Stripper said I could crash at her place...
mhend69
New York
She works in two towns and I'm visiting her at her club that's in her hometown and about 2 hours away from mine. I've known her for about 2 years now. Never spent a ton on her and never asked for OTC.
Is this anything more than a friendly invite or do you guys think there's more going on? I can provide more info, I just don't know what's relevant.
Is this anything more than a friendly invite or do you guys think there's more going on? I can provide more info, I just don't know what's relevant.
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Do you play video games?
If so she sees you as baby daddy material.
- She knows such an invitation can get your heart pounding and spending more on her, but when it actually comes to the night you're going to crash at her place, something will get in the way -- her roommate is home that night, her boyfriend is crashing at her place that night, her mom is visiting her, whatever.
- There's OTC and remuneration expected
In other news: holy fuck, you go 2 hours each way to the SC, or are you staying over in that town for business purposes?
1. You said you haven't spent a ton of money on her (to you) but maybe it's a lot to her.
2. Not every hot stripper has a boyfriend and they get lonely too and she genuinely likes you.
3. She lives alone and needs help with man shit. Stay the night and fuck her (your advantage) and in return you fix her sink, fix her tv and her washer (her advantage) lol!
You're wise to be guarded. Maybe just straight up ask her why she gave you the offer. Say "I like you and am very flattered you've asked me to spend the night, but I have to ask, why me?"
I believe she does have an out of town bf which is why I have no qualms about our ITC encounters. Don't want to do anything stupid, right?
My gut is telling me it's just a friendly offer, and I will be mindful of the scenarios you guys mentioned. Regardless...It should be a fun night!
Also, plan on paying her for OTC if it actually happens; but I more expect something to come up and interfere with it if you actually accept.
Personally, I would pay for a hotel room where I could lock the door and sleep in peace.
I agree that some of the positive interpretations above are possible (e.g., Shailynn's) ... I just think those are low (very low) probability, although some of those have happened to me over teh decades I"ve been doing this, so it happens. I'd just caution you to not get too excited -- I personally think the most likely outcome is that, when it comes time for you to actually stay over, something is going to come up that prevents it. Anything past that is goodness
Neutral ground only! = club, restaurant, hotel etc. Not her place not my place
Many strippers are often used to crashing in others people's houses so she may see it as something normal, I'd be more worried about getting too acquainted w/ her to where she may want me to help her out w/ her issues
I used to go to a large mixed BYOB dive that was 60/20/20 Latin, Caucasian, AA - I had a fave thick light-skinned AA that used to drive down from OKC to dance on Fr and Sat; she would rent a car for the weekend to make the 3 hour or so drive and she would stay at a friends house for the weekend.
One weeknight I was visiting the club and was surprised to see her on a weeknight - she said she had driven down from OKC the previous weekend w/ some other girls but stayed the week b/c she needed to make extra $$$ (the other girls drove back on that Su)- she asked me if I could drive her back to OKC on the following Sunday b/c she didn't have a car this time - she said she had first asked a Mexican custy she knew but she said she didn't want to go w/ him b/c "I think he wants a little sex (for the ride)" and then asked me if I could take her b/c "I (dancer) don't wanna have to go w/ that slimy Mexican" - being Mr Helper I said I'd drive her and she said she'd make it up to me (I was hoping for some free sex but was not gonna demand it from someone in a tight-spot needing a favor) - anyway I picked her up from her friend's house on a Su and we both drove to OKC - she was good-company and I enjoyed the drive and driving thru an area I'd never seen b/f from N Texas (Dallas) to OKC - she was actually engaged to be married and on the trip had a wedding gown w/ her she had bought in Dallas and was taking back home.
Anyway in OKC I dropped her off at her cousin's house and they were having a cookout and a get together and I stayed for a few hours at her cousin's house - on the way up to OKC I had noticed the traffic way backed up going back in the Dallas direction; I was also tired and decided I was gonna spend the night in OKC (I was hoping she'd invite me to stay in her house but apparently that was a no-go; her fiance had also called her on the ph while she was in the car w/ me and sounded kinda pissed asking her who she was with) - anyway ended up staying by myself in a hotel overnight - she came by to see me the next morning b/f I left back for Dallas - her way of making it up to me apparently was inviting me to her cousin's cookout - but I was ok w/ it b/c I just wanted to help her out and didn't have nothing better to do on that Su (I was originally planning to drive back the same day)
When we agreed on our latest overnight date a week and a half ago, she revealed that she had a new, non-incarcerated boyfriend. I asked her if I needed to worry about being interrupted by an irate boyfriend. Her answer: No, he's just been released from prison and is on home detention at his mother's house across town, so he won't bother us.
She claims to be in love with both the current jailbird and the recent jailbird and will be moving in with one or the other pretty soon, so our little OTC fling is nearing its end.
No It isn't. The BF's will need drug money within a week, bail money within three months and will be back in prison in six to twelve months
mhend69, are there no good clubs closer to you?
That is one of the many non-brilliant things that could happen to you! :(
She probably just needs someone to kill the spiders. Change the channels on the tv. And drink the beer.
And not all http://memes.com/img/79175
I've been over two stripper's place and all was good. One was for OTC, the place was small so I checked out what I could, even saw a DEA cap hanging up, but in the end all was okay.
Another her place was small too. The first time wasn't really OTC, but she had been out with a friend, didn't have a car, and wanted food. The second time I dropped her and kid off after her shift, we ate, she agreed I could stay, and once again all was well.
I only trust dancers to do whatever they think is in their own interest.