Can you translate this SS??

"She's out of my league"
"Don't stalk me..."
Methinks you underestimate yourself. Is your money green? I think she was trying to set something up for after work. Now whether she wanted a ride, a meal, or a lifetime companion, we'll never know, but I suspect you're a better customer than you give you yourself credit for

I agree with hotstuff.

I spent 4 hours with the woman, dropped a bit of coin, tipped for time on the floor, and I still had money left. She also mentioned something about "needing to make an extra $200 in the next 3 days." --> to which I thought to myself "like your finances are my problem." Hmmm.

Thanks gawker.

Another possible translation: I'm not going to hustle anyone else for dances tonight. You're a good customer, and I don't want to mess up the possibility of future money from you by not sitting with you when I clearly could. Will it piss you off if I don't hang with you anymore tonight?

Didn't see the bit about the extra $200 until after I posted. You should have said you'd meet her somewhere in 15 (assuming you'd want OTC)

There's one immutable truth about strippers. No matter how much money you've spent on them, they'd rather hang out in the dressing room than with any customer.

Without knowing what the two of you talked about over a 4 hour stretch it is impossible to say for sure, but to me it sounds like she was basically just throwing in the towel for the night and letting you know.

@Hotstuff69babi
2:30 is when alcohol can no longer be served in many states. All bars close down. Some bars have to close earlier due to having gotten in trouble with the state liquor board.

Thanks Prohibition!

Occams razor suggests she was just letting you know she was done for the night, giving you the option of buying more dances.

The 200 bucks in 3 days does sound like a subtle OTC floater.

my opinion, same as directly above, down for the night unless you wanted more dances.

the 200 comment could be construed as a hint that she is looking for a way to pick up extra cash somehow whether she realizes she is throwing out a suggestion or not. She might mean if you want to buy extra dances, she needs the money. No idea what was discussed or if other OTC hints were given. She might have just been blabbing the truth that she needed some extra cash not mentioning the reason. could be anything from a car bill, medical bill, clothes for a kid or whatever. If she thought, just do a few extra dances per night, get 200, that could be it. no idea if she does extras.

4 hours talk - Most of the evening (12/18) was just the normal flirty, edgy talk that you would do with a dancer plus the normal male-ego-boosting by her. I have a couple STEM degrees so we talked about science & technology topics that interested us and a couple questions she had. Also her ankle was hurting her, visibly, so she could only do so much dancing. So she made less that evening (for more time) that she did 5 weeks earlier (in less time) with me. Nothing about the evening suggested to me she was trying to set up OTC or P4P. 5 weeks earlier (11/13) (within 10 minutes of meeting) she was ranting about all of the guys here "asking to suck [their] dick; asking to go out with [them] OTC" and was hoping I was different." She is a transplant from one of the urban clubs up the street. I got 2 drinks in her (which she inhaled) then she settled down and loosened up. Then we ordered more drinks (hence the SW thread by me "Fun with drinks").

I scheduled the 12/18 visit on 11/13. On 11/13 she asked if I could come back (in 2 weeks). No. But I said I'd be back on 12/18. She asked how I knew I'd be out in precisely 5 weeks, as 5 is an odd number. Easy. My birthday would be earlier that week in December and the 12/18 SC visit would be a present to me.

Here's some of my sanitized post from the 11/13 from stripperweb: BEGIN --> Probably the nicest compliment was I was told I was (srsly) her single best, most respectful, easy to talk to, fun customer in her 4 years as a dancer. "Where did you come from and can they send more like you!" I'm confident I can enjoy myself now even with my normal direct approach, which she thought was a nice change of pace from her typical customer. She told me she felt she could trust me -- with back turned to me while dancing -- not having to count out the money I gave her -- being able to leave her drink with me -- respecting her boundaries, etc. --> END

The $200 reference was actually earlier this week (2/5). So that wasn't the same night, sorry I was mixed up. I took Esta's suggestion and "fired her." Then she upped her hustle game after seeing me spend on 2 other dancers. She came up behind me when I was with a 19yo baby stripper and whispered in my ear "I see you like variety, can you save me one dance, please?" It sounded so hawt, so I did get some dances with her later. Being a Monday, I had to head home early, so cut her off around 10:30 when she had to go to stage, which caught her off guard / surprised her. I was with her maybe 30 minutes total. So who knows if she was planning to anything else. She hugged and kissed me, then I left.

She was the one who gave me the impromptu LDK, then let me titty suck her, then she stick-shifted me to completion, while she nibbled my ear.

I think her budget crunch is from her DUI and her car having been impounded (she got the car out of impound on 12/18 at 4PM, after not working for 10 days and not having the money to get it out sooner). My ego says, she might have remembered I was coming in that night. Or maybe it was just random chance, and I'm reading into it to feed my own ego. Who knows. I think I agree with most, that she wasn't really fishing for OTC/P4P. She's just fishing for money ITC in general.

That's kind of three visits (11/13, 12/18, and 2/5) all mash together in one post. I hope it's not too confusing.

Thanks for everyone who responded,
Dominic

I think she was done for the night. She made her quota and she had enough.

The other chat about needing $200 was probably just her attempt to see if you would bite and pony up as much cash as possible. Sorry if I sound negative - but anytime I hear the "I need money for rent, car payments, etc." I start to shut down as I hate that shit. If she can't manage her cash - that's her stupid problem - and unless she says "I will do what you want otc - for $$$". I still don't care about her problems - but I appreciate that willingness to earn the extra $$$.

Some strippers will offer OTC to someone they feel comfy with as an easy way to earn money. 1 hour with you OTC for $200 is a lot easier than sucking it out of you at the club over an 8 hour shift.

BUT some dancers don't do that. I think she would have been more direct with you if she wanted to do OTC. I think she was just giving you a heads up on what she needed hoping your 4th visit with her comes sooner than later.

Thanks.

Very confusing. The "made my quota" at first glance sounds like a dont stalk me... But then you add in the "200 extra" sounds like an otc offer. There are some clubs that have expectations as to how many dances a dancer sells in a night, so depending on the club, it could mean she simply had done enough to keep the club happy.

She got 14 dances from me that night and 1 from another customer who desperately wanted a dance when he saw that she was busy with me all night. I don't know if she or the SC has a dance quota for dances.

Confusing, yeah I thought it was confusing too that's why I shrugged it off at the time. Frankly she's kind of dumb so I don't expect everything she says to make total sense all of the time anyway.

I was just curious to see if I could float the SS to you guys and gals to see if 95% of you (4 sigma) thought it was a OTC or P4P offer. You never know these days. If it had, quite frankly, I would have expected more directness on her part. And for the record, I wasn't looked for nor hoping for OTC. Nor would I have taken her up had she offered. I was just confused and looking for clarification from TUSCL.

Like most SS I assume it's designed either to feed my ego or separate more $$ from me - both amount to the same thing. Quite frankly at that point I needed a break from her and I assum she the same. Plus I'm no whale but it's not a high end club nor an expensive COL town nor did she 'make bank' from me IMO. But she did alright $$-wise.

Thanks everyone.
Dominic

Motor is right, as usual. Unless a stripper thinks you are exceptionally hot they will only ever be interested in your money.

Glad to know my advice helped you out Dominic. Told you these hoes would compromise if you put the pressure on them or just stop giving a fuck.

I don't remember what thread it was I said to "fire" a stripper but glad it helped.

I don't remember either. But replying to me here was the best way to get my attention, so this is the best thread for that.