Question about getting sex from civilian MILFs

one more question. some of these MILFS live in towns about 30 min. away from me. How do I transition to sex with them if we are a 30 min drive from their house. I could suggest their house, but only if they don't have kids at home. Or I could ask them to drive to my town for dinner so we are near my house after dinner.

And is it better is I drive her rather than us both driving?

One more. Is getting a hotel a realistic option for ca ivilian if I'm a decent drive from my home? I'm afraid that getting a hotel for sex might turn her off because it would feel likes its a paid transaction.

I think you're on the right track. With most civiliansuccessful the trick is to say "let's go home and fuck" without saying it. A girl likes to think she has options to leave, which is fine.

Cooking for her at your house is arguably third date. It's also fairly "romantic ".

I think for hotel you'd want to establish you were getting one ahead of time. "It's a long drive and I'd like to be able to have a few drinks, so I think I'll just get a room".

On that note "come back to my place for a drink" is a classic that works. Maybe you've split a bottle of wine and shouldn't have any more and still drive home. If she lives thirty minutes away and comes to your place for more drinks, she's spending the night.

The hot tub isn't the worst idea for the wilder ones. You can joke about normally doing it naked and see how she reacts.

The main thing is to just be playful. Make it more "we could fuck if we wanted to, wink" over "I want to fuck you now".

The pretense can be very thin. She knows what she's saying yes to if she comes home with you. It can come up organically in conversation.

JS69 you are overthinking this. Women are women you have to treat them all alike. You don't treat dancers any differently .......well maybe you do.......but I don't and it always works for me .

You could do it like a certain poster on here does, Wait for her to fall asleep and enter her from behind. LOL

Twenty-five - that got a belly laugh from me +1

John Smith - Really? What age are we talking? You've read the myriad discussions here about how the young women we love to fuck have grown up watching porn on their computers, having sex in Middle School, think blow jobs aren't sex, and have none of the hang-ups with sex the way older generations have. Do you think this doesn't apply to non-strippers? One of my stripper friends has a younger brother that I've gotten to know. He's 20 years old and is a good looking kid who scores big time with 18-20 year olds. He's disappointed if he doesn't get a blow job the first time he's with a chick. He expects to get laid every time. My point, fully realizing that you're not a handsome 20 year old stud, is that if you're targeting 25 - 35 yo milfs, nothing you say or do will surprise or offend them. Be bold! Be yourself - your best self. Fuck them in the mouth, you big stud.

JS - the saying goes - a guy goes out with a girl hoping he'll get lucky. The girl already knows if he will get lucky.

How the date goes along through the evening will let you know what's on the table. If she's having a second or especially a third date with you she's thinking of sleeping with you. Suggesting going back to your place is not uncommon and she might even suggest it.

She knows if she wants you in her pants. You have to make sure you don't do something to change her mind. Do dates where getting close is possible. I'll take a girl bowling. It's a kick back atmosphere, and it shows you're a fun guy. I'm pretty good at it so that gives me an opportunity to put my hands on them to position them to throw the ball correctly and when they pick up a spare or throw a strike I usually get kisses of gratitude. Once you get the first kiss it leads to more kisses which then leads to returning to my place for more kissing and more fun.
I've gotten laid on first dates doing this. The first time I did it, I wasn't thinking of it as a strategy to get laid just something fun to do. So the next time I had a first date opportunity I did it again with the same result.

Bottom line - she already is thinking about fucking you,.just don't do anything to fuck it up.

A roofie in her wine.

James great suggestions thanks. It sounds like you've done this before. You should post a story.

Jestrite, maybe I'm over thinking. But I haven't done this in decades. I'm sure it will become second nature soon enough.

25, my thinking exactly. Although I thought I might wait until the 4th date to fully implement the San Jose Guy System for Raping Women in Their Sleep

Gawker, I'm embarrassed to admit this, but I'm talking about MILFS aged 42-52. I haven't been able to figure out how to get 25-35 yo civilian women. I don't think the MILFS the age I'm dealing with are nearly as slutty as their younger counterparts.

rh48hr, makes sense. I'm horrible at bowling but I'll try to come up with something else.

