Strippers coming on to you
larryfisherman
California
Have you ever had a stripper let you know that she wanted to fuck you (for free) or that she wanted to be your girlfriend?
What ended up happening?
I think anonymousJim mentioned there was a stripper that wanted to be his GF, but he had a significant other at the time, so he turned it down.
What ended up happening?
I think anonymousJim mentioned there was a stripper that wanted to be his GF, but he had a significant other at the time, so he turned it down.
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These girls are just ordinary girls. So long as you don't treat them like prostitutes, they more often than not are extremely available.
Sorry that so many TUSCL people are not willing to understand this.
SJG
I remember a civvie girl visiting a strip club on two different occasions let me know that. I didn't trust them hitting on me out of the blue after I had a few drinks and planned to stay for a few hours.
Most dancers saying they wanted sex out of the blue also wanted money too so that doesn't apply. One dancer during a lap dance gave me a surprise BJ but she wanted a tip too so I think this question is only for free sex. Another dancer was determined to have sex with me and loosened me up by sucking a bit no extra charge during discounted lap dances. However she wanted a tip if we met up away from he club.
One dancer with a hot body but not so great a face wanted to fuck me bad. I didn't even agree to get laps from her , only table dances because I thought she would get me kicked out of a nice no extras club giving me a BJ in the club if I went in theback with her. She told me she would I guess trying to encourage me and she gav me no reason to think it was SS. I saw cameras in the back so I stayed out of the back.
Another dancer wasn't my type. She was in my case trying to get dances from me for line 3 or 4 visits in a row and calling my bluff. Said I didn't want to pay for dances she offered free. Declined again and she offered to take me to her place. I thought maybe she was bluffing but she looked serious. After I declined again, she never bothered me again.
Another dancer didn't want to fuck, just date at least for a start, well I just thought of two. The first I would have gone out with but at the time I just moved to South Carolina and made a promise to myself to not get involved with any more strippers. The last dancer that wanted to date was a few years ago, I never did. She told me she had 5 kids and I thought of all the baby daddies stopping by if things went too far. She's currently involved with someone else and I haven't seen her except on Facebook in like 3 years.
I could have forgotten a couple of dancers but I bet they wanted money or something so not the same.
Oh I suddenly remember another dancer who wanted to go home with me. I didnt. I didn't know her and I get suspicious of someone hitting on me trying to get me to leave a strip club within 2 seconds of talking to me.
I remember in one club, I tipped a dancer on stage a dollar and she came over and asked if I wanted to go fuck at a nearby hotel. I think she wanted 115 bucks so not a whole lot. After I said no thanks she asked for a lap dance. I passed up a lot of opportunities. Of course I would have had to keep leaving strip clubs early.
I haven't hooked up with any dancers in years. One dancer one morning asked if I ever worried about a bunch of girls ganging up on me and having their way with me. She looked serious. Not my biggest fear. She saw me smiling. I was thinking getting woken up by multiple bj's. I always wondered about the one dancer. She made me wonder if she was some kind of porn star because she asked if I ever looked at porn and she asked one time if I would like to see her on any particular web site. She was a bit crazy. Crazy girls seem to be attracted to me. That was 11 years ago so ancient history now.
Although there's a dancer at my club who had been after me for a year for dances, and I'd always say no. But she was friendly so I didn't mind conversation with her. Then last time, none of my regulars were working and none of the frumps were interesting, so I took her to VIP for the first time. I must say, I had more extras from her than I've ever had from anyone in my mostly no extras club. So maybe she wants to marry me? At the very least, she's a new regular! She knows how to shield the action from the cameras better than anyone!
"She knows how to shield the action from the cameras better than anyone!"
Sounds like a keeper!
Sharkhunter as always with the details, good job man.
What's that all mean?
- The advice "always assume that everything she says and does is designed to get more money out of you, and interpret everything as a sales pitch" is, of course, right on. Every compliment, opening up to you, being vulnerable, high mileage, "you're different", text message, going out to lunch for free, etc., is all part of the sales pitch, too.
- That said, with the above glasses on, still be open to the fact that you might score a FWB -- may be incredibly rare, but it's happened to me more than once and I'm neither particularly handsome nor charming nor wealthy.
I've dated strippers, some for a few weeks, some for a few months. Nothing really remarkable ever came of it. Some of the relationships just fizzled out, sometimes once I got a glimpse of their chaos I cut bait, sometimes once they got to know me they decided I was too boring or whatever. No fantastic blow ups, no attempted robberies, no incidents with other BF's or whatever. One got into a fight with her ex-bf (or maybe current) and asked me to come pick her up at like 3am one night, but that's about the extent of drama. At the same time, nothing great came out of it either. Maybe some really good sex, but also some fairly boring sex too.
I've also got into a few relationships that were more fuckbuddy type things. A couple of those didn't work out so well, but no major drama there either. Some angry text messages when things ended or never progressed beyond that stage, but more often than not its been an amicable split when the relationship runs its course. They have a high infant mortality rate if you will, meaning its common to meet up 2-3 times, then fizzle out. Seems like if you get past that 4th time though, the arrangement persists for a while, even if its not a regular weekly kinda thing.
Both seem more common now than the past. I'm not sure if its a change in my attitude or a change in theirs, but over the last 9 months its absolutely on the rise. I'm not especially good looking, charismatic, rich, or young.
Shit John, you are fucking 75 and 85 year olds now?
Damn.....
These days, I don't give a shit about relationships or OTC since my civvie g/f's keep me plenty busy and for a lot less money. I still club a couple times a month (used to be weekly or more). But now all I want is a few laughs, good genital stimulation and conversation with beautiful women. Since one of my g/f's is an ex-escort, I have plenty of SS (or ES? Escorth Shit?) to remind me one sex worker relationship is plenty.
I actually got tired of her because there was no sex even though she did dance naked at her house. To my surprise she suddenly wanted me as her top choice for a new boy friend which explained all the out of the blue phone calls to my home wanting me to come over and visit her at her house even though she had moved an hour away on the opposite side of the town where she worked. It was a bit frustrating driving that extra hour and I only did it twice just to visit her. A third time I stopped by, not unannounced, just to visit for a few minutes.
She wanted me to be her new bf suddenly when her previous bf which she never told me about left her and she was pregnant. Well I was already over her and never did go visit her again at her house. I got a new job in South Carolina and told her I was moving. She cried. Said something about being in love. She did keep my number or remembered me 2 or 3 years later because she called me one year or a few years later in South Carolina wanting me to visit Platinum Plus in Columbia when they had a no tip out week or weekend. She was still living in NC though. I only visited her the one time. Apparently I had gained a few pounds and didn't look like she remembered. I was in pretty good shape when she knew me. If I keep losing weight I might get back there.