Many TUSCLers enjoy the occasional lapgasm -- I certainly do -- but few will admit it. Most of these macho men will claim that they haven't cum in their pants since they were 14 or something. Of course the frequency of lapgasms versus ITC extras has a lot to do with whether you do your clubbing in the extras paradise Detroit or in no-extras eastern IL/western IN, for example.
I don't really want to be made to ejaculate by grinding. And when it is not a girl I am having an ongoing sexual relationship with, I'm not really interested in HJ or BJ till completion.
What I really want is really nice FS, where the girl just opens up, and this means GFE-FS. And I get this in AMPs.
In the San Francisco strip clubs, where 'extras' are offered, I've instead steered it to DATYing dancers. That has a big effect on them.
And some of our most expert TUSCLers in other areas of the country are getting good GFE-FS inside clubs. Best is to let it start naturally with a front room makeout session.
And this is very similar to what I have always done in AMPs. I approach the girl in a completely civilian manner and just try to make it happen with her. Never do I talk to her like I see as someone who sells sex for money.
SJG
Chuck Mangione
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I wonder what the actual percentage of non-tuscl clubbers(but still semi frequent) that cum in their pants every so often is? I'd have to agree with mrduece that the percentage is a lot higher in cities other than Detroit that don't have a follies. I also agree it doesn't take being 14 to cum in your pants, particularly if an orgasm is the dancers objective. I've gotten close a few times and stopped it because the inevitable mess is not worth it for me. A lapgasm/ldk is mostly at the discretion of the dancer in most cases. If you've never been close at least, you're either lying, the rest of us are 14 and on hair triggers, or you have terrble luck with dancers making it a priority.
It could also be possible that dancers specifically avoid making guys ejaculate during lapdances in extras heavy clubs/areas because at that point you may as well go all out and do bj/fs for the big money.
@DeuceMeister
I've never cum during a lapdance and I think it's just physiologically impossible for some dudes. I don't have a clue why that makes a dude macho or not??? Who gives a shit?
there is an idiot on here that insists lapgasms should be called ldks
as for me, i am a man that has had sex with kim bassetter, the i kissed a girl girl, wynona ride, and the lesbian from x men. no way a lap dance could get me to come
I don't know about "alot of guys" (or any guys for that matter) but I certainly don't deny myself the pleasure of creaming my drawers during a great lapdance. The dancers certainly seem quite proud of themselves, and there isn't any big mess afterwards. Win-Win!
Maybe I'm really part vampire, part human. I sometimes don't feel hardly any pain or pleasure when it seems like I should. It seems like accidentally running a screwdriver blade up your thumb and bleeding would cause a feeling of some pain but it did not. If I don't feel hardly anything from that, a dancer gently occasionally rubbing her butt on my shorts isn't going to make me feel hardly anything either. I think she might have to bite me for me to feel hardly anything. I kind of miss all that. Nowadays, dancers don't do anything that gets me too excited.
Lopaw, as usual, brings us the fresh perspective of the female PL. She has confirmed my resolution to "cream my drawers" at non-extras clubs whenever I want to :)
When I was young cumming too quick made you the object of ridicule. After discovering a teaching technique to learn how to delay ejaculation I found it worked. Sadly, it works well enough so that it takes me awhile. I have cum in a lap dance once, but she was totally nude and so was i and the grind was therefore different. It also took me a 30 minute CR. Coming from a lap dance grind while fully clothes is less likely than me voting for Hillary the fucking cunt.
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