Bartenders and Waitresses in strip clubs
larryfisherman
California
I know I've heard on here that it isn't a good idea to date strippers, but what about the bartenders and waitresses in the strip clubs? Are their lives just as fucked up as the strippers? Of course this is assuming I hit it off with her and ask her out on a date.
Some insight from you experienced TUSCLers would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks
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I have no game, I just strike up a conversation, I am pleasant and try to be interesting. If it is a club I visit often enough I will repeat this. Then, i execute a little known trick. I ask for what I want. Would you like to meet for a drink? Would you like to meet up for a private session? Amazingly, it works. And works well. I get rejected 10 times for each time I don't. I have two ladies I meet up with on a regular basis. One each week, the other once or twice a month. There are the occasional one offs and a few I see once every few months. This has been going on for a few years. And yes, a thick wallet helps with some of them. But was not necessary for all.
Good luck Rockstar666
rh48hr-->"It's always possible, but hot waitresses get hit on just like the dancers. You will not be the first guy in the club to ask her out and won't be the last. I'm sure she'll have a standard answer to brush you off unless you have spectacular looks and game that attracts her attention. "
Depending on the waitress, I've seen the reverse happen -- instead of a brush-off, she plays into it. Strip club waitresses are awash in a hustler culture in which everyone in the club -- strippers, managers, bouncers -- look at their customers as marks. Some years back, I was with a friend of mine at a strip club. While I was off in my own world with a stripper, cuddling in the seats, getting dances, etc., my buddy was hitting on the waitress with all the game he could muster. And she was INTO IT... she was bigtime flirting with him, sitting next to him and rubbing him a little, and he was tipping her outrageously; she even agreed to meet him after the club closed!
I'm sure you know the rest of the story ... when the club closed, he asked her where they should meet, and she was cold as ice. Basically, she told him to GTFO. He was stunned, couldn't believe he'd been played so badly.
Anyway, even though it was my buddy, I thought she played him brilliantly, and honestly, that's what he gets for being in a room full of half-naked beautiful women who will wiggle all over you for money, and fixating on the waitress.
Are they less screwed up than the average stripper? [shrug] Hard to say; depends on the girl. I would say that if I were in the market for a level-headed girlfriend, I would not look to strip club employees (of any type) as a ripe market. There's exceptions, but the strip club environment does not engender itself to low-drama personalities.
@Estafador- you're probably right
I do understand where you are coming from. We have some waitresses at my club that are either getting their feet wet to decide if dancing is right for them or they claim there's a waiting list for dancers. So is the career shadowing for aspiring dancers? So sometimes a waitress can be as hot as fuck. Plus, as others have said before, it's the perceived inaccessibility that sometimes makes waitresses hot. Men want what they are not supposed to have.
SJG
Debunking the Trafficking Myth:
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In Swingers Clubs most people don't have sex in front of others. But of those that do, it really loosens up both the men and the women. So the management always tries to make the environment conducive to it.
http://www.horizonsclub.com/sessions/new
http://www.horizonsclub.com/home/custom?…
This place was the most famous because of all the different kinds of play spaces it had.
I say was because now I see that it is closed and the property sold to developers. This is a major loss for the entire world!
from their rules: "Cell phones allowed only in the lobby and parking area."
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Atlantic City, one of the largest pipe organs ever built. Look how high the ceiling is. More information to come.
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Yes, it is the largest in the world!
http://www.boardwalkhall.com/arena-infor…
It is one of only two organs in the world to have an open 64-foot rank, and the only organ to have stops voiced on 100 inches of wind pressure (about 3.6 psi). Its console features seven manuals.
The pedal manual can be divided into left and right divisions
10x 32 foot stops
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The organ's wind supply is the most powerful ever used in a pipe organ. The DC motors for the original eight blowers had a total power of 394 horsepower (294 kW). These were replaced with AC motors in the early 1990s, which have a total of 600 horsepower (450 kW) and their seven blowers produce 36,400 cubic feet (1,030 m3) of wind per minute.
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Some of the lower manuals are not only 61 keys, they are 73 or 85 keys!
( some piano music is written to take up all 88. But nothing in the standard piano repertoire goes beyond that , as with Boesendorfer's 97 keys.
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I saw one just like this in a local store, priced to sell at only $180k.
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Largest Pipe Organs In The World
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the only other organ with 64' open pipe stop. not sure if this picture shows that though
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extreme high ceiling!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sydney_Tow…
http://www.ohta.org.au/confs/Sydney/SYDN…
http://www.cityofsydney.nsw.gov.au/learn…
Yes, the 64' pipes are hidden somewhere behind the proscenium. They are square in cross section and made of wood. Pictures here show them. This one in Sydney and the Atlantic City Boardwalk Hall are the only two open 64' organ pipe stops in the entire world. Zero for the 128' octave.
I would think it easier to design these huge pipes for horizontal, but no one seem to have done this. I would go for cast out of concrete and an integral and load bearing part of the building, as well as having common sides. No one seems to have done this though.
With these extreme pipe organs, the building and the organ have to be designed together.
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acoustic piano action could never go as fast as these people do. I think even a semi-weighted keyboard would be too slow.
Dennerlein play list, REALY GOOD!
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I've heard in some places, some waitresses are available OTC. Guys like JS could probably name a high price and make a deal at least some of the time.
Don't drop cheesy lines on her - since she's probably heard them all.
Waitresses can be fun. At some places they can do all that dancers can. At some they don't feel obliged to follow all of the rules.
Giving her money and playing with her in your lap can be lots of fun! :)
With the waitress it can be more civilian in style. That you are paying, so what.
SJG
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Carl G. Jung and Rudolf Steiner
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128' organ pipe, real or imagined
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128' electroinics
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Martin Digital Organs
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