I haven't tried that particular lube. I just use some simple astroglide or whatever from the adult bookstore / novelty store or from Adam and Eve online.
1. It goes without saying lose weight and don't eat a big meal. Those both help you last longer.
2. Foreplay. Here I DON'T mean fingering or oral (those are really sex, IMO). Kissing, tickling, teasing, much hair pulling, massaging, nibbling, fondling, maybe some light restriction or domination. I gets her juices flowing and then you don't need lube and she'll cum with like 1/4 of the time and effort. Don't spend too long or you'll get over stimulated yourself and you won't last as long, lol. So it's a balancing act.
3. Find a thrusting pace that you can up. If you find you can't keep pace for at least a minute or more, you are going too fast or aren't in enough shape, so slow it down. Use a consistent pace. Switch up the positions every minute or 3.
4. Porn or literotica incorrectly (IMO) suggests ladies want these super long 1 hr sessions. They don't because their vaginas star to dry up and lose lubrication (often around 10 minutes) so it can because painful if you aren't re-lubing her or doing enough 'play' to keep her aroused or re-arouse her. So try to aim for 9 minutes with some foreplay prior. Or multiple 9 minute sessions after a short rest.
5. If you're wanting to last longer than that, it's a mental game for the both of you. You need to keep you mind from getting over stimulated -- which either causes you to go soft or means you wind up not being able to cum. A slow pace and a sense of arousal helps.
6. Rough sex - for me and her - is rough with my hand and not with my dick. That drives hen wild and I last longer, too. You will last longer if you are not jack hammering her (like in porn).
7. At some point you might get ED or go soft. It happens. When it does. The two of you laugh about it and you just star again from the beginning. No bruised egos there! For he longer marathon sessions ... it is gonna happen, especially if you think too much, get anxiety, sorry too much, or what ever. I am of the mind the ED is mostly and entirely mental.
If you want we can talk about making it pleasurable for her. But that covers it for making you last longer, I think.
In summary: don't eat a big meal prior, use foreplay, slow down, use a constant pace, rougher other your hands than dick, aim for 9 minutes, switch positions every few minutes, don't get over stimulated, stop watching hard-core porn and jacking off so much.
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I just really want to punish her fat pussy
The same guy that hits on dancers
And the same guy that actually has been successful in dating dancers
It's close to the exact same game you have to run
1. It goes without saying lose weight and don't eat a big meal. Those both help you last longer.
2. Foreplay. Here I DON'T mean fingering or oral (those are really sex, IMO). Kissing, tickling, teasing, much hair pulling, massaging, nibbling, fondling, maybe some light restriction or domination. I gets her juices flowing and then you don't need lube and she'll cum with like 1/4 of the time and effort. Don't spend too long or you'll get over stimulated yourself and you won't last as long, lol. So it's a balancing act.
3. Find a thrusting pace that you can up. If you find you can't keep pace for at least a minute or more, you are going too fast or aren't in enough shape, so slow it down. Use a consistent pace. Switch up the positions every minute or 3.
4. Porn or literotica incorrectly (IMO) suggests ladies want these super long 1 hr sessions. They don't because their vaginas star to dry up and lose lubrication (often around 10 minutes) so it can because painful if you aren't re-lubing her or doing enough 'play' to keep her aroused or re-arouse her. So try to aim for 9 minutes with some foreplay prior. Or multiple 9 minute sessions after a short rest.
5. If you're wanting to last longer than that, it's a mental game for the both of you. You need to keep you mind from getting over stimulated -- which either causes you to go soft or means you wind up not being able to cum. A slow pace and a sense of arousal helps.
6. Rough sex - for me and her - is rough with my hand and not with my dick. That drives hen wild and I last longer, too. You will last longer if you are not jack hammering her (like in porn).
7. At some point you might get ED or go soft. It happens. When it does. The two of you laugh about it and you just star again from the beginning. No bruised egos there! For he longer marathon sessions ... it is gonna happen, especially if you think too much, get anxiety, sorry too much, or what ever. I am of the mind the ED is mostly and entirely mental.
If you want we can talk about making it pleasurable for her. But that covers it for making you last longer, I think.
In summary: don't eat a big meal prior, use foreplay, slow down, use a constant pace, rougher other your hands than dick, aim for 9 minutes, switch positions every few minutes, don't get over stimulated, stop watching hard-core porn and jacking off so much.
I hope that was intentional juicebox69, because it was brilliant if it was intentional! ;)
I've heard of it but it doesn't seem brilliant to me. But if you think you'll enjoy it to each his own. You be you juicebox69! :)
Get a life, @Skibum.
:)
SJG