MILF sex
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
I had my first MILF sex. It was extremely mediocre, basically no better than with my ex-wife. In some ways the old ball and chain was actually a little bit better. Sex with every stripper has been far better. And I'm not mainly talking about looks. My MILF has a very attractive body with great tits, face was marginal though. I'm talking about initiative, creativity, fun, etc. She was very passive and not even remotely like what I'm used to with much younger girls.
This was my concern. My impression, supported by this experience, is that 45-55 yo women are weak and unimaginative in bed. Am I wrong? Do I just need to keep looking? For those who fuck women over 45, what do you guys usually do with MILFS sexually? We just fucked and she pretty much just layed there.
This was my concern. My impression, supported by this experience, is that 45-55 yo women are weak and unimaginative in bed. Am I wrong? Do I just need to keep looking? For those who fuck women over 45, what do you guys usually do with MILFS sexually? We just fucked and she pretty much just layed there.
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I used to see a MILF that would do ANYTHING I wanted. Her only drawback was anal sex, but if I insisted I know she would have let me (but that's not my thing).
I think I'd summarize my experiences as:
- MILFs are faster to jump into bed, and may be quicker to experiment, than a REGULAR GIRL in her '20s.
- But strippers are not regular girls, they are more beautiful and they are crazier in bed (at least for money).
And in response to an earlier question of yours: YES, I think consorting wiith strippers ruins you a bit for real relationships, at this age. If I hadn't consorted with strippers, my general experience with MILFs would be pretty exciting -- I'd be comparing sex with my 40-something-year-old ex, who hasn't been exciting to me for some time, with a revved-up MILF. Instead, I compare that MILF to strippers who are Waves and Whoas on my crowdsourced rating scale (lol! Gotta throw that in), and those strippers are doing fucking crazy things with me...
Personally, I've found there's a big difference between girls who came of age before and after easily accessed streaming porn, with the cutoff being birthdays around 1981-2. Those who grew up watching porn know the "script" and it normalized certain behaviors. Those who grew up before are far more likely to have developed their own notion of what is "normal" in bed.
There are older gems of course. And there are duds of any age.
JS69, I'd consider giving her one more shot. Sometimes sex the first time is awkward. If she felt uncomfortable she may not have fully let loose and enjoyed herself.
Also, ask for what you want. If she slams on the brakes it's one thing. But civvy girls worry about coming across as token slutty, something sex workers don't have to worry about.
I'd probably give her another chance and if it doesn't get any better than this time I'd move on.
w/ civvies it’s often different and one has to often invest time to often get inconsistent pussy/freakiness.
At the old saying goes – “men use love to get sex; women use sex to get love” – IMO most women are looking for a relationship and not just to bang every, or the first guy, they meet – not saying there are not women like this; but in general; IMO.
If all one wants is to fuck and one has the mean$ to get the kind of pussy they want fairly frequently; then I think trying to mess around with civvies; particularly somewhat homey older civvies; is probably a diminishing-returns game.
Just my opinion.
IMO, the difference in attitudes absolutely does not START with porn, it starts with kids who came of age during the AIDS crisis, and whose reactions to both that and other societal memes subsequently led to movements like straight edge. These and other trends led to less emphasis on vaginal sex ... but kids are not going to NOT have sex, so that in turn led to far more emphasis on blowjobs and even anal sex, for reasons having little to do with porn. There's a reason kids starting widely adopting anal-sex-specific terms (e.g., tossing salad) around the time they did -- everything but vaginal sex became far more popular, and they needed terms to describe them. That's also why some of us old guys think touching a girl's asshole with his finger is some kind of radical crazy act, whereas most women in their '20s practically expect a guy to try to stick his tongue in there, there's an organic difference in the way oral and anal sexual activities are viewed and have been experienced.
I do think porn of course has an influence here, but I also think the change in views towards sex came first, and porn reflected and amplified that, and to some extent it's one big positive feedback loop. We as mongers -- and old ones at that -- tend to view everything through the lense of the things we've experienced and understand (that is, porn) and minimize everything we didn't (that is, big trends that effected the way sex was viewed by kids coming into sexual maturity in the '90s and later).
