Do you have a problem with strippers?

43 comments

• shailynn

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  8 years ago

  We all (except for the gay guys like Bavarian and SJGay) really like strippers who have sex with us. Not so much ones that do not have sex with us.
• Mate27

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  8 years ago

  The abject manipulation and when the stripper gets mad that I don't fall for her bs, that's when I smh.
• chessmaster

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  8 years ago

  Sean's like a lot of people don't like strippers that sit at the bar looking at their phone.
• chessmaster

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  8 years ago

  Shit
• londonguy

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  8 years ago

  We don't like Strippers that don't try and scam us, we like strippers that deliver what they say they will.
• beguiled

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  8 years ago

  Stay home when you have a cold sore. It's dark in the club and not fair to the customers.
• Player11

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  8 years ago

  Some Strippers are ROB My SB is an x stripper, real good fuck. I prefer strippers for otc vs escorts.
• Player11

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  8 years ago

  Some Strippers are ROB My SB is an x stripper, real good fuck. I prefer strippers for otc vs escorts.
• JamesSD

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  8 years ago

  I think the main issues stem from professionalism and customer service issues.
• twentyfive

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  8 years ago

  First you need to show us your tits than you can PM anongirl she can give you good advice.
• sclvr5005

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  8 years ago

  Pet peeves? About strippers? Us? Surely you jest!
• s88

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  8 years ago

  "Do you guys have any pet peeves regarding strippers?" Dont sit with your regular all night unless he is paying $300 per hr to you. Get up from your regular every 15-30 minutes and say hi to every new customer you see and see if they want LDs. Never assume because a customer said no to you once, he will say no forever to you. On a sat night you can be #6 in a customer's eyes, but on a monday you can be #1 in his eyes but if you act like a stone cold bitch then it is your loss as he moves on. "What was your worst encounter with a stripper?" Overcounting songs. New strippers at my regular SC that dont know I am a regular. They try to charge nude/touching fees which are technically "fees" which I know dont exist, or give me fake song prices ($30 a song instead of $20 a song). "What was your best encounter and what made you tip more?" Breaking the rules (above minimum service level at the SC). Being a fake GF/wifey/intimacy/sitting on lap. "Im a new dancer who wants to learn from other ladies mistakes. " [view link]
• flagooner

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  8 years ago

  Strippers that follow advice from StripperWeb is a huge turnoff.
• motorhead

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  8 years ago

  Pet peeves? Spelling.
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  I have always enjoyed the company of strippers. I say this even though our own local clubs are strict no touching, so anything more than that has to be outside. I was getting along with strippers starting from when I was much younger, even though male friends of mine whom I took to a club showed very little interest. They remarked on how I really like to engage with the women. I like to see women in high heels and makeup, dressed to play a role, dressed to please, dressed for sex. For the most part I have found strippers to be above average in smarts and people skills. There are some who's lives revolved around drugs and alcohol, and with these I would never be able to get along. They just think completely differently, relate to their own experience differently. And some of the white girls I would classify as shit heads. Of course always an issue with women nowadays is use of the cell phone. Cell phone has to be kept under wraps or surrendered or something. On the whole I have gotten along with strippers easier than with women who have never done such jobs, because the stripper is a non-conformist and outcast. She will be being very good to me, while the other girl will be reading the latest issue of Brides Magazine and figuring out what she is going to do to impress her mother. *** watch out for this 'san_jose_gay', he is Meat72 impersonation trolling because he has nothing better to do. SJG Cream - Sunshine of your love [view link]
• dw.buck

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  8 years ago

  customer service - having the right frame of mind that your in a customer service oriented business in key. if your out strictly for quick money and you think your entitled to it you will loose money quickly. its all about your customers make em feel comfortable at home without ripping them off or attempting to hustle them. learn the stripper handshake and that alone will set you up for exciting customers and fewer refusals for dances!
• Subraman

