Revolving Topic - OTC
Ch3ll
Arizona
I've partaken/read in the recent "how to" OTC threads, but was wondering do any of you take the gamble and wait for the stripper to initiate the OTC talk? How many visits before you break your silence or move on?
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As Papi says, be proactive. It doesn't have to be an outright "do you see customers outside" question, even though that works often enough. You just have to be able to read her well enough to judge.
And if she's just finished eating your cum when you ask that, she'll know what it's about.
So, I guess I just like when the stripper brings it up. I know there are plenty more strippers out there, but I'm dead set on making OTC happen with this one, so I'll play it cool maybe two more visits spaced out over a week, couple of weeks and if no initiation by her I'll have to bring up the topic.
Yeah; Inner Room seems to have some experienced dancers down for the cause – also clubs in this area do not have private VIPs (city ordinance I suppose?) thus leaving OTC as the option for dancer and custy “to get to know each other better”.
In the words of Riley Freeman "Why not give her the money I was gonna spend on dinner, and that bitch can go grocery shopping!?"
She doesn't know you're not LE.
Make sense the burden is on the customer.
What I have learned, is if I have a great vibe with a dancer, I will try to return on the 2nd visit and ask about OTC. Of course if I had more time on my hands, I wouldn't ask until my 3rd or 4th visit. Sometimes I am only in town for one night and I ask at the end of the 1st time meeting since I have no other choice. I probably get rejected at least 50% of the time when it's that quick, but almost half the time I have someone coming back with me. Sometimes the rejections are awkward and even embarrassing (I've had my number of scoldings and lectures from dancers) but you just have to prepare for the rejection. If I never asked, I probably would have taken home 4 dancers in 10 years.
Regards,
Ishmael
Only once has a dancer ever initiated OTC discussions with me. It was last week. I texted free girl to set up some lap dances Itc. The day comes and that morning she texts me and says lets just meet at my hotel. Yes she suggested a free fuck instead of me coming to the club and paying for lap dances. This girl continues to amaze me. I love daddy issues.
I can't swear that I remember this completely objectively -- I might be over-romanticizing the girls I had to pursue as more beautiful, and whore-izing in my memory the girls who brought up OTC right away on their own. But my general memory is that the trend is the hottest girls don't bring up OTC... although I definitely have experienced exceptions...