which type do most guys prefer? I mean obviously for a one nighter a slut is the way to go but for a more long term thing would you prefer a good girl take home to momma type or a slut that is good in bed but you might have to worry about whos bed she's being good in. also what if a girl was slutty but on the outside she could be a take home to momma type. Just curious to see the groups thoughts :)
I don't like when dates act like sluts in public, so I usually don't date those types. I will say that slutty girls are generally WAY more fun in bed though.
I guess you're talking about girls in general not just strippers.
If I am going to have a real relationship then I want a good girl. Good girls can hide their sluttiness, I mean after you have a reputation to uphold and who you date/marry reflects on yourself too.
I really can't think of any relationship I had (back in the day) with a slit that lasted long.
girls in general I don't think the difference between being slutty or a good girl has a lot to do with stripping unless im wrong. I tend to be on the slutty side and I don't think that would change with a career move.
yeah but just because she appears to be a good girl doesn't mean she is. so is the ability to have a slut in bed worth the risk that shes getting more then you.
I totally get that there are good girls that are also good in bed but my point was more or less given the two options who would you choose. this came from a conversation last night at work as to what type of strippers make more money the good girl with the girl next door im working my way through college type or the im doing this cause I love guys and being naked type.
The answer to this question is easy -- men want a woman who is both a slut and a good girl. Usher put it this way -- we want "a lady in the street but a freak in the bed." When having sex with us, we want a sexual freak who will fulfill our every wish and fantasy. But when we are out in public, we want a nice young woman who never does anything to turn other men on.
I disagree because I make money off of the fantasy factor. does this guy really think he can take me home and if he thinks he can I can usually make more money. what I consider good girl type would be more interested in tip me because im naked and making it very clear your not going home with the person from the get go.
I settle for bad slut because most girls don't understand that promiscuity doesn't necessarily make you less desirable, it's the lack of self respect that often accompanies that is a turn off.
But sign me up for a self respecting slut any day.
I've only dated one girl who was a sexual freak. Most fun time I had, but it was short lived. I would have to agree with corvus. I'll take a good girl and hopefully turn her into a sexual freak. I won't date someone again who has any sexual hangups. I've been there, done that, won't do it again.
Not so. I have known good girl strippers, just one guy at a time and never doing anything like P4P.
Actually it usually ended up that the guy was living off the girl.
But these girls were real sex machines in bed! They weren't shy in talking about this with me, not at all.
See, our local clubs are no touching. So though there are some who do OTC, the majority are there because of the softer core environment. So while there is much you can't do ITC, with some of the girls the talk can go quite far.
Honesty is the first priority. I personally think it's pretty stupid how people think sexual exclusivity is a top priority in a good relationship. The need to force another person to make sacrifices to prove their love is dark. Love is shown by making the one you love happy, not by making yourself unhappy as some sick proof of your love.
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If I am going to have a real relationship then I want a good girl. Good girls can hide their sluttiness, I mean after you have a reputation to uphold and who you date/marry reflects on yourself too.
I really can't think of any relationship I had (back in the day) with a slit that lasted long.
Complaining about the friend zone attacks her right to say no.
Calling her a bitch attacks her right to call you on your hypocritical, double standard bullshit.
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"Slut" and "good girl" are not mutually exclusive terms, so I'll take the slutty good girl, thanks.
I settle for bad slut because most girls don't understand that promiscuity doesn't necessarily make you less desirable, it's the lack of self respect that often accompanies that is a turn off.
But sign me up for a self respecting slut any day.
I get what you're saying, but those are rare breeds! Lol
I was married to a good girl. It sucked!
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Give me a slut and I'll fuck her a few nights a week and not bother with her the rest of the time.
Good girls gone bad are better for the long term than bad girls.
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Actually it usually ended up that the guy was living off the girl.
But these girls were real sex machines in bed! They weren't shy in talking about this with me, not at all.
See, our local clubs are no touching. So though there are some who do OTC, the majority are there because of the softer core environment. So while there is much you can't do ITC, with some of the girls the talk can go quite far.
SJG
30 Seconds Over Winterland
Jorma Kaukonen singing lead
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=izuKKcJe…
She would never have been sexually unfaithful herself. Her infidelities were always in the idolatrous relationship she had with money.
Sex and money are never that far apart.
http://usccb.org/bible/ezekiel/16
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