Faced with a shortage of options in the US, no sexual entertainment
FrustratedInTheUS
Folks, could someone comment on the following?
I'm an American bachelor, not looking for any seedy or unsavory sexual outlets, but I'm really frustrated with some kind of Puritan/prohibitionist trend in this country that totally limits my options beyond just watching dancers from a distance. I'd like to be able to touch women but that's strictly prohibited in American strip clubs. Next door in Canada, strip clubs are full-contact and you can touch their breasts without issues. But travelling to Canada is really hard nowadays. When I tried it a few times, I was stopped by Canadian customs/border patrol agents who grilled me about why I was traveling alone and who I was and what I was planning to do in Canada, which was unpleasant. They were really suspicious--a man traveling alone, especially in our current times with what's happening around the world, raises a lot of eyebrows, so I stopped after a couple of times.
Some years ago here in the US, there were massage parlors where you could see nude masseuses and get a rub-n-tug from them with a bit of physical contact, no one really bothered these establishments, but then around 2010-2012 some kind of huge crackdown took place and they were all shut down, so now there's nothing at all. I mean, again using Canada as an example (we're not even talking full-blown brothels as in Europe or Australia), they have thousands of massage parlors with gorgeous ladies and all kinds of sexual services in every Canadian city openly advertising themselves with websites, offices, etc. It's really amazing, no one bothers them, and the quality is excellent, although Europe is even better of course.
I'm just wondering, how do American bachelors deal with this restrictive Puritanism in this country (and it's gotten worse here recently)? Travel to Canada is difficult unless you have a "normal" reason to go there, otherwise unaccompanied men are questioned. Are you guys satisfied with just watching dancers from a distance and then going home? What if you want some more physical contact and are willing to pay for it?
I'm an American bachelor, not looking for any seedy or unsavory sexual outlets, but I'm really frustrated with some kind of Puritan/prohibitionist trend in this country that totally limits my options beyond just watching dancers from a distance. I'd like to be able to touch women but that's strictly prohibited in American strip clubs. Next door in Canada, strip clubs are full-contact and you can touch their breasts without issues. But travelling to Canada is really hard nowadays. When I tried it a few times, I was stopped by Canadian customs/border patrol agents who grilled me about why I was traveling alone and who I was and what I was planning to do in Canada, which was unpleasant. They were really suspicious--a man traveling alone, especially in our current times with what's happening around the world, raises a lot of eyebrows, so I stopped after a couple of times.
Some years ago here in the US, there were massage parlors where you could see nude masseuses and get a rub-n-tug from them with a bit of physical contact, no one really bothered these establishments, but then around 2010-2012 some kind of huge crackdown took place and they were all shut down, so now there's nothing at all. I mean, again using Canada as an example (we're not even talking full-blown brothels as in Europe or Australia), they have thousands of massage parlors with gorgeous ladies and all kinds of sexual services in every Canadian city openly advertising themselves with websites, offices, etc. It's really amazing, no one bothers them, and the quality is excellent, although Europe is even better of course.
I'm just wondering, how do American bachelors deal with this restrictive Puritanism in this country (and it's gotten worse here recently)? Travel to Canada is difficult unless you have a "normal" reason to go there, otherwise unaccompanied men are questioned. Are you guys satisfied with just watching dancers from a distance and then going home? What if you want some more physical contact and are willing to pay for it?
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Although I am also American (tho I claim to be Canadian when asked in this present political climate), I am no bachelor. I am not even a bachelorette. I am a married woman, and I find promiscuous opportunities more prevalent today than even 5 years ago. Yes we are a hypocritically puritan society, at least on the surface. But sexual opportunities abound when you know where to look. Me and my fellow (male) mongers here are not ogling dancers from afar. We jump in and maneuver to get what we want....at least those of us who club in liberal areas where extras are available. Maybe you need to move (or at least club) in a more lenient area? There are escort sites where anything is available for the write price. It's all (literally) at your fingertips!
