When they feel

It's good to go without for a period. Then you appreciate what you were missing.

There is a couple of possibilities here but you aren't giving us enough to go on, and make an informed judgement but I'll take a stab at it here. First she is falling for you and she might not be satisfied with what you want her to be, or possibly she has some stability or other mental issues, either way I'd put some distance between her, or it might blow up in your face.

I think this is a simple question and answer. Don't look into it too much.

She's not your girlfriend or mistress, she's a "friend with benefits," that you happen to pay for, and she wants to also participate in "friends" and not just the "benefits."

I've had some OTC connections in the past that would just like to be paid attention to a little. They'd like to go to a restaurant and have some normal conversation. That doesn't mean they're in love with me, they just want to feel like a normal adult now and then. I'd take them to places their boyfriends never would, mind you these weren't fancy places by any means but to some strippers, these places were a big deal.

Take it as a compliment, she enjoys your company enough to actually want to hang out with you, not just fuck you for money and leave.

You could always have the packers and movers ship her to India with great care. Problem solved.

What Shailynn said, too.

Aren't you married? I know as a married guy, I avoid close emotional ties. Once those feelings change, she may feel the need to destroy my marriage. I'm not going to put myself in that position.

@RickyBoy: both you and her are off your rockers!

^^^^ there's a simple solution to that, although it's not the most honest one.

I travel for work and all my OTCs occur away from my home. I just say "I'm divorced." In my 10+ years of doing this I have had 2 that wanted to become Mrs shailynn but most just want a pay for play or friends with benefits type of arrangement.

Lately I have been going through a phase of just one night stands. Less emotional attachment involved that way.

99 problems..... Should start a forum, Stripper/Escort Advise. Now I am jealous, I got nothing. I understand that you are not attached to her and don't want to be, but in any long term relationship even a FWB/SD someone gets attached. I say if you are into her like the sex take her out invest sometime. And you may get some free bees.

I still think about the little hottie dancing for me in the VIP. I told her I was not married had a worthless G/F that didn't like sex at the time. She told me she loved being nekid and loved sex. Then slipped out that she liked taking co-workers (other strippers) home to share with her B/F. yeah, I am easy.

"...we are only about 15 years apart in age.."-rickdugan

Didn't you say you were 45. Wow. Props to you, not that I would do it but good job on a 60 yo woman... :)

Just remember, it's a transaction based relationship, nothing more. It's when you let it become more it gets complicated. Believe me, I know. Best to keep it that way.

clever stripfighter - that angle did not occur to me LOL

"Props to you, not that I would do it but good job on a 60 yo woman..."

Brilliant!

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To answer the OP (w/o being an ass this time :) I don't have an SO currently, but if I were in your situation, I'd cut my losses and cut her out. Sounds like descretion is your top priority and any threats should be avoided.

Trust your gut. It's better to cut her out and be wrong, than to keep her in the rotation and be wrong while she's fucking with your marriage, clubbing, etc.

a) you could be reading it wrong like you stated

b) it could just be a phase till she gets her next unemployed/underemployed BF

c) does not mean she's gonna go wacko and show-up at your door-step - if it is what you think it is then maybe a simple conversation can solve the problem; and if she does not seem to grasp it; then cut it off; but o/w you may be jumping to conclusions

rickdugan is gay!

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