Cutting them off
The sense of entitlement with these girls is amazing. They are so used to being worshiped and always getting their way. Some of them can't handle being told no or getting rejected. I had an ongoing OTC with a hottie, but she kept screwing things up. Despite lots of warnings, she finally effed up one too many times and I ended it. The girl lost her shit and was relentless pushing for another shot. She should have thought about that all along, while she continued fucking up a good thing.
I would love for a psychologist to examine her and give a diagnosis. I think she would be diagnosed as either a malignant narcissist or a narcissistic sociopath. Perhaps the craziest woman of I've ever known or slept with anyway.
I would love for a psychologist to examine her and give a diagnosis. I think she would be diagnosed as either a malignant narcissist or a narcissistic sociopath. Perhaps the craziest woman of I've ever known or slept with anyway.
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I've always been of the mindset that many dancers that do OTC is b/c their situation is f'ed up that they gotta reside to OTCing - i.e. the ones that got their shit together can often make due w/ what they make in the club and probably often choose to not have to get involved w/ custies OTC.
No problem says this PL. I left her about 9:00 and I got a call from her at 3:00 am, yelling and crying that she was at an address and needed an Uber to the hotel. I checked the address on Google maps and it's the ER of a major hospital. Apparently the hotel was in walking distance of her favorite stud fuck buddy. He came over with a fifth of Fireball and she drank all of it and passed out. He called 911, gave the room number and left. The cops and management had to bust the lock (guess who's card that went on?) and she got taken by ambulance to the ER.
Then she had to go back to the hotel to get her belongings.
She promised a freebie for the aggravation. She's fucking nuts.
Anyway, I tend to get close to my ATFs and her friends often, connecting with them through social media and the like. There were several who would get occasional angry notes from a friend or family member on their facebooks, for flaking on something or other. One of my ATFs lost her BFF during the time I knew her -- BFF finally had it getting stood up, when ATF flaked on an event that was very important to BFF. And, in typical stripper fashion just didn't see it -- "all these years of friendship thrown away because I missed one thing." (no, you've no-call no-text missed things for years).
Maybe take solace in the fact that many of these girls live their lives from crisis to crisis, and the behavior you see is not necessarily limited to just you, everyone in their life is probably getting a dose, and likely nothing you can do to fix it... although I HAVE had some luck when I spell out to a stripper, in crystal clear terms, my expectations for at least texting me when she's going to be late or have to cancel -- I've had good luck making it clear that I promise not to get pissed if she texts in advance, whereas I have a strict two-strikes-you're-out policy on no-call no-text events
https://youtu.be/zMMjN_lC8a8
These girls have a constant stream of new PLs coming into the club incredibly willing to put up with their shit. So I understand it, but it's still infuriating, lol.
Good call :) Leaving a stripper, or escort, or whoever, in the hotel room that your name is on and you are liable for, is akin to ... well, I dunno, maybe handing the stripper your wallet and telling her to take the money out for the dances and then not checking your wallet to see how much she took until you get home. I'm nearly always sympathetic to the customer, but this is such a common sense thing that I can't even get any sympathy... maybe it's a "Sex Industry Darwinism" at work. I understand gawker, he's insane and needs fodder to fuel his stories for tuscl :) But anyone else, it's definitely sex-world darwinism at work. I've had fun reading escort boards, reading the many many stories of guys who have done this -- once.
Good pussy overrides gold. It is not a commodity
A month later she got out of detox again and this same guy picked her up. He asked her to go into Walmart & shoplift some shit which he'd return for $ to get high. She said no so he pulled to the curb and kicked her and her luggage out of his car, leaving her broke with a discharged phone 30 miles from her house.
Two weeks later she was riding with me, saw him and asked me to stop to see her "friend". I refused, saying she ought to never speak to the POS again after what he did. She said, " oh, he called and apologized. We're friends again.
Normal thought processes, emotions, expectations of others, and response to stimuli are not to be expected after years of drug use, physical abuse, and any number of other demoralizing and demeaning acts and actions.