Yesterday I was getting a dance from a dancer that is well known to be an extras girl. In fact I had been to VIP once with her and can confirm that.
So anyhow while she is dancing, if you want to call it that, she starts to complain to me about her last VIP customer taking too long to cum. "I thought that he would never cum and I wanted him to just do it and not take up the whole half hour". I said the important thing is that you get paid and she said that is her #2 priority. Getting him to cum comes first. "I would expect that from an old guy but he was a young guy". "I think some guys just try to hold off so that they get the whole 30 minutes worth". She doesn't ask me for VIPs anymore because she knows that I am not quick and I don't ask her because I don't like sloppy seconds.
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last commentApparently LDK is not her customer.
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Sheeesh, shadowcat, we know we get the whiners from time to time, Tis a pity, to be sure. Too bad, and I'm serious, taking one for the team is never fun.
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I suspect that most if not all extras girls feel exactly the same way. Some are just better at hiding that attitude than others.
The blow job queen is the best I've ever met at making men cum quickly. No matter how recently I just had sex, she always makes me cum in 5-10 min. If it doesn't happen in 5, she just sucks deeper and faster, literally pulling the cum out of me no matter how deeply it may be hiding. While I like a full 30 min to play, I have never complained about her technique. And I never will. She could teach classes in how to pleasure a man.
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Poor baby doesn't want to give the time she contracted for. Wah, wah, wah.
Man, I am not feeling sympathetic tonight.
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I've always said these hoes are lazy. They don't respect the fact that some men paid for and EXPECT the entire 30 minutes because....they paid for it.
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Couple of things here - we know the extras girls - but we don't need them to tell us about their extras with other customers. Also, whining about having to suck dick for 30 minutes is annoying.
On the positive side - it's great that she wants her customers to cum more than she cares about the money.
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"On the positive side - it's great that she wants her customers to cum more than she cares about the money."
True! This part is brilliant!
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I've had a couple dancers that make it their personal mission to make a guy cum from grinding (or a helping hand if you pay them enough and they know you). They both know I'm not likely to cum without the hand so they didn't take it personally when I've told them I wasn't going to (although I did LDK once with one of them, much to my surprise).
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A dancer telling you about making another customer come is not brilliant. I like dancers who lie to me and say they don't do extras for anyone but me.
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They aren't lazy, they are maximizing their profit. If he's done quickly she can get another customer and make two dances in the same half hour. Don't just consider the 30 minutes with one customer. Think of the effort of BJ's or HJ's for a few hours a night. That must be exhausting.
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I hate girls with this attitude, and Estafador sums up my feelings on this.
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If she would just shut up, maybe she could suck some dick would that work.
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-->"A dancer telling you about making another customer come is not brilliant. I like dancers who lie to me and say they don't do extras for anyone but me."
I figure if a dancer is complaining to you about a customer who takes too long to cum, there's a pretty good chance that what she's really doing is telling you that YOU take too long to cum. Although, of course sometimes it's just strippers being strippers and venting. In all my years, I've only once had a stripper vent to me about a customer taking too long to cum, and I am pretty sure she was venting to me precisely because she knew what was going to happen next -- I was going to pay her for extras and take a long time to cum :)
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I don't know if I'm DATYing it and it's taking a LONG time my jaw gets pretty sore. I imagine there's a similar dynamic at work here.
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I get not wanting to suck for 30 minutes straight.
Still, she sounds entitled.
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Good point Subraman. I didn't think of it that way - but it makes sense (after thinking about it). It might be a subtle way of saying hurry up.
It's much more tactful than I expected.
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Sounds like she needs a skillful slow OTC fucking, as old guys are most qualified to give.
SJG
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San Jose Guy lives in a fantasy world. All strippers want from PLs is CASH, not slow lovemaking.
San Jose Gay keeps it real.
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"San Jose Guy lives in a fantasy world."
This may be your view Bavarian, but my own experience is that while expecting to get paid, P4P women also like to be well fucked. This only serves to reason, as they are going to be connoisseurs.
So I won't say that Bavarian lives in a fantasy world, he simply lives in ignorance.
SJG
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I think that is a pretty-common attitude amongst all types of providers (extras-dancers; escorts).
About 2 years ago I was with an ebony I had contacted via BP (she posted frequently and she was legit) – anyway I met-up w/ her at a no-tell and did my thing but wanted my 30-minutes.
After I leave she accidently sends me a text apologizing for the delay but that she had a “clock watcher” (she didn’t know I was also a song-timer LOL) – anyway she thought she was sending the text to her next custy that had texted her while we were together.
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If I'm paying for 30 minutes and cum in 10. I'm still gonna make her dance another 20! So shouldn't really matter how fast it is.
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It is for that reason that I kind of prefer VIP's that go by per song price structure rather than time. However, many of the dancers want an exorbitant amount of money relative to the time. I intentionally withhold my cum until I feel that at least half of my time has passed to make it sort of worthwhile, or I try to get the dancer off first so the session can be more enjoyable.
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If it's a 30-minute VIP I try to arrange for the first 10 or 15-minutes of VHM dances first so I can get turned-on and then the last 15/20-minutes fucking.
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