Jim was infatuated with Barbie who was a dancer at a club near him. Afterall she would call him at work "your girlfriend is calling, come to the club." He told me it felt neat he had a stripper girlfriend it was like he was under some kind of spell. Sometimes at night after she was off work he would call her and do phone sex. One night her BF caught her and he heard her getting beat. She lived in a trailer and one month drained thousands of dollars from him. He never got sex with her as he was a newbie and lap dances were safe.....His friend Steve, an experienced SC hobbyist told him "offer her $200 to go to motel and if she does not do not ever take any more dances from her. Also do not give loans or handouts. With all the money your spending on dances you could be getting pussy." Her BF was a tough looking dude who rode a motorcycle she said. I saw him on her FB page once, he looked like a drunken bum who could not hold a job. Have you had similar experience?
If I got a motorcycle, I could imagine someone saying the same thing about me. No way do I plan to ride a motorcycle in south Carolina with all the crazy and stupid drivers already here.
I've done things I never planned on though. I guess if I had a flaming skull at night, I would have to ride a motorcycle to go with it. :)
That would be cool to be able to ride 800 mph but suck if I caught on fire every time a bad ass showed up at the strip club. :)
@Diva: Read some of Player11's past posts. I think you'll see a trend. It's kind of a shame that the user image library is no longer a thing. His would have been...illuminating.
If you are giving a trailer trash ROB enough money to support her and her boyfriend, then you ARE a fool. I also don't get involved enough in the lives of my stripper "friends" to worry about how they spend whatever I DO give them.
She's not a ROB unless she promised something she didn't deliver. Buying lots of dances and not getting laided is the same is taking a civvy out on a bunch of expensive dates and not getting laid. If you try to get a woman interested with money, that's how it goes, your cash may be nothing but trash to her.
If there's clear, conclusive evidence that a dancer is in a truly self-destructive situation, and touching bottom financially is what's needed to make her see she needs to get out, then stop buying dances from her.
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well Jim, err player11 that is, had a rough day at the strip club
I've done things I never planned on though. I guess if I had a flaming skull at night, I would have to ride a motorcycle to go with it. :)
That would be cool to be able to ride 800 mph but suck if I caught on fire every time a bad ass showed up at the strip club. :)
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The issue is what is she trying to do with her life, besides working in a strip club and besides trying to take in additional money.
SJG
If there's clear, conclusive evidence that a dancer is in a truly self-destructive situation, and touching bottom financially is what's needed to make her see she needs to get out, then stop buying dances from her.