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  8 years ago

  s88-->"Dont sit with your regular all night unless he is paying $300 per hr to you. Get up from your regular every 15-30 minutes and say hi to every new customer you see and see if they want LDs. ." s88's POV is just as valid as mine, but we're coming from different perspectives. I'm the guy who expects his regular girl to sit with him for a few hours, usually exclusively; I reckon s88 is one of those guys who is irritated that she's with me the entire time. The best advice is probably: don't listen to a customer on this, do whatever makes you money. I will say that in many cases, I'm not remotely paying anything like $300/hour (more like $300 for my entire multi-hour trip), but evidently it's still a great deal, because I get ATF after ATF to do it with me. If she likes and trusts me, and she knows that I'll be coming every week during her slow time -- waaaay smarter to pay more attention to me and keep me as your regular, than to follow s88's advice on the slight chance you'll make more (but absolutely positively lose me as your regular). And THAT is why so many veteran strippers give me that treatment... smart girls, not to be sacrificing a consistent good-paying regular to take a risk on some disgruntled unknown customer who feels for some reason he's entitled to your time and that you're personally insulted him for pursuing your business the way you choose.
• Imamutt

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  8 years ago

  Don't Lie!
• Stripperheels

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  8 years ago

  I love strippers and respect them a lot ! They are sexy and beautiful ! My best experience I would say was when me and one of the dancers I had made out and kissed but she knew me and knew I was nice ! Don't make out with just any guy and don't lead any guys on !
• a21985

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  8 years ago

  I'm with subraman on this one. When I set up a visit to the club with my ATF, I have an expectation she hangs out with me the entire time I'm there, and I will compensate her for it (sometimes more than others). Likewise (and she's openly stated this), she has an expectation that I will not wander away from her. Of course, she's pointed out girls who she's comfortable with (i.e.-girls she know will respect her territory) me talking to or maybe getting a dance with. I will also let her know when I feel like I've taken up too much of her time and am getting in the way of her making money. Fortunately, her response is always that her attention is on me, no matter the money when I'm in the club. Sucks for the other guys looking to get some time with her, but thems is the perks for being a preferred regular of a dancer.
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  Same question I've asked Subraman, if you know her that well and are willing to spend that much money on her, why not just take her to a motel, or to your own bed? SJG
• a21985

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  8 years ago

  Anyways, as far as my pet peeves go (besides SS), as weird as it sounds, I'm not a fan of strippers I don't know giving me a SC handshake when I first meet them. It can just make it very awkward for me even if it's someone who I'd love to have meet my little head after a more formal greeting.
• sharkhunter

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  8 years ago

  Things I hate. Not waiting until a new song starts. If a stripper starts half way into a song, I might think it's almost over and if she charges for a full song I won't agree to buy any more dances on following nights. I may even go online, post her club name and call her an ROB, known as a Rip off bitch, also reserved for dancers that charge more the club allows where dance prices are supposed to be fixed. I once paid the extra amount not knowing the club would back me up if I had just stood my ground that she was wrong. I did speak to the manager about it. I decided to drop the issue and just ranted about it online. Other issues, dancers wearing glitter. No one wants that crap all over their clothes. It will be unless you work as an air dancer. Body spray tans or possibly the cheap ones that rub off. I have trouble identifying dancers who wear the crap but it rubs off on your clothes and I hate that. If I know a dancer is wearing it, I might decide to never get dances from her again. Dancers who immediately ask for drinks as soon as they sit down or flag a waitress over right away and then order something expensive. Things I like. Dancers who wait until a song starts. Dancers who confirm the price of the dances before continuing another song. I.e., she says two dances are two for 30 or whatever before dancing, then tells you when another song is starting etc. Good for guys who have been drinking or are distracted by tits or beauty. Dancers who ask if you want another dance at a given price instead of dancing without asking. Dancers who are polite. Dancers who sit on my lap after asking if I mind if they join me. Dancers who don't mind my hands wandering as long as we don't get in trouble. Dancers who tell me their rules without me asking before dancing and their rules aren't too bad. Dancers who are pretty and spend more time looking at me during the dance letting me see their titties instead of looking around to see who they will dance for next. Note some guys like an ass grind better so you could ask what they like. Dancers who don't immediately walk up and ask wanna dance.
• a21985

