When does it count?

I once frustrated a platonic civilian friend who hated the taste of cum by not buying her argument it was okay for her to stop with her mouth at the end.

I like to cum someplace warm and wet. If she finishes me with her hand, it better be a facial.

If it's done correctly, by a skilled practitioner, the transition fro mouth to hand can be seamless and unnoticed in the heat of orgasm.

That said, few are skilled enough, so CIM is preferable. Swallowing versus spitting is another question. I don't really care what she does with it after it leaves my body, as long as she doesn't stop before I'm done. Completely done.

When it begins as a BJ, I want it to end as a BJ, not switch to a HJ. I'm learning from a few disappointing experiences to specify the sequence of events before we ever go to the VIP room. Like gmd, between spit and swallow I don't particularly care.

There's an old saying: "There's no such thing as a bad blowjob." I, like Mr. Deuce prefer completion in the mouth and don't care or mind if it's spit or swallow.

Guys, really, don't buy a BJ and then bitch that it's not BJCIM. That's like buying a Mounds candy bar instead of an Almond Joy, then bitching that there's no nuts.

CIM is not negotiable. Do I pull out of her pussy before I cum? Of course not.

"Do I pull out of her pussy before I cum? Of course not. " 69-so i'd gather you don't give a shit about consequences? hiv? potential paternity suits? this of course if you were doing that w/o the hat?

I've got it made. The ones that know I have retrograde ejaculations don't stop until I tell them to stop because the know they are not going to get a mouthful and the first timers don't know so they to keep sucking until I tell them they can stop and then I have to explain it to them.

Good question. it depends on the proportion of time she is doing it with hands/mouth I suppose and how important it is whether it's hands or mouth at the time of climax.

Interesting comments/discussion. As stated, this has become more important to me as I've gotten older....before, just getting off was satisfying. Also agree that spit or swallow isn't that important but as others have mentioned, when done with dramatic flair is pretty hot.

I have experienced what you've described gmd, and it usually involves great use of hands at the same time as the bj, with her staying right there with it but not exactly in her mouth. That helps with not feeling the "interruption".

Ibba, the better candy bar analogy might be "payday" and "milky way"????

"Ibba, the better candy bar analogy might be "payday" and "milky way"????"

Brilliant!

The final step doesn't matter that much to me, but I do like her to stop the BJ at times, switch to the HJ and lift her head and look into my eyes before diving in, rather on, again.

Almond Joy's got nuts, Mounds don't.

Of course we always feel like a nut. They just can be hard to come by if you're not in Detroit or Miami.

Not too hard to find in Atlanta either.... Probably why I've gotten so picky about the finish.

Also mounds have dark chocolate for Papi...