So I was on twitter page for a strip club in my hood in Baltimore and came across a stripper who was following the club. She had a link to her Facebook so I took a look and got her real name. I thought it might be funny to get a few lap dances with her this week and drop her real name towards the end of the dance. Just for shits and giggles. These strippers are so stupid to actually link there real life to these clubs on the web.
When you post publicly on social media, you are waving your right the privacy of any info you post. I have two twitter accounts, one for following porn stars and strip clubs, one for following companies, friends, and news sites.
I have recently discovered FB addresses of *lots* of strippers at half a dozen clubs that I frequent, including several with whom I've been quite, um, intimate. There is absolutely no upside to revealing to a stripper that you know her FB name. If I ever choose to exchange FB info with a stripper, I'll use a fake account that has no connection to my real FB whatsoever.
That's a creepy plan and will only make the stripper dislike you. Strippers have good reasons for keeping their real names private, and you should respect that.
Some of you guys are so funny. You treat these strippers like there the wholesome. Look I was just kidding about calling out the girls real name. And I never give out my real to any stripper. The entire club scene is a game. Your paying money for chicks who are out of your league to show interest in you. These are not real relationships. Learn the game and use it to benefit you.
Just because you can, doesn't mean you should, if she has not wronged you in any way why would you do something like this to her. Sorry guy this kind of behavior is definitely over the line.
One time a dancer was telling me how pissed she was at the DJ. One boring evening I looked up his name on FB and I'll bet he was "friends" with 3/4 of the dancers and while I guess it was a little bit of voyeurism, by checking out the dancers I learned quite a bit about them. One, who I'd known for years, had had many dances with, but was always required to keep my hands to myself is married to a fireman, has 3 little kids and lives a life in the burbs with a white picket fence. Another hangs with bikers and looks like her time at the club is her quiet time. The comments between them can be quite entertaining, too.
There's one dancer who engaged me in bbbj and uncovered FS the first night I met her. We spent a long time talking and she had gone to high school at a school where I knew the principal, assistant principal, and even her guidance counselor ( who obviously didn't do a good job). She had told me her real name and when I looked her up on FB I learned that she was a gun enthusiast and that she still lived with Mom & Dad and helped take care of her special needs sibling.
Sometimes this can help us Neanderthals learn that they're real people, not cum buckets.
When you put your personal business in public view on facebook, it is not possible to control its' use. The whole facebook phenom is creepy, even when used without harmful intent.
The government has been using Facebook and social media to collect tons of info on all of us. I'm glad we can use it to find out more about strippers if we want to.
I noticed tonight a second model must have wondered who I was because she suddenly showed up on my suggested friends list. Either that or Facebook likes to rearrange names of people you only clicked on once. It was the other super model that I thought looked really nice. She had over 21,000 followers so I think many would agree.
What really makes me wonder is why someone looks familiar on Facebook but you don't know why.
MrDeuce: I actually have a few current and former dancers as FB friends and these are personal pages. You'd never know what they did from a living. It's mostly dangerous to them, as they and their dancer friends could be outed by me, but I respect their privacy.
Yeah. The idea of dropping that on her could be a problem. But then, getting a strippers real name is no big deal. There are all kinds of ways to achieve that, but creeping around like that is called stalking. If I'm interested enough to know, I just ask. If she's comfortable telling me, she'll do so. It's just that simple.
This thread git me curious do did some "investigating". Checked my favorite clubs facebook and it didnt take long to see at least a dozen workers facebook pages. Bartenders ,waitresses, rub girls,former and of course current dancers. Strange to see them in a non club setting.
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It'll make you come across as a creeper/stalker
There's one dancer who engaged me in bbbj and uncovered FS the first night I met her. We spent a long time talking and she had gone to high school at a school where I knew the principal, assistant principal, and even her guidance counselor ( who obviously didn't do a good job). She had told me her real name and when I looked her up on FB I learned that she was a gun enthusiast and that she still lived with Mom & Dad and helped take care of her special needs sibling.
Sometimes this can help us Neanderthals learn that they're real people, not cum buckets.
I noticed tonight a second model must have wondered who I was because she suddenly showed up on my suggested friends list. Either that or Facebook likes to rearrange names of people you only clicked on once. It was the other super model that I thought looked really nice. She had over 21,000 followers so I think many would agree.
What really makes me wonder is why someone looks familiar on Facebook but you don't know why.