When a bachelor in any other country (like Japan, Germany, Spain, Canada, you name it) gets home from work and wants some softcore sexual entertainment, he doesn't have to resort to porn on his computer, or to watching strippers while sitting on his hands. Just as an example in Canada, not only do they have full-contact strip clubs, but this is just a small sample of what's legal and available in every Canadian city -- there are thousands more:
http://www.flirtspa.ca/
http://torontoexoticmassage.com/
http://www.musemassagespa.com/
If something like this existed in the US, there'd be instant police raids, shutdowns, and prosecution -- this is actually unthinkable here, but across the border, Canadian bachelors aren't frustrated and enjoy these kinds of services openly and legally.
* Flight Club - Inkster, MI
* Penthouse - Detroit, MI
* Follies - Atlanta, GA.
* Baby Dolls - Dallas, TX
* Tootsies - Miami, FL
* Diamond Dolls - Pompano, FL
* Mons Venus - Tampa, FL
* Tropical Lei - Upland, CA
And there are many others
:)
He said: OP, you want entertainment options? It's January. Time to take down that Christmas tree and SHOVE it up your ASS you zero review cocksucker!!!
Then, when you are done, blow me!!! Now get THE FUCK out of here with your ZERO REVIEW ass. Are we clear?
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But anyway, you should be ashamed of yourself, insulting people like that. Now I understand why I dislike strip clubs in this country so much -- if this is the typical clientele in American strip clubs I'm certainly better off staying the hell away. Thanks for confirming my suspicions.
https://www.tuscl.net/u-p.php?UID=141453
You have way too negative an outlook - you seem to come to conclusions with very little amount of facts - it seems you hwve already formed your opinion and may only want that opinion reinforced
I am really confuse by your asssertation that all US club do not allow you for touching the girls. That is simple not true. I avoid any club that do not permit my touch on the girl. Best is to exclusively go to club where there is hot girl you can freely touching. If you are you scare of the girl germ, and or wish for elevation of your gratification during dance... then wear Liquid Lapdance and go for LDK.
If you are you more brave and find the pretty girls you really enjoy, you will be surprise how often you receive the offer for OTC.
See my review list and you will see good starting list of some top club for visit with many beautiful girl and freedom to enjoy the feel of their body in your hand.
FrustratedInTheUS might be telling the truth about his border experiences. Perhaps he wears a t-shirt that says "Lock up your daughters Canadians -- I'm a crazy American rapist!" I've never had a problem at Canadian customs but I don't wear that t-shirt when I enter Canada!
On a semi-serious not my ex did have a problem entering Saskatchewan. It was winter and woman at customs kept asking whether she had packed enough warm clothes. She finally unzipped her carry on and showed the customs woman her parka!
Advice to FrustratedInTheUS = say "I am a brilliant guy" when you cross the border and the agents will let you through! ;)
In what alternate universe are you living? The kind of soft porn you seem to be looking for is like sand on the beach in the US. Sure, there a locations that suck in the not good way, GoVikings' descriptions of Virginia come to mind, but there are other outlets less than a half day's travel.
And where are you crossing the border? My brother crosses the Peace Bridge a couple times per month, alone, without any problem. Of course, that is a tourist area, so maybe that's it.
This is why I am so against "government regulations" it is a Pandora's box that once opened spread like the contagious disease it is! There were no liquor laws or big time laws against prostitution until the "temperance" movement. While there were some local ordinances and regulations the feeling was if the locals population does not mind then leave it alone. The elitists behind the "temperance movement" saw an opportunity to rest control from local municipalities and states and used it to increase their power. They have never looked back at their unconstitutional laws and ways, they continue to take rights away from us under the guise of "the public good"
What do you call a busload of politicians going off a cliff?.... A good start!
Don't know. The premise of the OP seems a bit trollish/spammy. Despite (or perhaps because of) the good spelling and grammar.
Where are you located in the US?
Anyway, OP, it just sounds like you need to grow a pair and learn how to do your research and ask for what you want.