If a Stripper has Sex With You.....

"in VIP" & "pay extra" is self explanatory.
If you're paying it ain't love of you, just love of your money. geeze.

True true. I just think it would suck to have sex with someone you are not attracted to even for cash. However I guess they think I am tolerable enough lol. I agree though I should have known better.

There is a reason why prostitution/sex-for-$$$ is considered the oldest profession in the world.

"If a Stripper has Sex With You....."

It means she's likely having sex with everyone else too.

A stripper who does extras and charges extra for you is looking for some fast money and probably knows your willing to pay more.

Its when you do a vip for normal price not askng her for extras but she offers a bj or fs but not asking for more money that she might prefer you as a customer.

“… New Member but Not New to Strip Clubbing …”

This was the title of your first TUSCL discussion.

At the time of that thread – I was thinking of posting that being new to TUSCL is often the equivalent of being new to clubbing (even if you have clubbed b/f).

Your question makes my comment above have merit IMO.

If/when you have the time; read thru these 2 recent threads:

https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=3…

https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=3…

Papa, yeah I know that sounded amateurish of me to ask this question. I should have known better. I think deep down I just really wanted them to like me but in reality I can't get a girl as hot as them.
This is what strip clubbing is about though. Living a fantasy and having a shit ton of fun!

That's a legit questions. Really they don't have to have sec with you. But like @Nukam said just means they have sec with everyone else to. Moat girls know a guy will not often turn down sec so they have no qualms throwing it out there for you.

@UK:

I was not trying to smack you around.

SCs are a bizarre animal and they function differently than the real world. Most of us have experience and learn to live in the “real world” but SCs are bizarro world where “real world” logic and thinking often does not apply (or work very well).

Most of us have learned our “SC lessons” the hard way by making mistakes.

I SCed for 12 years b/f I joined TUSCL and learned more in the first 6 months on the TUSCL discussion board than I had in the prior 12 of lone-wolf SCing.

There are a lot of smart guys on this board w/ a lot of experience and one can learn a lot about SCs (and other topics) by reading their opinions.

SCs can be dangerous to one’s psyche and wallet if they don’t know what they need to know about them (at least if one plans to be a frequent playa).

It's all good Papi_Chulo I know you mean well. I am looking forward to reading the advice of the more experienced people on this board including you. I agree that strip clubs can be dangerous to a persons psyche and wallet. There is one club in Lexington, the spearmint rhino, I went to one time a while ago and never went back since a stripper called me ugly and told me to go to Applebee's with my boyfriend because I told her no twice. I was focused on another girl. At platinum and cheeks I have never had any problems which is why I go back to those.

Also i agree with the other comments as well. I do think these girls had sex with others as well and if they really liked me they would probably not charge extra. Thanks for the comments I appreciate them.

“…There is one club in Lexington, the spearmint rhino, I went to one time a while ago and never went back since a stripper called me ugly and told me to go to Applebee's with my boyfriend because I told her no twice ...”

No doubt you will run into some cutthroat bitches in SCs – it’s the nature of the beast – we have all experienced our share and have had worse encounters than yours – i.e. it’s not necessarily the club b/c there can and often are bad apples even in good clubs – the moral of the story is one needs to know how to handle themselves in the SC environment as to not be taken or intimidated by some of the cutthroat dancers.

If she tells you you're the hottest guy she's seen in a long time, that she's horny, has a condom in her purse, and wants to jump on your tool without asking for any extra money, then she probably does like you.That happened to me recently. I've also had the experience where a girl just wanted some dick before she went off her shift and she rode me bareback for nothing extra. She was upset because I got off before she did. (it's ok--I got tested). That's a case where she didn't like me at all--just wanted a random dick. I never saw her again.

Yeah I see what you mean. I was on stripper wen earlier and there is a thread on a type of hustle where they act like that in order to guilt you into getting a dance. They call it the broke shaming hustle. Even though I never said anything about not having money, I know that's a big time no no, that girl may have been trying to shame me into saying yes. I think that's not a good hustling technique. It may work on some guys though.

Meant to say stripper web not shipper wen in the second sentence of my last comment.

The sexiest thing about any patron is their wallet.

It means you ran RickyBoy's The System.

UK,

Many here do not believe it is possible to have a "relationship" with a dancer. I know it is. Now a relationship doesn't automatically mean sex, but often that is a side issue.

