How many strippers is too many strippers?

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JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
Specifically, how many strippers is it feasible to have an ongoing OTC relationship with at the same time?

I have three regulars OTC -- two paid and one free. I see the paid ones once a week and the free one once every two weeks. And I just met another one who is an outstanding candidate. I can't bear the thought of not trying out one who is so exactly my type. But Im not sure if I can effectively manage four.

They are all more or less local to me, so unlike the DS there's not much travel involved. But it is getting hard as a practical matter to find time for them all.

I might drop or decrease the frequency of the free one to once a month since she's the weakest sexually, but I hate to give up free sex from a cute 20 year old.

Just wondering what the experience of others is regarding how many you see OTC, and how you manage them all if there are several.

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ButterMan
9 years ago
Good question John I have wondered this myself before. I have 2 right now. I imagine it varies for the particular PL but I think 3 is a good number for me and anything over that is probably a little much.
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Player11
9 years ago
Two has been the ideal number for me. It gives me variety yet at the same time not high pressure.
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sharkhunter
9 years ago
One of my college roomates told me one of his girls said he must have like 20 girlfriends. He told me it was only 8. He wasn't counting all those he hardly saw. So I wouldn't go over 8. Less if you don't have time for that many.

You can have more if they come over to see you and come in groups of two if you don't mind that.
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sharkhunter
9 years ago
Oh, that was all free. I guess if it's not free, it's limited by time and money.
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georgmicrodong
9 years ago
Define "ongoing" and "at the same time".

I currently have 7 that I see "regularly", and a couple more that tend to call me only they're in *really* dire straights. I see about one a week at the moment, occasionally two, and yes, that means that I don't see some of them for several weeks at a time.

The MILF takes precedence right now, she gets first dibs on my time, though we still only see each other every couple of months.
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JohnSmith69
9 years ago
I think I defined it -- I see the two paid ones almost every week and the third once every two weeks. I can't cut back on DS II. She gets at least once at week. I can cut back on free girl pretty easily. that saves time but not money. The other is video girl. I could cut back on her but if if I do she might loose interest and move onto to more regular PLs cause she really wants steady $. I hate to loose her blow jobs.
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warhawks
9 years ago

I'm not much into more than one OTC at a time.

ITC is a different story.

I've had multiple girls at different clubs. But OTC I try to keep it to the best of the best at the time, or CF who is best at GFE.
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Meursault
9 years ago
The same number as can dance on the head of a pin.
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lopaw
9 years ago
I'm juggling about 9 but it's like trying to keep all of those plates spinning on skinny poles. Some of those plates are beginning to crash to the ground. I will have to cut back to a reasonable 5 or 6.
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Subraman
9 years ago
I don't have the $ or time to juggle more than 2 at the same time, and most of the time I'm happy with 1, if she's vaguely reliable and sexually adventurous and fun to go drinking and SCing with
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jestrite50
9 years ago
I have mine spread out more. I have 3 in three different states and would like having a 4th. I divide mine up according to the geography I work in. A girlfriend in every port so to speak. I work a different area each week so therefore have need of companionship / sex in a different area every week.
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Clackport
9 years ago
I've done two at one time, and even that was too much for me to balance.
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rh48hr
9 years ago
Lopaw is working it! You go girl!

I say whatever you have time and money to deal with.
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JohnSmith69
9 years ago
Damn lopaw! Suddenly my 3-4 doesn't sound like very many.
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shadowcat
9 years ago
Since I basically only go to one club, I would have to say that anything more than 2 would be pretty tricky unless I wanted to stop going to the club.
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JamesSD
9 years ago
With civvys more than 3 local girls gets tough.
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crazyjoe
9 years ago
You can never have too many
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crazyjoe
9 years ago
Lopaw can teach us all a great lesson! Keep up the awesome work
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ButterMan
9 years ago
I honestly get a kick out of having two or three at the same club kind of a challenge but kind of fun keeping it a secret
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lopaw
9 years ago
It may sound like heaven but it's becoming a living hell. Bitches be crazy and I'm just trying to get out of the insanity of it all in one piece. What started out as eager sexcapades has evolved into a marathon of just trying to keep it all straight in my head so that I don't accidentally call one of them by the wrong name. There would be serious hell to pay for that. All I can say is be careful what you ask for because you might just get it!
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PhantomGeek
9 years ago
Why does all of this sound like pornographic sitcom hijinks from The Brady Bunch? Greg vs. Marcia -- who will score the most dates for prom -- and keep them all?
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twentyfive
9 years ago
Sounds like a sophomoric humble brag to me
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DandyDan
9 years ago
I have enough trouble with one, I don't know why you would want to be more miserable with more.
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chessmaster
9 years ago
My goal is one in each state.
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grand1511
9 years ago
Like baseball, the bullpen can never be too deep.
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rockstar666
9 years ago
I can only handle one g/f, one OTC dancer and one estranged wife at a time. Right now I'm still auditioning for the dancer so I have an opening.
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skibum609
9 years ago
Zero is the appropriate amount of strippers to see OTC. Why would I allow them to infect my real life?o
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gawker
9 years ago
For several years I've had #1 and #1A. Number 1 has become unreliable so I've been spending time & $$ with 1A. #2 is a dancer who intrigues me as no one else ever has but hasn't yet agreed to OTC. So that's my current challenge. 1A has not been dancing for several months and has put on weight ( including larger tits) but her appeal is diminishing as a result. I honestly don't think I could handle more than 2 at any given time.
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sclvr5005
9 years ago
Lol of course it's a brag fest. That's the whole point of this, isn't it?
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NinaBambina
9 years ago
As many as you can afford and tolerate. I'm sure these girls have other Johns they are seeing as well, regardless of how special they make you feel. Since you are paying, you are more or less the one who choses when you see these gals (not that their schedules don't matter) so it is really up to you.
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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
I think there needs to be some structure to it, like having them in different cities. If they really feel that they have a relationship with you, then they will be calling on the phone. So you need to be able to honestly tell them that you are someplace else, and engaged in meetings or something. You also need to get some defacto buy in from them, to this relationship with someone not always in town or available to reply to the telephone.

I feel that you would normally need to see them once every month minimum. Really its once every moon. This has worked for me with AMP girls.

Even when it was not true, I used to tell girls in strip clubs and AMPs, that I lived some place 300 miles away. I would name the specific city, one I knew something about. It seemed to raise their interest level. But it also excused me from having to make contact with them that frequently. But my real reason for doing this was that I was married, and so I just needed and extra layer of insulation.

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Tiredtraveler
9 years ago
As long as they are at different clubs you are OK, but never more than two at any one club.
Even then it does not work out sometimes. I had one girl I was hanging out with and one night she was not working I took up with a better looking dancer and had much fun. Unfortunately the next time I went to the club they were both there and that was when I realized the first girl was a little wacko as she slapped the shit out of the other girl in the locker room for 'taking' her regular. The house mother suspended her for a week so I partied with the looker and had left town by the time the other crazy dancer came back.
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