A reminder courtesy of StripperWeb

JS69 take note!

Meuri - you need to post more.

We need to refer this quote to every newby that wants a stripper to be his romantic interest - falling in-love w/ a stripper is like an autoimmune disease in where it turns against you

I hope jayhawk reads that quote

You should post a link to that SW thread

Yup, never fall in love with a stripper. At least not until you're fucking her for free OTC. Even then it's probably still a bad idea.

There's nothing wrong with fishing for new pussy, you just gotta be clear about what you want and what you're willing to pay.

Papi, very true, yet all of us has had at least an intense crush on a dancer at least once! Part of PL maturity is to not confuse a crush with someone your mom would like.

The dudes that fall in love probably deserve what they get, still, it is jarring to see the disdain. If I read a similar quote from my mechanic talking about how he lied in order to charge me more, I would very quickly go elsewhere. No matter how good he/she was.

Here's the link to the whole thread:

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showth…

Heartless bitches

That quote should be required reading for every PL before he visits a strip club.

They should change the name from Stripper Web to Cunt Chronical

I had a customer who I got at least 20-30k from within a few months who wanted to see me OTC and I always made excuses as to why I couldn't. He really wanted me. I felt bad. He didn't last long because he clearly wanted sex and finally realized it wasn't going to happen. But I got paid. Hopefully he found himself a nice beautiful escort.

The key is to understand if she pushes you off for OTC more than 2-3 times not going to happen and then you need to decide if you want to keep seeing her ITC. If yes spend what you can afford knowing she is looking to get the most money she can and you are looking to get whatever you need out of her.

The key is to understand if she pushes you off for OTC more than 2-3 times not going to happen and then you need to decide if you want to keep seeing her ITC. If yes spend what you can afford knowing she is looking to get the most money she can and you are looking to get whatever you need out of her.

ewire: You are 99% correct. If you don't get OTC and that's what you want, after 3 visits it just isn't usually happening. I've dropped a lot of girsl I was atrracted to because all I wanted was OTC and they either said no or tried to string me along.

I experienced the other 1% however, when my ATF asked ME about OTC after well over a year of her being my ATF. I never gave her that much money ITC (or OTC for that matter!). We did end up FWB's too, until she got her 3rd b/f since I met her. That one stuck, so she quit dancing and quit dating other guys.

Thanks for posting that quote. It should be posted directly under the tuscl logo!

That is a mistake made by many guys desperately in love - and desperately trying to setup OTC.

I used to buy Chackin Fangers and overpriced shots for the shooter girl for this stripper every time I went into the club. She never did agree to OTC but I got the last laugh because she put on 20 pounds by the time I was done with her!!!!!

Yea, the challenge for us PL's is determining when OTC is possible or it is just a string a long hustle. I agree with the three visit rule but there are sometimes exceptions to that.

Problem is many newbs or infrequent SCers treat dancers as they would treat civvies in a singles bar & they have no clue what they're dealing with - it's like walking into a car dealership and treating the transaction as if one was shopping at Wal-Mart.

That's the "I'm going to get what's mine" mentality that all strippers have. A lot like lawyers, real estate agents, insurance salesmen all have in common. Love the sleeze balls you have to dodge and sift through in this life, especially even at a higher rate in the strip club. Glad to hear this atripper web contributor confirm along with Nina that the only thing that matters is if the stripper gets paid. Basic strip club 101 knowledge, yet always good to review on a constant basis.

I have had more strippers than I can count follow the exact script from Stripperweb. I am never spending the kind of money that Nina extracts, but I have fallen for it on more than one occasion. JS69 talks about how strippers get no training, I agree with him, but they all seem to learn that approach from day 1. I think it may be innate in all females, dancers or not.

Meh. There is nothing wrong with that. Men lie and string women along to get sex all the time. I can't count how many times customers wanted to bootycall me and after me refusing, they tried to trick me into thinking they have serious intentions (I think I am falling in love with you/I would love you to be my gf/etc), grr, retards. As if I am dumb enough to fall for that.

So yeah - I would advice all strippers to lie, lie, lie. The only exception would be lying to genuinely nice guys who seem to start falling in love. Would never do that.

If I had been on this board and seen and learned what I know now, I would have saved a kings random in money.

Alas, live and learn from your mistakes. And don't make the same mistakes again.

cashman
"It should be posted directly under the tuscl logo! "
you are right, and we should be made to attest that we've read it before we can login.

LOL

"when his money finally runs dry"

Typical SW pretentious BS. Why does she assume when the guy stopped coming in it was because he ran out of money.

Maybe he just tired of her or wised up to her.

@Papi...I read it :)

I may sound extremely out of character but here I have no problem with these strippers playing men like this. Just like business persons, lawyers, fish oil and car salespersons, they need to make money too. Their job is to "sell the dream". Nothing in their contract says they have to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth to the customer. It's not illegal and he's a grown ass man, not a child. If he can't understand that he's getting played, he shouldn't be there.

Likewise, if a LEGAL non-sexual opportunity presents itself, what reason SHOULDN'T the stripper take it? Because it's unethical. They're already strippers, why stop there?

I'd only be upset if they INSIST on trying to make me spend a bunch of money on them by throwing sweet nothing in my ear when I clearly don't want to hear it. That's when these strippers are then cunts.

@Dancer how do you separate the sleazeball liars from the genuine men who really just want you as their legitimate girlfriend?

I never go to StripperWeb except maybe to check a link someone has posted like today. No doubt some guys need to read about how deceptive strippers can be but it seems that the only way they will really learn is through actual FTF experience. Even then some are too dense to face the facts or learn from their mistakes.

Basically I never go beyond three club visits in trying to get a dancer OTC no matter how desirable she is. This is what I gave DS II for example. On the third visit I said either we date or the money ends. She chose the money as so many do. Most of my others said yes on the first or second club visit.

If it goes beyond three visits, she is likely just trying to keep you spending ITC like the dancer quoted suggests. I think it becomes obvious pretty quickly when that's what they are doing.

Every newbie should be required to read several pages of "Hustle Hut" (Clockwork Orange style) before they are allowed to set foot inside a club.

Caveat emptor baby. This epitomizes what I love about strip clubs - the predatory nature of them. If clubs weren't the way that they are, many of us would not bag the strippers that we really want in them as there is predatory behavior on both sides of the tip rail and it is purer (yet still in some ways more benign) than can be found almost anywhere else.

I feel no sympathy for the guy. Yes we've all been there to some degree, especially when we were all new and didn't get it yet (as papi mentioned). But I, and I'm guessing many others here as well, stopped far short of spending a shit ton chasing one girl. At a certain point, any guy with a bit of sense in his head and a shred of self respect starts to figure out that something doesn't smell right. If a guy is so lacking in either that he continues to chase after a girl who is all too obviously leading him on, then he is too stupid and weak to keep his money anyway and it was only a matter of time until someone else took it from him.