Why would a dancer not want their customer to watch them at the stage?
yahtzee74
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I was sitting at a table, far away from the stage, and talking with a dancer I regularly get dances from. When it was time for her to go on stage she told me stay put and that she would be back. Why would she tell me to stay there?
Another time when she was on stage it seemed she didn't give me any attention, or look at me, while she was dancing even though I was tipping. But she did smile and say thank you while she collected my tip.
Otherwise she was still very friendly off the stage and later gave me very good lap dances.
Another time when she was on stage it seemed she didn't give me any attention, or look at me, while she was dancing even though I was tipping. But she did smile and say thank you while she collected my tip.
Otherwise she was still very friendly off the stage and later gave me very good lap dances.
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Her telling you to stay put could also just be her trying to keep you from getting dances from the competition while she is on stage.
The concept of stage tipping seems like it's in kind of a state of flux in some clubs, too. I have seen a couple of newer dancers not approach to take singles, or only take one per set. Maybe they're hoping for rain.
Also, if you're up there she may think you may monopolize her time on stage and keep her from getting tipped by other PLs
As far as keeping me from going off with another dancer I think she would have been better off with me at the stage because dancers don't approach guys who are watching at the stage.
Thanks for your thoughts.
If you take all her time at the stage or make her miss out on finding other potential customers because you come up and tip several ones and no one wants to tip her after that, could be the reason. I've never had a dance tell me not to tip her at the stage but I never throw a bunch of dollar bills around. I have avoided tipping dancers after someone else made it rain.