Do strippers learn to hate men?
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My ATF will be turning 30 soon. She was 22 when we met. She was born on my 40th birthday and we've been using each other for 7 years now. I've used her for sex and she's used me for money. Other than on a few occasions, we've gotten together OTC at least weekly during that time. Most days we'd talk on the phone or text each other. She's been with the same BF for 11 years. She has had no qualms about cheating on him when he's been incarcerated or any other time. She's had many customers share her favors and many "hot" guys have gotten between her legs. She's been seriously drug addicted for 15 years and about 6 months ago she (at the court's behest) decided to get clean & sober. I've kept in touch through her process from detox to rehab, to sober house living. A few months ago she told me that she was sick & tired of using men and being used by men ( except me, that is). She's working at a car wash, going to meetings, etc. She says she can't go back to stripping because it'll be too close to the drug scene and other users. We were together in a hotel room a couple of weeks ago and she told me about a real cute 21 year old that she met in detox. She said that she was really attracted to her and this gal was a dyed in the wool lesbian. She said when she started stripping others said she'd learn to hate men and sure enough she's just totally fed up with men. So she's going to try women for awhile to see if she can have a better relationship. Today, I looked at her Facebook page and saw that she was "sending a little love" to a new friend who looked to me as if she might be a lesbian.
Do you think that spending lots of time with PL's may change her orientation? I've always viewed homosexuality as being 75% nature and 25% nurture. Now, after 15 years of rampant promiscuity, is it likely that she'll switch sides? I fully expect a phone call when the money runs out. Maybe a three-some might be in order.
Do you think that spending lots of time with PL's may change her orientation? I've always viewed homosexuality as being 75% nature and 25% nurture. Now, after 15 years of rampant promiscuity, is it likely that she'll switch sides? I fully expect a phone call when the money runs out. Maybe a three-some might be in order.
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"Do strippers learn to hate men"?
Yes.
And then they all hang out on Stripper Web.
Yup....I'm a giver! ;)
Love it.
Anyway @Dr.Phil has a point. The more we love our choices in life the more we love the people in our lives and vice versa.
I think these days most women get through college with a good idea of what their sexual orientation is. Young women can easily dabble with bisexuality with little social blowback. So if this girl never thought "hmmm, dating women might be fun" before now, the odds of it sticking are fairly low, especially if it's coming from a "I hate men" place rather than "Women seem neat" place.
I think sometimes strippers, like cops, see men at their worst. Although arguably some touching comes with the job, most dancers do get touched and violated in ways they don't consent to at points in their career. Some of the SW girls are amazingly delicate flowers, but it's also reasonable to not get a finger shoved in your ass while you're turned around. I can certainly see where stripping can harden dancers towards men over time. Rare is the dancer who can truly pick her clientele and make decent money. So they're going to have to deal with some assholes to extract dollars.
Only if you're a squirter
Bi-sexual is a much better descriptor.
I did meet a couple of dancers one night who told me they were only interested in dick.
They were talking pretty openly with each other right in front of me while sitting at my table.
One of them must have noticed I stopped listening to them when I heard something about knocking on wood and then felt a oouple knocks in between my legs. Strippers know how to get your attention. Some may hate but not all do.
But it is a great joke:
"A straight girl is only 3 drinks away from some girl-on-girl action.
A homophobic girl is only 2 drinks away."
Now lets watch the action as the bigot starter flag has been dropped.
Some of my favorites have been bi dancers. I've had conversations with dancers about what other dancers they thought were hot. I think a number of dancers are bi.
Hubby and I have discussed an mmf 3way, but I find women easier to be attracted to for casual sex and find most women who are not obese (or have bad teeth) to be more attractive and easier to be with than a man, unless I consider him a true 10.