Had to freeze her
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Was at a mixed dive last Fr on a late afternoon dayshift - the club was not packed but had a pretty-good vibe and decent # of custies and dancers.
This is dive is mixed but about 1/2 the dancers are black thus why I visit - and of course I get my dances from just the black dancers - the dancers are aware of this and that I get a good # of dances thus I often get approached a lot.
After I had been there about an hour and gotten dances from a couple of dancers I was approached by a thick big-booty youngish AA girl - she propositioned extras and it being the holidays I thought I'd treat myself :) - I make a fair to above-avg offer for this club and she say "yes" - I tell her we can head back when the next song starts - she says she'll be right back and goes to the dressing room - comes out a few minutes later and walks by me and says "next song" - i nod yes but was perplexed she just kept walking by.
A few seconds later another AA sees me un-customarily unoccupied and sits on my lap and we start rubbing each other - a few minutes later the thick AA extras girl come and stands behind me as waiting for me to go w her but I ignore her - a few minutes later they announce a 2-for-1 and I head off w/ the new AA that was sitting on my lap in order to take advantage of the 2-for-1 - I do the 2-for-1 and another regular song and then head back on the floor - the thick AA girl that I had agreed to extras w/ came up to me again and said "I guess you did your thing already" - I shook my head yes and told her "you left".
She looked dejected at losing out on a good sell - maybe I should have not been a hardass and still given her a chance b/c I still wanted to get w/ her and still had $$$ - but I decided to teach her a SC-lesson that you need to take care of your customers if you want your customers to take care of you - most girls at this club hang w/ you a while b/f asking for dances and often will hang w/ you till the next 2-for-1 which can be anywhere from 2 to 4 times per hour - but in my eyes I saw it as this chick thought she could just go do her thing and I'd be waiting for her - in my PL mind she needed to learn that when you got $$$/a-custy on the hook, you keep him on the hook and not be so lazy about it.
A while later they announce another 2-for-1 and she asked the dude next to me whom turned her down; she then looked at me but I didn't make eye-contact in order to reinforce the lesson, LOL - I don't think I saw her selling any dances b/c she seemed to have a weak hustle or didn't know what she was doing.
This may come across as me being kinda high-and-mighty, but I did what I did for her benefit so she learns how to hustle better and now to take care of her custies/$$$.
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Lol, same here
(Wish I could do that)
I can def understand and accept that - but I don't think that was the case in this situation b/c she did come back and hover over my should when I had the other dancer on my lap - and seemed dejected after I took the other dancer for LDs and didn't get w/ her - and did not see her getting many takers either - I think she's either inexperienced or lazy.
Nah - that was a joke - he has mentioned me b/f in his reviews (badnews53) and I have PMed w/ him twice I think.
That's how I rollz - I don't waste time chit-chatting - you got what I want we're gonna go at it; no need to waste time and energy conversing when we can be dry-humping and groping each other via dances - I don't go to SCs for companionship; I go to get my freak/grind/grope-on; son
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Many dancers need a come-uppance when they get too complacent about the customers.
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The trouble with many of them is they only think in the moment but don't see the long term or big picture so she might have learned her lesson from you but still might not apply what she learned with her future customers.
I basically agree with how you went about things and I've done similar with dancers and on occasion even taken it a step further and bluntly told them that they blew their chance and that I was no longer interested in them. They have one chance to make a good first impression.
Too often they think they're god's gift and that guys will fawn all over them no matter how they're treated. Some guys will put up with it but I won't.