Straight Nut or long drawn out fantasy erotica?

Fantasy is what porn is for. :)

Some custies seem to crave/prefer attention and nothing wrong w/ that as long as the custy finds it fulfilling.

A lot of custies seem to like being with a particular dancer and getting to know her more intimately.

I like variety and don't like hanging w/ just one girl on a particular visit nor most of a visit – for me it's 99.9% physical and I usually like to interact w/ a dancer when I'm being physical w/ her and then go on to the next one once I'm done being physical w/ her (and for me physical usually means getting VHM and UHM dances and usually not VIP FS).

After years of OTC sessions with my ATF I've been spending long periods (30 - 60 min) with a single dancer where there's lots of erotic dancing and caressing ( last week she was dancing nude, unbuttoned my shirt and pressed her breasts against my chest. She then licked from my navel to my nipple and sucked on it, then licked up to my neck and tongued my ear).
I love the seductive nature of this but I hate going home with blue balls and I generally can't LDK. I've made it clear to this dancer that I NEED more and we're negotiating how this might happen.
The fantasy is great, but I still prefer the whole enchilada.

For my first 15 or so years of clubbing I never had sex with a stripper (unless you count an LDK as sex, which I don't). Mainly this was because, like the OP, I was married and didn't want to "cheat." Then I got my first itc blow job. Then I went home, and asked my wife for a blow job. She said no, as she almost always did, so I went back to the club for another itc Bbbjcim. The last few years, like twin fucker said, my fantasies now routinely become reality.

Kzam, it's time to take it up a notch. The wife will only get worse sexually. Don't wait another 5 years for the inevitable like I did.

No man should be denied a blow-job – it should be a constitutional amendment.

LDK is like da fuck wit this question

It kinda depends on my mood that day. If everything is going well at work, I enjoy a nice long drawn out romantic evening. If I've had a rough stretch at work, I am usually in the mood for a wham bam thank you ma'am quickie.

I enjoy a good seduction. Normally when i find a new girl i like to spend several visits on long sensual seduction without sex...the build up is nice...then once i can't hold back any longer i will start the sexual visits until i get board then i start all over with a new girl

I do the same with escorts. I spend my first 3 to 4 visits without sex just lots of holding, fondeling, kissing, teasing and building up that sexual energy between us. Then on that 4-5 visit good Lord is the sex amazing

^^^^ this sounds like something SJG would write! Lol

Foreplay is cool, but the sex needs to happen after that.