Being a regular
larryfisherman
California
Do you like being the regular of a dancer?
What I like about being the regular of a dancer is: She'll give you better dances than she would with some guy she hasn't danced with before. She might be not planning to work on a certain night, but you really want to go to the club that night and see her, you could convince her to come in on that night. Kinda reserved for the whales, but she could spend her ENTIRE shift hanging out with you, it'd probably piss off other customers that want to talk to her lol. Kinda related to my first point, but in general you'll get better treatment from her than she would give another guy.
What I don't like about being a regular: She can be too clingy, when you want to go tip someone else on stage, she'll follow you to the stage, she won't leave your side even if you encourage her to make her rounds and try to make some money. She can take you for granted, if you've spent a lot of money on her, and she thinks you're a easy target, she'll start going through the motions in the lapdances and taking advantage of you. Other hot girls won't come over and talk to you because you're labeled as "Tiffany's" regular/property.
I'm kinda split on whether I prefer it.
What about you?
What I like about being the regular of a dancer is: She'll give you better dances than she would with some guy she hasn't danced with before. She might be not planning to work on a certain night, but you really want to go to the club that night and see her, you could convince her to come in on that night. Kinda reserved for the whales, but she could spend her ENTIRE shift hanging out with you, it'd probably piss off other customers that want to talk to her lol. Kinda related to my first point, but in general you'll get better treatment from her than she would give another guy.
What I don't like about being a regular: She can be too clingy, when you want to go tip someone else on stage, she'll follow you to the stage, she won't leave your side even if you encourage her to make her rounds and try to make some money. She can take you for granted, if you've spent a lot of money on her, and she thinks you're a easy target, she'll start going through the motions in the lapdances and taking advantage of you. Other hot girls won't come over and talk to you because you're labeled as "Tiffany's" regular/property.
I'm kinda split on whether I prefer it.
What about you?
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I like the sure thing of a regular who delivers, but if she's not quite up to expectations it gets awkward. You feel like you "owe" her your money but wish you were with the hottie on stage. BTDT.
With age and experience I've taken much better control of my SC experiences. Yes, I have one current regular who i will give my money to, but she delivers. That being said, I do spend on other dancers i know or want to know too. Luckily my CF is not the drama type... "Oh you like HER better than me...". BTDT too. I've been a victim of that in days gone by.
Today it's easy for me: I do what I want. My CF delivers so she has my attention but if my ex-ATF came back to work the current regular be toast unless the ATF got religion or something. It's a common thing for a PL to feel like he owes some degree of loyalty to a dancer, but wise men say if you're not fucking her for free, you don't.
It got to the point though, that I'd tell her to stop, that nobody there was worth wasting my time with as long as *she* still wanted my money. :)
Since she's been gone, the only one I'd really consider a "regular" is the MILF, and that's not very often. There have been others with whom I've repeated, but hardly what one would call "regular."
Favorites need to be managed though. If for any reason it becomes a drag, I need to cut her loose and go to #2 and start developing a new addition to the stable.
My clubbing typically consists of spending about an hour or a bit more with my CF. Then I tell her to go ahead and hustle while I enjoy some variety (if I'm staying longer). We may spend a little more time together later just chatting and usually give a kiss goodbye if the other isn't giving or receiving dances at the time.
Yeah this holds true. My CF voluntarily put her number in my phone after I had bought dances from her on like 3 different visits. And ever since then she's beer my fav. She isn't possessive even tho I've spent lots on her
To answer question, I like being a regular for many of the reasons mentioned above like more GFE
However, I do like being known. I think that gets me some of the same effort, perks, etc that a regular gets.
If you like her, fuck her in your own bed.
Shouldn't take more than about 2 visits max to make that happen, or pass her on.
SJG
Oh... being *a* regular...
I like having "regular" status at a particular club, because the girls generally know that I'm not a lunatic and I'll pay for services rendered.
Being a regular for a particular girl is a mixed bag. It really depends on the dancer and how much SS she throws around.
And yeah, most salespeople are territorial about their custies - in the "strippers code of ethics" it is frowned upon for other dancers to approach a dancer's known regular whether she's with him at the moment or not - and even worse to approach a custy that is already sitting w/ a dancer (just like it would not be kosher for another PL to move in on a dancer that is already sitting w/ amother PL)