What’s your take on kissing during lap dances?
Do you initiate it? Do you let her initiate it?
I’ll move in slowly and get my lips close to hers. If she pulls away a little bit, then I won’t go in for the kiss. If she doesn’t pull away, then I’ll go in for the kiss.
Always let her initiate. If it keeps happening after a while, i initiate
I usually try to follow her lead but I try to direct her to what I want.
If during our conversation I see there is chemistry (not just she is hot and I have to have her) then during the dance I act like I'm going to kiss her cheek or lips but I don't (tease her) and sometimes it makes her go for my lips but it was her choice.
it’s her call.
No kissing* for me, I prefer to keep it professional.
I would really have to feel a good vibe to kiss her on the lips. Last time I tried it, got my ass reeeeejected. Not that that is huge deterrent, but it does break up the rhythm a little bit.
Always best to let her initiate but I am always genuine with praises about attractiveness and try to mention kissable lips if I can do it and not sound like a prev.
In my experience obviously some of them don’t like it, but some of them, even if they don’t initiate it, they don’t mind it. It’s probably because I’ve been told I look like a mix of Leonardo DiCaprio and Brad Pitt (that’s a joke for the slow ones).
Never kiss a stripper on the lips. Do you know how many cocks she has already sucked today?
I had this happen last week. She did all the initiating. I just sat back and sported wood.
The more natural and open you can be with the girl, the better. The more civvilian like you can be with her the better.
Front room makeout session makes all the difference.
SJG
Oh shit...wrong account :(
nicespice Lololol
Lmfao!
Larry, better to initiate in the front room. You can be feeding her money there, and you can be relaxed and friendly with her.
Save booths and back rooms until needed. Easier to talk to her in the front room.
SJG
I don’t go to strip clubs to get kisses.
That said, I’ve noticed that if I allow, or even encourage, a dancer to talk at length about herself, if I pay attention to what she’s saying and offer her kindness and encouragement in response, I almost always get kisses.
You have to remember, many of these dancers have endured some rough times and have been shown very little love.
If you want kisses, pretend you’re more interested in her than in her titties.
Once you master the art of feigning sincerity, you’ve got it made.
"That said, I’ve noticed that if I allow, or even encourage, a dancer to talk at length about herself, if I pay attention to what she’s saying and offer her kindness and encouragement in response, I almost always get kisses. "
Well put and insightful, and also note that it is in the Front Room!
Like a first date.
SJG
Depends on the girl. There's a couple of no-fuck girls at a local club who are fine with kissing in lap dances, and so am I. The hookers however, are a different story. Not kissing a mouth that might have been licking ass or eating jizz a half hour ago.
I found early on that so long as you treat the girl as you would any other girl, then she will be eating out of your hand.
SJG
@nicespice .. you win the best post of the day, week, year!
If she's getting close, her forehead on mine I usually go in for a kiss to see if she's down. Otherwise, if I'm feeling her and she kisses me then it's all good.
^^^^^^ front room ^^^^^^^^
SJG
generally i let her initiate but you can always put yourself in a favorable position for her to do that ie. faces close and the hard "i want to fuck your brains out stare". id say a slim majority of strippers are just not gonna do it though.