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  8 years ago

  SJG - Good question, and I don't have a great response for it, or at least one that I personally would find suitable if I was on the other side of it. Honestly, I like the alternatie views ( see T&A variety) and atmosphere of the club even when I'm with her, and she likes being on her home turf. OTC's an option, but I'm not dating the girl and keeping it in the club helps remind me of that when I forget.
• sharkhunter

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  8 years ago

  One thing most of us like, links to pic posts of your tits and or pussy. Face not necessary if you wish to remain anonymous.
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  How about a strip club, with a motel right upstairs, so it is part of that same environment. Maybe do a first round with her in an upstairs VIP Room. Then maybe take her to eat in their restaurant. Then to the motel room and spend some hours getting to know her, while pumping loads into her. And she never has to take her high heels off. Then finally maybe in the Jacuzzi with her. Then some sleeping, and more loads. Then in the morning promise her when you'll be back. As I know, that is the TJ Hong Kong Bar. Expensive exercise, sure. But at least your spending your money where it is effective. Yes, the strip club environment is great. Maybe we can find ways to recreate it in more private space, in-between ordinary home and fully retail strip club. SJG
• ATACdawg

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  8 years ago

  Never overtly (or not overtly) rip off the customer. Never wheedle the customer for more dances/money after he, or she, says that is all. It will piss them off, and will probably cost you a customer in the future. When you go on stage, don't look at the TVs, mirrors, etc. Customers will invariably read this as boredom or lack of interest on your part. Use your first song to size up the crowd - make eye contact. Above all, smile! Second song: give the guys who have shown an interest a bit better show, in other words more time, better ecposure, etc. Use the tip walk, assuming you have one, to engage any customer(s) that have shown an interest. Finally, don't be stingy with conversation time. But at some point, you need to tactfully ask for the dance. At this point. You will know if you're wasting your time and you can move on if necessary. If he says, "Let's go!" Then deliver the best performance you can within the club's written, or unwritten, rules.
• GACA

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  8 years ago

  I hate the stripper hug. That one they like to give customers after a tip on stage. It just So damn condescending
• lopaw

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  8 years ago

  Biggest pet peeve is dancers either sitting around on their phones or hiding in the DR and not approaching customers.
• IwillLapAdancer

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  8 years ago

  Buying a dancer a drink, and then she leaves with it half finished.
• Subraman

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  8 years ago

  -->"Buying a dancer a drink, and then she leaves with it half finished." !!!!! Never had this happen. I thought that rule was practically carved in stone. Either say no to the drink, or stay until you're done.
• Ch3ll

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  8 years ago

  I'd say my pet peeve are the ones who just outright ask, "Want a dance?" with no small talk or nothing. Its okay if Ive done several with the dancer before and k ow what to expect, but with a new one its annoying. My worst encounter has happened a couple of times and it's the stripper saying she has to go to the bathroom or whatever and she'll be right back, but instead goes talk to other strippers, customers, etc. My best encounter was one with where I thought the dancer would give no mileage based on the dances I saw her giving others, but the VIP with her turned out to be a totally different story and this was a first encounter with her.
• Cashman1234

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  8 years ago

  My main peeve is the high pressure dancers. The ones who push the dollar parade - and the ones who push for dances. I'm coming to a club to relax and unwind - and escape reality a bit. So I don't want to feel like I'm on the floor of the stock exchange - being pushed to buy a dance before the price moves up!
• s88

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  8 years ago

  @Subraman My ATF does what you said is terrible behavior, but I dont pay her to sit with me, I only tip her for VIP and stage. My ATF is usually back in 5-20 minutes anyway. It is better that I get 4 hours with her out of 5, than 30 minutes (small chat+VIP+goodbye/hide in DR) out of 5 hours.
• Subraman

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  8 years ago

  S88: There's no right or wrong, if that's the experience you're looking for, and you're getting it, that's great. The experience I'm looking for is: she'll be sitting with me the entire 4 hours I"m there, and I don't pay for her time either -- she'll get paid in dances. I don't compromise on that part of the experience, I get it or I move on to someone who will provide it to me. But there IS a right or wrong when it comes to your advice - "Dont sit with your regular all night unless he is paying $300 per hr to you. Get up from your regular every 15-30 minutes and say hi to every new customer you see and see if they want LDs.". With a regular who isn't paying much (though the $300/hr number is ridiculous for anything but a high end club on busy weekend nightshift, IMO), that's fine advice, but in many cases it's terrible advice for her, financially. It may be a pet peeve of customers who fixate on a single girl and get irritated she's out of rotation, but from the opposite perspective, it's a pet peeve of many regulars if they make an appointment with a stripper and she instead constantly gets up and leaves to circulate. Whether or not it's potentially worth getting fired by her regular, is a case-by-case basis.
• rockstar666

