The Sysrem
Imamutt
I read this and while I think it is valid, I really didn't learn anything new. I usually go business casual bc that's how I dress if I'm not on a jobsite. Sometimes I'll go straight from a job and at least put on a fresh t shirt. I always conduct myself in a polite and confident manner, and don't put on a persona bc it's just easy and natural to be myself. I haven't really noticed being treated any differently based on how I'm dressed, I think experienced dancers don't make assumptions that quickly..
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You have to decide which side you're on.
If you're a Rick Dugan follower then you run the System and have to act like an arrogant jackass inside the club and act like you're too good to eat the Chackin Fangers or even get a lapdance. The idea is to have the stripper think she's missing out on something happening in your hotel room.
Now the other team is the Juice crew. At this rate it's acceptable to do anything in the club. Eat the food, take a shit in the bathroom, have sex, rent a table and take a nap at it, nothing is taboo and nothing is off limits - the club is like your second home.
Ouch dude, words hurt. ;)
We all do what works best for us, but "arrogant jackass" isn't remotely close to my gig. Guys who act like asswipes don't inspire trust in girls, especially when a guy is trying to coax them back to his hotel room on a first night connection. I'm one of the most relaxed, easy going and normal sounding dudes you'll ever run into in any club that I am in on any given night.
But to each his own. For you t-shirt wearing types who find what you are looking for in the clubs, cool beans, go yee forth and all that.