increased contact rooms, but she is very popular in the regular lap dance room.
By damaged, we mean once the girl has seen men want her to dance for money, she would have trust issues with men in future relationships.
Sometimes seeing one facet predominantly distorts judgment, unless she is specially philosophical about Le humaine Condition.
Unlike the felony question on job apps, there's no question related to past sex work, or having done the low grade job of being a garbage collector. She's not damaged. Stripping sex work is a legal, legit way to make moolah. Even if she did do extras, so what.
I think any situation that shows someone first hand how ppl, and themselves, are different from what they thought, can cause disillusionment.
Most women manage to live at a socially acceptable level of hypocrisy and ignorance when it comes to how they use their sexuality, and how important it really is, and isn't, (high school girls in bikini tops holding car wash signs). It's funny bc a stripper would probably have an issue w her daughter doing a bikini car wash bc she sees it for what it is.
Most strippers can also disassociate from their sexuality. In the locker room, you don't hear girls taking ab how they got a boob job to boost their confidence, they will tell you clearly that it's to look hotter and make more money. I guess the concern is for any woman
To think that her looks affect whether someone actually cares for her, but that has to just as big an issue for civi women.
^^^ Are you sure "In the locker room, you don't hear girls taking ab how they got a boob job to boost their confidence"
I have heard rumors. Still, certain things that are unsaid but still felt in locker rooms, in spas and saloons. When you buy a 500 dollar Manohlo shoe you never say that explicitly in public, somehow you expect the universe to talk about it. The same goes about a bad hair day or a bad break up, you don't always say but you know the knowledge is being travelling over waves.
Actually, civi women do say, "I didn't get my boob job for my husband. I did it for me, so I'd feel more confident w my body." It's the acceptable thing to say ab why a women got her boobs done.
I don't know what you mean ab the shoes.
That's certainly a different double major than any other dancer I've heard about. I will google cryptology. The only thing I keep thinking about is the Crypt Keeper on some late night horror show.
"Cryptologists not only decipher codes or cryptograms, but they also invent them. ... Cryptology is still widely used by the government and the military.Feb 25, 2007" From google in case anyone is wondering. I'm not sure who she is planning on working for. If she needs security clearance, she might be trying to keep her official record clean. I heard they also check immediate relatives backgrounds as well.
Cryptology is about creating, deciphering and breaking codes like CIA does. The better term that is used is cryptography its more specific to computer science encryption, but there's nothing beyond CS now.
@Bj99... about the shoes, you'll understand one day. Consider this people wear cheap looking stuff that are expensive just to bolster social status. Its psychological. The reality is if a beggar wears a Rolex or Patek, people will consider it an imitation. People observe and judge you every moment they look at you -- everyone judges some of us are just more considerate and understanding. So you don't need to tell people you got a boob job, they'll know, some might ask you while others will not acknowledge it unless you tell them. But you yourself would have a sense of confidence from a boob job that you wanted and makes you look perfect even when others don't explicitly acknowledge it because you think they are thinking about it.
Haha, I remember reading about the possibility of hidden encrypted messages stored in online porn pictures. There are so many ways to share encrypted messages online. SJG could be sending messages via pictures linked online here and no one would suspect he is the master mind giving orders to an organization overseas. A really sneaky way of encrypting would be to use 3 dimensional data but I have a hard time explaining that one. Probably just something I remember from one my dreams communicating with a super advanced AI. supposedly quantum computers use other quantum computers in parallel universes on parallel Earrhs to increase computing power exponentially on a quantum level. Their encryption must be good. I don't know if they teach this stuff in college or not about quantum computers in parallel Earths but I read it online. I digress.
No.. You don't understand..
So enlighten us why would a woman get a boob job?
What? I already did.
You seem fixated on ppl noticing w out her having to say anything, but it's hard to tell what you mean bc you are not clear. On top of that, you imply that I don't understand bc I'm not experienced somehow, which has nothing to do w anything.
I never presumed that you have a chip on your shoulder that makes you defensive, I interpreted what you said "as is" -- i don't know what you mean about the shoes. Don't know not the same as don't understand perhaps. I presumed you implied this.
I don't have anything to be defensive ab, you just weren't clear, and you didn't explain how it related to anything I'd said. It's like you explain a bunch of stuff, without stating your point, or why if matters.
Extrapolating a bit -- women get boob job to boost their self confidence. The lack of self confidence is due to the fact that women become aware of the social gaze and way society perceives beauty. So they feel inadequate striving for the ideal beauty. So you infact do it for other people to see and tell you that you are beautiful even if its not verbal. just tell someone with fake boobs they look grotesque and see what it does to their self confidence. Also be prepared to get punched in the eye.
You rationalize it as this is something I am doing for my self confidence while the fact is your self confidence does not come from inside but from other people's confidence your good boobs.
Yes. I completely agree lol, but that's not the discussion here. The boob job thing was only an example of how strippers are more honest ab the role their sexuality and looks plays in their life. It's can be seen as damaged, but some of it is just more honest, if distasteful.
In my experience, countless women get boob jobs to increase their income.....
She's damaged, as soon as she decided to work old men for $$ in exchange for sexual favors.