CF wants me to be her boyfriend

Start picking out Xbox games, quit your job and get ready to smoke a lot of weed, brother. You've got it made!

Run Forest run.

Remember that she will grinding on dicks and either tempted with OTC or ITC fun or delivering it with other PLs.

Not the best of situations for a GF. Better to keep her as your ATF. My two cents. - I've been there.

lucky guy you are

wish my CF, who is also Latina, would say this to me

Can you afford to "buy her out" and have her stop stripping/whoring?

Are you ok with your woman fucking other men for money?

I'm guessing the answer to both of those questions is No. So you have two potential plays. One is to keep things pay to play. When she brings up that stuff just say you think she's sexy and enjoy being with her but don't want a girlfriend. The other is to try to find that sweet spot where you have intimacy and fuck but aren't really exclusive. It's basically impossible to sustain long term.

Good luck.

what happens in vegas should stay in vegas. real life and real relationships aren't like a weekend las vegas getaway. the real test is how she feels about you after a month or two, when the las vegas trip is just a memory and reality is hitting you in the face again. and correspondingly, how you feel about her under the same conditions.

This sounds very familiar to me....

My advice is run

Just like sex can ruin a good friendship, a relationship will ruin good sex. I'd advise not to do it. She's a full service sex worker, so obviously she's made a lifestyle of bad decisions.

Dude, you've led her along with increasingly girlfriend-type experiences....that's how you end up getting a girlfriend. If you just want wham-bam thank you ma'am, keep it at that.

Yeah, "buying her out" seems to be the best option, but I doubt I could afford, and probably wouldn't want to at this stage even if I could.

She pays living expenses for herself, her mom, her adult son, one of her brothers, and her sister and her sister's children. This includes rent, food, school sypploes, laptops, phone bills, etc.

She mentioned on an earlier date how her last boyfriend wanted her to quit. She stopped for 6 months, then went back because her son was having money problems and this caused the breakup.

The heart wants what the heart wants, man.

You're doomed. ;-)

If she's got that much baggage (supporting an extended family), and has already sacrificed relationships for that baggage, then you need to dial it back immediately. Also, an adult son? How old is she?!

OK. Enough of the smart ass replies.

Given the amount of family baggage this woman brings along, I'd say there is no way it could ever work out. She is obviously seeing you as husband material, and you are just as obviously considering it or you wouldn't have posted!

When my ATF was dancing, she had a very similar situation. Divorced, supporting a her in-service daughter and her grandson, and with another son who was actually very responsible.

I used to idly wonder if we could make a go of it if my wife were to somehow disappear from my life. The feelings were certainly there on both sides. The conclusion that I came to was that the drama in her life would inevitably poison the relationship.

"I guess it's PL101 not to develop feelings for a stripper. But I do like her. Damn it! What the fuck do I do now?"

Get tested. For everything. Pay to get her tested. For everything. Enjoy it while it lasts. Don't offer to buy her out and support her, especially if she's got a whole army of people she's whoring for. If they rely on her income they're going to want a say in things. That's a problem. It's okay to have feelings. Just don't let them wreck your judgment.

@ Dadillac. LOL

Even in a "regular" relationship, if you have to support your girl's whole family, it is bad news. There are millions of dudes, not even PL's, who would advise to avoid. Good luck and enjoy it while you can.

I was gonna say if you're in your 50's and she's in her 20's, then she most likely is looking for a sugar daddy situation. But looking back at the previous thread it looks like you're in your early 30's and she's in her 40's? In that case go for it, don't look back. You only live once. But remember it ain't serious, just have fun, and remember she will be fucking other guys ITC.

Plan B if you want to keep your job would be to buy her club once things go south and turn it into a gas station. Style points if you resist visiting her at her new club when she texts you a few months later.

Enjoy the relationship while you can. Just be honest, and true to yourself. Women love monogamy, locking down a guy. If that's not what you're looking for be firm and let her know.

My 2 PL-cents.

First of all do you really want to be in a relationship with her beyond her just being hot (since you can still be w/ her w/o being in a relationship) - do you really want to be in a relationship and everything that comes w/ it besides the fucking.

When you're with someone you are also with their baggage and strippers often have a good amount of it, not to mention she may want to dance less or even stop and look at you to pick up the slack - many of these girls' lives revolve around $$$ and they either get it thru dancing or probably expect to be taken care of.

No one can say that it will or will-not work out, but dating a stripper is usually not the hgme as dating a chick that works in corporate-America - as long as you go in w/ eyes wide open and know what it may entail, then go for it if you feel you are up to it.

Agree with daddillac. Get out while the getting is good.

You're either going to fall in love with her (because that's what sex does to normal people; it's a hormone thing, the way our bodies are wired up; nothing you can do about it), or she's going to fall in love with you. Maybe both.

Good luck.