I only have 30 FB friends because I'm not generally a collector, but one of my friends that I have is also a MILF C/L escort. She doesn't know that I know she does this. I find her hot and am considering calling her. My dilemma is if I don't tell her she's a FB friend she might recognize me, and that would make me look creepy (she has so many FB friends she may not even notice me) but if she doesn't she eventually will, and it will also make me look creepy that I didn't tell her. So either way I need to accept I'll look like a creep? Any suggestions? I DO want to fuck her!
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last commentUnfriend her first?
Don't assume she will react as you think. If she has that many FB friends some of them are surely customers. A young lady I spent time with until last year has several customers in her friends. She often suggested I friend her. I declined and told her I prefer to keep certain aspects of my life separate from one another. It avoids complications and mistakes.
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hmmmmm.....treading thru potentially awkward waters there. To avoid any uncomfortable hassles in your FB future, I'd pass.
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Interesting dilemma, I'm not exactly sure what I would do.
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I would be up front about or because I doubt that she will care much.
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If you manage to creep out an experienced escort that easily, Vice news might want to do a write up about it. There is a good chance she will have a strong interest in how you found out she was an escort. If you saw her in an ad, she may have assumed you know her occupation all along. If you found out through third parties, you may be burning those third parties with her.
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If you don't use fb that much, you could deactivate your account.
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I dunno, you're in a band. That should be some kind of ice-breaker. Tell she can have a back stage pass anytime.
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Just unfriend her or if she has a lot of FB friends she might not even notice. How did you become Facebook friends with her
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From my experience ...There's a reason she has a ton of FB friends. If she's got more than 500 friends and if you never really post shit to FB then there's a 99.9% chance she won't recognize you at all.
I agree with ILBBAICNL ...nothing but nothing is going to creep that bitch out.
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She's a prostitute. She is used to dealing with creeps.
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Is she a real life friend, or what? I'd be inclined to avoid sex with real friends as too complicating. If she's a prostitute, and you don't have Facebook set up properly, any of your other friends who know about her will see your relationship as well.
What do you have to lose by asking her? If she says no (unlikely if you're paying unless you're just the complete opposite of what she wants as a customer), you move on. If she says yes, you fuck her and unfriend her if necessary to keep things in the down-low.
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Thanks for all the posts! Some really good thoughts and I apologize that I prefer not to answer some of the more important questions. I think those who said it probably won't matter are probably right, so I won't overthink this. Yeah right.
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I would think you TELLING her would make you a creep for following her like that. Why couldn't you just HAPPEN upon an ad she posted? That seems less creepy than NOT telling her you're a FB friend.
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