I think JS69 may have either found a dud - or he may not have used the proper method to unleash the inner desires of his milf. I think it can take a bit of prodding to bring out the sexuality of some milfs.
The experiences JS69 has had with sex workers could have played a role in his approach. Once you get a milf aroused - many will be incredible lovers - and it requires a strong, self assured, confident man to do that. There can be a fine line regarding some behaviors.
I think Subraman offers excellent insight regarding specific influences effecting the sexual acceptances of various practices on various ages of women. I will think more about this and see how my experiences relate.
This was very disappointing because I went thru dating about a dozen milfs to get this one, she's got a very good body, and she's into me. But she was very very self conscious about me seeing her body naked which after living with strippers is fucking bizarre. It's also strange because she has a good body and almost DS tits.
I'll probably try it again. I'm sure I made some mistakes, and it was awkward, although I'm not too optimistic about this one. Whether I keep playing with other milfs is an open question.
That said, I've fucked plenty of women of all ages that were shy and boring in bed. It just depends on the woman though I'd be a little surprised if a MILF in her late 40's didn't have some hangups about her body. Especially if she's a divorcee.
I also doubt many women will hold up when compared to a smoking hot 20 year old stripper.
Sometimes you have to fib a little. I mean, she hasaid great tits, so you can praise them without dwelling on her flaws. Every person has good and less good parts of their body. But yeah, make her feel like the sexiest woman in the world and she might actually like it.
You're right that strippers are unnaturally comfortable with their own naked bodies.
You have to win the battle in her mind to get the freak out of her in the bed. Once she's comfortable enough you'll see a what she has to offer.
I did praise her body once she let me see it. Especially her tits. But despite the fact that I fucked her, I didn't see much. It's a little hard to praise that which you don't clearly see.
I will probably keep trying. But it's a discouraging start.
So no Mikey, I didnt make her cum cause she didn't want me to do my thing. I just fucked her which wasn't enough.
I ask since knowing about your experience with firm young bodies - as that might make a milf self conscious.
Odds of having great sex are better with Strippers than Regulars.
Pole Dancing, Table Dancing and General Hustling makes a stripper more likely to be active during sex.
But a stripper may not be as attentive to you or may not be totally into you - that can take a bite out of GFE that a regular may provide.
We can all agree - company of attractive & warm woman in bed (MILF or Stripper) is always better than solo activity. Hustle on !
You may just have found a shy MILF, but if she doesn't come around quickly with allowing DATY I would tell her why you are no longer going to fuck her.
Was she shaved? Full bush? I wonder what her issue is? Shove a finger up her ass while you are DATY and she'll focus on other things instead of her body insecurities.
Good luck and have fun while you can. And don't judge all MILFs by this one. Many are much more receptive in bed.
If you really like doing it, just stress that fact.
I will say I have yet to meet that elusive DS though so I will keep an open mind.
If she is not very good with you, then probably she doesn't fuck much.
Her problem, not yours.
SJG
SJG
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* Am I clean (enough) down there for him?
* Does he taste or smell anything strange?
* Did I shave enough hair
* Some think it takes too long.
* Feel obligated to reciprocate fellatio
#4 may be just because I suck at it. I can admit it if it turns out that I do suck. Or maybe it's that way for most people DATY. I never really compared notes with others. I just used feedback from the woman.
Most woman I'm with they find they prefer I stimulate their Grafenberg spot (G-spot) with my thumb (make sure nails are trimmed) them stimulate 1 or both breast nipples at the same time. Usually once I make a woman climax that way, they request that each time we have sex. I'm do 1-2 orgasms from sex than 1-2 orgasms on their Grafenberg spot with my thumb plus nipple play. Then are pretty much done and satisfied.
Some day I'll have to have a dancer show me the proper way to DATY. I still think I'm doing it wrong.
My 2¢
But I always get the girl started with just a finger, and when it comes to getting my thumb in, I take it real careful. The thumb gives her muscles something to squeeze down on.
I originally read about all of this in a tantra book, and right away I put it into practice and it worked magnificently.
When I am going to be with a woman I always prepare my hands carefully, trimming my nails and then filing them smooth. Doing this filing I find that concrete works well.
SJG
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