Jedi Mind Tricks?

I've having the same problema Señor.

An ex favorite I've stayed in contact with. We meet for dinner or go to the casino but won't meet up for fun. She went to community college while she danced so she has a real job. But it's not enough to make her house and car payments. She has 2 kids and finally got enrolled in food stamps. She's my "must have". I offered well above market rate but keep getting turned down. I guess it's time to move on. But she's not the stripper type. Girl next door type. No tats or piercings. Maybe that's the problem.

I usually just hit them with the Kendrick Lamar line, "girl I know you want this dick!"

Nice one ranukam...

You could trysating something like...if it bothers you to fuck for money then we can fuck for free!

Nice time for a stripper to actually have some morals. lol.

@crazy ...Ya, I've already tried the "we have a deeper connection" line. All that did was improve mileage ITC. ...

And quite honestly, I am getting sick of having to sweet talk strippers, just take my fckn money already. It's like they want money and sweet talk... wait this seem like such a familiar scenario. SJG are you poisoning the strippers with your BS from mama's basement.

@GAC: you may have to step up your game a little bit. Get her addicted to smack. I study RickyBoy's The System 10 hours a day and that's what I think is needed. But yeah, let's wait for the inventer himself to speak.

Still waiting RBD

You need to let her know you're available if she needs you (your money) and she needs to have tour number. Let her know the price and be generous with it. Eventually she will call. In the meantime, be kind and polite.

I think the issue is focusing on one girl.

The fact is, we want what we can't have. I'd back off from her, see if that makes her chase you harder.

@JameSD yup you're totally right on this

So RBD, your system at work please...

Rickyboy is developing a new system because he realised how stupid the old system was.

James hit it on the head. If you keep on her AND still spend money on her ITC telling her y'all have a "deep connection" what she hears is you'll keep spending money ITC. She may be conflicted about doing OTC but as long as she still has your money it's not at a tipping point in her mind yet. Spend time with other strippers and even do OTC with one where she knows about it. If she's unsure and she sees your money and time going to someone else from the club that could change her mind pretty easy to keep your money coming her way.

Of course if she's married with kids it might be more she doesn't know how she'd be able to juggle work, home and OTC action without getting caught. Maybe her husband is jealous. Maybe he knows exactly when she works. Could be more than just she doesn't want to do it.

@Mr.seaboardrr... excellent fckn point. I always picture these girls wearing the pants but I guess she could have a jealous husband. They have a few kids. Never would guess with her body though absolutely flawless, had to search really hard to see stretch marks, didn't know it was possible.