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  8 years ago

  Turn Offs: A litany of 'rules' before we even get started. Too much perfume. Glitter. Pretending to be shy. False promises. Dancing in VIP instead of getting busy; honey, I saw you dance on stage. That's why we're in VIP! Turn Ons: A very faint, pleasing scent. Nipple teasing. Peekaboo costumes. Cooing, but no fake orgasms. But every now and then I'll have a dancer who will make herself cum, and I like that! I always tip extra for that.
• 3LeggedMan

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  8 years ago

  Don't get glitter on me! It takes days for that stuff to all come off. Perfume I don't mind as much.
• Mistah_Fetti_Morbuxxx

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  8 years ago

  Lots of good responses. My biggest is when a dancer comes to me and complain about not making any money or when they start telling me a sob story that I have no interest in hearing. I go to strip clubs to relax and escape the pressures of reality, not to hear her problems.
• warhawks

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  8 years ago

  Smoking. But almost all strippers smoke it seems so it's maybe a necessary evil. The "wanna dance" line without any kind of conversation before hand is my biggest pet peeve I think. It's definately a turn off. And high pressure is up there too.
• minnow

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  8 years ago

  v888v; I'm getting that you dance in a "Stripclub Siberia", and aren't very happy about the $$$ you're making. Rather than chronicle my likes/dislikes (others have pretty much covered that territory already), I'll leave you with this general thought: Always remember that you are on audition for potential dances/VIP's the moment that you leave the dressing room, or walk into the club. Are you projecting the demeanor/looks that will make someone want to spend time with (and $$ on) you ? At a minimum, smile and act like you want to be there. Make eye contact with patrons. By looking around , you'll keep situational awareness. There are few things more tunn-offish than a dancer who spends are large portion of her set with her back turned on the audience swaying aimlessly in front of stage mirror. Likewise, the dancer who is SO wrapped up in her pole work that she's totally oblivious to the stage tippers drooling on their lobster bibs just dying to tip her(you) for some good stageside interaction. Likewise, floorside/barside demeanor is audition time. Burying your head in your I-Phone, or becoming deeply engrossed in conversation with staff/other dancers while half the club has been eye-fucking you from across the room for the last 10 minutes raises the question on how attentive you'll be in the VIP. If you can make me feel like I'm the only man in the room, you'll be guaranteed a tip, and future business from me.
• NinaBambina

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  8 years ago

  If I have big spending regular I wouldn't leave to talk with other customers. I'd thank guys who tipped me on stage, but all my attention would be focused on my regular who I am getting paid X hundred dollars per hour to be with... Sometimes when my best regulars are in I will have the DJ tipped to skip me on stage so I can spend more time with my regular.
• a21985

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  8 years ago

  Nina, you brought up "x dollars per hour" here, so I'd like to get some clarification on that. I, again like subraman, do not pay any per hour amount for hangout time. I tip my ATF well when she's on stage, buy her a couple drinks and of course make sure she gets paid appropriately for fun in the VIP/dances. No expectation of money past that is had no matter how many hours she spends with me past that. Even if I don't spend as much money as I normally do on her one day, we still will hang out with no questions asked. Are you implying that you do have an expectation of getting some sort of per hour fee with a preferred regular, or am I misinterpreting that?
• Subraman

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  8 years ago

  In my experience, the thing that matters is that the girl wants to walk away with $X for Y hours spent... and whether that's structured as some flat $-per-hour fee, or "as long as we get enough dances that I make my $X", I've never had any stripper care. If she's happy with the end remuneration -- which will be highly dependent on club and shift expectations, not any set dollar amount like s88's $300/hr -- she'll do the right thing for herself financially and stick with me