Jack, that's part of the SJG System for Raping Women in Their Sleep. As noted above, I'm going to save that until perhaps the 4th date.

My understanding of it is that SJG has updated and revised the Bill Cosby model using his immense sex appeal instead of drugs, he then has them read one of his manifestos till they fall asleep and that is when he pounces. Or you could implement the SJG system of possibilities, it goes like this "If you don't know what the fuck you are talking about, anything is possible"

I feel like there was a big jump in sluttiness for girls born after 1980 vs before, with a bit of a transition phase for girls born around 1980.

As an example, those who grew up with porn are less likely to freak out at the idea of a threesome or anal. That may say no, but older ladies may be more likely to freak out.

Just ask her if she "wants to watch Netflix and chill."

James that makes sense. But the ones I can get easily were born late 60s to early 70s. I was born too early.

Just ask her if she wants to come over and see your etchings.

What I have noticed with MILF's is that if you get through a second or third date, the odds are good that you're going to get laid. I was simply amazed at how easy it was when I re-entered the dating market at 30 after my first marriage ended.

I don't know if asking a girl to drive 30 minutes after dinner to get to your house is reasonable though, especially if she also has to drive back home later (or in the morning) and be up in the morning. I always found dinner at my house to be a good way to score when things got to that point.

As far as any protests of innocence, don't bother. Unless she's a moron, she already knows what you want. If she agrees to go to your house after a second or third date, then either she intends to deliver or, at the very least, she is on the fence. Just have some good alcohol on hand (I always used a nice bottle of red or, for the hard liquor drinkers, some potent yet yummy apple martinis) and keep being a cool cat and the rest will work itself out.

good luck!

Try whatever worked on your ex wife. :)

Jestrite50 wrote: " JS69 you are overthinking this. "

Absolutely Correct!

And rickdugan talks about second or third date.

With women nowadays it is unlikely that you will make it very far into the first date without them jumping you. And then with MILF's, they move even faster. If you don't call them, they call you at around 9pm and announce that they are coming over.

And then as always we have twentyfive, a strictly short range sort of a guy.

SJG

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Like I said SJG The SJG system of possibilities, it goes like this "If you don't know what the fuck you are talking about, anything is possible"

JS69 is greatly underestimating the preferred cruising speeds of today's civilian women, and especially of MILF's.

I'm not sure what twentyfive is doing, maybe analyzing snail tracks?

SJG

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Tell her you want to show her the basement at your moms house.

Works for SJG...

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SJG

A couple of suggestions. First off - as was mentioned several posts earlier - she knows what she's going to give up already. There aren't many things you can do to change that. At this point - she's basically in charge. It's up to you to not screw up - as that's when she will begin to take certain things off the table.

Since these are moms - it's worth noting a few things. If she's going to dinner with you - think about what she must do in advance. Depending on the age of her kids - she has to find a babysitter - and pay the sitter. If it's a weeknight - the homework must be done. The dog needs to be walked. She must also get herself all dressed up and looking hot for you. Simply said - if she says yes to a date - she's already considered all the preparation and she's decided you are worth it. That says a lot already - so you are doing very well!

If you get a room - you might be sleeping alone. But she might come back to get fucked - and leave. There is nothing that she will do without considering how it will effect her kids - so don't be disappointed if she doesn't cuddle after.

The best thing to do is be relaxed - make her feel relaxed - and make sure she laughs a lot! She might be super stressed - from dealing with the stress of her kids lives and school pressures. If you make her feel relaxed and desired - and appreciated - she will love it! Tell her how great she looks - and let her know that you appreciate how much she's done just to get there - and you will be in great shape!

"With women nowadays it is unlikely that you will make it very far into the first date without them jumping you."

Yeah that's the way it happens. The last one crawled under the table and gave me a blow job during desert.

:)

SJG

Rick and cash man thanks for the helpful suggestions

Damn John. Just ask for a table near the kitchen. Then after dinner bend her over the table and fuck her right there in the restaurant.

JS69,

After tonight, just tell her you are a personal friend of Clubber. She will rip your clothes off wherever you are, so be careful.