Wilted Flower: Ever still attracted?

"You could land an aircraft on her ass." Like that's a bad thing.

^^ LOL!

Yes, I've known several favs who wilted over time. But still hotter than most. And if you like her, you should still like her after time has made her beauty fade. We guys probably don't look as good today as we did 5 years ago either.

Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks Within his bending sickle's compass come--Shakespeare

Yes yes yes.

And I have asked myself why did she "wilt" as you say, and in every case I think SS wins (as the downfall of the relationship) but in a few cases like you said, the hard and fast life puts a toll on their body. That's not to say that these special women still hold a warm spot in my heart, and if I was in their town I would certainly take the initiative to meet up with them to catch up, but I'm not going out of my way flying across the country or devoting across 2 states to do that these days.

My best example would be this civie that had more drama than 3 strippers combined. Anyway this was going on for 3 years and it's amazing how bad she went downhill over 3 years. Still the same weight, but just the ageing, not normal, not sure what she was doing to cause that. Either she drank and smoked and hid it from me, the stress in her life beat her down more than she admitted or maybe she even used drugs or even rx drugs. Who knows but it was not normal.

Yeah, I definitely get when things fall apart due to SS -- you stop liking her, or don't want to put up with any shit in an activity that is supposed to be pure fun, and fire her. Easy to understand. But it still always amuses me when I remain attracted to a stripper who is in physical shape that, if I'd just met her, she'd be so far out of manufacturing tolerances that I'd not look at her twice. One of my ATFs fit that mold exactly, she was a gorgeous 9 with an amazing fun personality when I first met her, she left to have a baby and came back 2 years later ... not "thick" exactly, but maybe just a half notch below, and the roundness went to her face also. Didn't matter, she came over to me that first day back, I heard that lilting voice, and little Subra responded as if she were still a bona fide 9. I had some of my best sexual experiences, not just OTC but ever, with her, and partially because I was unbelievably sexually attractive to her, even in full chub mode. Meanwhile, there were other girls at the club who were 7.5s and obviously hotter than her, but I'd deem them not hot enough...

"I was unbelievably sexually attractive to her" should be "I was unbelievably sexually attractED to her"

I suppose it's hard to become immediately unattracted to someone one had been very attracted to – probably has to do w/ the fond memories that are sorta hardwired in one's mind (and it kinda happens with SCs also – i.e. one keeps going back to SCs that have gone downhill b/c there was a time when they used to have great visits there).

I don't recall cutting-off any dancers that may have changed in looks expect one – an ebony I knew while I lived in Dallas – she was small on top (small Bs) and thick in da bottom (thick thighs; wide hips; BIG round natural booty); I liked her bod a lot – then I didn't see her for a while and next time I saw her she had a boob job and I was pretty much unattracted to her after that.

Black women can often pretty easily go from thin to thick – I've met quite a few that have put on significant weight but in my perverted preference I actually liked them more when they put on the extra weight – often times with black women the weight often goes to the right places (per my preferences); i.e. their asses and tits often get A LOT bigger; and that's fine w/ me.

I've been in this situation a handful of times and no thanks. I don't mind a little aging, but all too often they packed on pounds or picked up a lot of road wear from hard living. I pay for attractive entertainment, not for nostalgia.

In my local clubs, I've had a few OTC girls who seemingly fell off the face of the earth and then reappeared several months later looking much the worse for wear. However, in my experience, It is usually pretty easy to sidestep a long absent girl's attempt to reignite OTC by blaming the original fall-off on her departure and replacement.

But where this really jams me up is in my travel clubs, especially with girls who I see sporadically but who stay at the same club for a long time. After one or several historical OTC adventures, and knowing that I don't have another favorite in the club since I am an infrequent visitor, they often assume that I want a repeat. Well, when they look as hot as they did the first time I fucked them, then often I do. But when they have gone to hell then I find myself having to work around the issue, sometimes in the face of camp outs and other full court press tactics.

I have an ex girlfriend from college who was a 9 in her prime. Fifteen years later shes barely a 6, maybe a 5 even. I'd still fuck her any chance I got.

At my 10 year hs reunion I banged an ex cheerleader turned single mom. Again, she was an 8 at 18, but probably a 5 when I had her. She was disappointing in bed.

When their value has fallen but you still want them, you can get them for less, usually.

Yup.

Years ago I spent some time with a very fine PR honey but she never put out the pussy. A few months ago I was at a club and a dancer walked up to me and said "you don't remember me do you?". The PR honey had burped a pup and gone from an 8.5 to a 7. Still fine but not the type I would pursue now. I would have fucked her on memory alone though had I the opportunity.

On a side note - one of my favorites aged about 10 years in just a couple of years. She went from being a sexy top earner in the club to really struggling to make any money at all. She drinks heavy everyday and smokes like a chimney. Add to that a life filled with the usual stripper drama and it really aged her fast. I still love partying with her though.

"one of my favorites aged about 10 years in just a couple of years"

I still remember when an SF stripper who was near-legendary for her beauty (and totally legendary for her golden pussy syndrome LOL!), "retired" and then came back to stripping after a couple of years. She'd aged a LOT during those couple of years ... one of the resident mongers remarked, "it's as if most of her aged 2 years, but her tits and ass aged 15". Ugh...

Last I knew, we ALL age. Many not so well. A fave I had years ago in Key West, well I see her now. She was 39 when I last saw her in the club. She was a hard body from the gym. Now, she must go close to 250. A lot more than me!

One of my earliest favorites I remember seeing back in 1997 and she was still dancing last year. She must have doubled in weight in that timeframe. I'd still bang her. But if I met her now for the first time, I'd probably pass her up and not give her a second thought.

I think what happens is when you meet them the first time, you are turned on physically, but as you get to know them better, you get to know them as a real person and as such, it doesn't matter what they look like, because they are a good time regardless of what they look like. In the end, I think what we all want is a girl who is a good time and not necessarily a girl who is eye candy.

Dan, I think you're right -- their physical form trips pleasure centers in your brain, but if you get to know them well enough and their personality alone can trip those same pleasure centers, you'll still lust after them. I also think once you develop deep memories of attraction, when you see that girl again she can trip those memories, but you have to have REALLY liked her. Keep in mind, I did get a C- in Psychology 101 back in college a few decades ago, so I am technically an expert on this.

Not surprised at all that variety guys, like Rick, don't run into this.