It's always something
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
It's always something. Every time I go to the club or have a date with one of them. In just the past month I have seen or heard about (and a few times been involved with) all of the following:
Assaulted by a fellow dancer
Cell phone lost
Cell phone found but battery dead
Cell phone stolen
Money stolen
Assault by roommate over money stolen
Cops come to apt for a visit
Pulled over by cops returning from drug buy
Too fucked up to function
Makes tons of money, but never has money
No calendar, no deadlines
New drug
New boyfriend
Horrible abuse from customers
Physical illness caused by stress
New drug dealer problems
Old drug dealer problems
New hate list
New girlfriend
Roommate arrested
Boyfriend arrested
Drug rehab
Divorce (there's not mine)
Lost child custody
Baby daddy disappeared
Over and over and over again. Every few days I enter this bizarre world. It's sex filled, but amazingly dysfunctional. Then I go back to the real world of jobs, punctuality, sobriety, etc. only to turn around and do it all over again. I can live there temporarily for the sex. But how do they do it every day?
Going to see a stripper is like a box a chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get. It all looks good. And sometimes it's delicious. Other times you spit it out. But I always keep goin back for more.
Assaulted by a fellow dancer
Cell phone lost
Cell phone found but battery dead
Cell phone stolen
Money stolen
Assault by roommate over money stolen
Cops come to apt for a visit
Pulled over by cops returning from drug buy
Too fucked up to function
Makes tons of money, but never has money
No calendar, no deadlines
New drug
New boyfriend
Horrible abuse from customers
Physical illness caused by stress
New drug dealer problems
Old drug dealer problems
New hate list
New girlfriend
Roommate arrested
Boyfriend arrested
Drug rehab
Divorce (there's not mine)
Lost child custody
Baby daddy disappeared
Over and over and over again. Every few days I enter this bizarre world. It's sex filled, but amazingly dysfunctional. Then I go back to the real world of jobs, punctuality, sobriety, etc. only to turn around and do it all over again. I can live there temporarily for the sex. But how do they do it every day?
Going to see a stripper is like a box a chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get. It all looks good. And sometimes it's delicious. Other times you spit it out. But I always keep goin back for more.
16 comments
For those of us who've done it long enough, that world attains some semblance of normality, merging in some fashion with our own, and it becomes easier to transition between the two, though sometimes more difficult to keep them separate.
I go to a club, or meet a girl in a hotel, and I knowingly enter that world, with malice aforethought. It has its attractions, after all, does it not?
Flies go to steaming piles of shit for nourishment.
As wise ol' georgmicrodong observes above, we go to strippers for whatever it is that draws us into that world.
GMD is also correct that our worlds merge together at a certain level. I move in and out of their lives every few days, but in my thoughts, in my texts, and on tuscl, I truly never leave.
I myself often wonder how dancers can go back day after day sometimes 5 days/wk – I like SCing; but I could not be in those places more than 2x/wk.
Eather way the results can be entertaining, as well as costly.....
Subra-> It's near-universal, in all the years I've been doing this, I've met maybe a couple of strippers who didn't live this way. Diva got furious with me when I said that in another thread, but I'm not trying to be insulting, it's just my experience.
wms1066: "I do not know why this is, but perhaps it is related to the perception of what "everyone" expects a stripper to be, and how she should live. Or perhaps it is the life choices which she has already made which opens the possability of becomming a stripper to her. "
Subra-> Certainly the latter... as far as cause and effect: she lives this way, therefore her options narrow and stripping becomes a great choice. Unfortunately, it's a positive feedback loop: the environment around stripping leads to more such behavior, etc.
No group is completely uniform, but I'm in tech, and as a group we have similarities that are easily identifiable by those outside the group, and those traits are part of what led us to tech. I have a buddy who is a cop, and it's pretty easy for me to see that many cops share some personality traits. They're big broad generalizations, but nevertheless true as generalizations. Same with strippers, IME, not a uniform group, but man, there are easily-identified group traits
Yeah, I could never do it every week, day after day. Don't know how some of the girls do it. It'd be like groundhog day the movie over and over again.
In the winter and fall months it's the worst, I think.
Go to work when it's dark, leave work wasted and in the dark. Sleep all daylight hours. Get up hung over and go back up and do it again.
I've cut way back on my clubbing. I used to go 3 times a week. Now I'm only going 3 times a month.... If even that.
I couldn't live that lifestyle day in and day out...
Then I got involved with my ATF and I found out what real excitement was. The drama type of excitement, and she didn't even do drugs or drink but was still dysfunctional.
I still like the occasional excitement that a night of drinking and partying in a strip club can bring. But if I had my way I'd be totally content with meeting a girl in a hotel room, having sex and is both immediately going on our ways. No dinner, no chat, no small talk. Unfortunately that doesn't exist unless you hire a hooker and that's a little too boring for me!