I believe if you see the same dancer often enough a bond can form. Easy to know if is more than just a money thing is how she behaves. Does she stay with you even if you are not buying dances. Do you know anything about her personal life. Does she talk to you as any two friends might. I'm sure you get the drift. Sex can be a by product as a result. Then you are in the area as these guys mention above...

Eagle, "Its when you do a vip for normal price not askng her for extras but she offers a bj or fs but not asking for more money that she might prefer you as a customer."

OR

saroya, "If she tells you you're the hottest guy she's seen in a long time, that she's horny, has a condom in her purse, and wants to jump on your tool without asking for any extra money, then she probably does like you."

In reality, it only matters what you and she think, not us, unless you're looking for approval or validation.

@UKfan: Let me give you a bit of advice: if it turns out that she really likes you, run, don't walk, away from her and never look back. You'll be better off not being tempted to like her back.

Trust me.

If you sleep with her and she stalks you in the strip club on the next visit and gets pissed off accusing you of sleeping with another dancer just because you talked too long with another dancer, she likes you. Either that or she's crazy. If she's driving 95mph for over 200 miles visiting the strip club she knows you will be at every week for months, she may like you if she's just not crazy. If she eventually tells you she remembers the very first time she saw you, obviously she's crazy especially if that was over a decade ago.

I used to take long romantic walks with a dancer. It was love

Of course she didn't know it and some called it stalking. :)

Don't go looking for love in all the wrong places.

And strip clubs are all the wrong places.
Trust us.

@Clubber
Not looking for approval or validation just commenting on what I have seen, I know I am still new to the strip club thing so its me guessing what the reason could be if a dancer just giving you extras without wanting more money.

I gave a girl behind the counter at McDonalds $1 and she gave me a cheeseburger. Does she like me?

^ LOL - doesn't get much simpler than that

Of course it's true. I've had quite a few tell me that I am the only one they do this with. :)

It means you're not completely disgusting. There definitely are extras girls who don't service every single guy.

I agree with everyone else. In no way does it mean that she is attracted to you, all she cares about is the money. That being said, I would imagine most dancers won't have sex with a guy that they find repulsive (B.O., dirty clothes, extremely old or obese, etc) but they have no problems having sex with a guy that they don't find attractive as long as they have good hygiene. Also, your attitude probably has a lot to do with it too. If you are rude or disrespectful she would be less likely to give extras.

As far as dancer giving you extras without you asking for it or asking for extra payment, that is common (at least at the club I go to). Yes, it theoretically could me she finds you attractive is is horny enough to want to give you extras without asking for money, but I'm sure that's pretty rare, even if she is attracted to the guy. If she gives the guy a BJ or fucks him without wanting additional money in return then that would mean you would expect that on every visit, so she won't do that.

It is much more likely that they give you extras without you asking or without asking for money for several reasons:

1. If she is worried about getting busted by undercover LE, then she is being more cautious by not asking. If she comes out and says "I'll give you a BJ for an extra $50" then it would be easy for LE to bust her. If she gives you a BJ on her own and you tip her after the VIP time then LE can't bust her since she never had a conversation about money for a BJ.

2. By her not asking if you want a BJ or FS, she is making you feel like are are a special customer or like she is making an exception for you. The first time I got FS ITC with my ATF (after I had been getting HJ's from her for a couple months) she acted discreet while we fucked and said its the first time she ever had sex in the club. No way I believed her, especially since she had been a dancer for quite a while at this club.

3. Some dancers feel that if they are they aren't a prostitute if they don't offer you sex for money.

I never had to ask for anything from my ATF, she gave me the HJ all on her own and we just worked out way up to FS. She never specified a price, I always just tipped her when we were done. When I got FS from her the first time I did ask her how much more it was going to cost me and she just said "do you want to rip me more?" and we left it at that.

I've also gotten BBBJ's with CIM from a dancer without me asking and without her asking for extra. I don't consider myself above average looking so I know in the real world I would have no chance with them. That's what's so great about SC's, an average looking guy can hook up with a 10.

I went into the club late one night.Proceeded to get a group of strippers all liquored up and learned some things I did not know.

Eagle,

The "approval" "validation" comment was direct to UK. I was using your comment as a case in point. Your comment is the exception. "Exceptions" mean something, right?

"I gave a girl behind the counter at McDonalds $1 and she gave me a cheeseburger. Does she like me?"

Brilliant!

"I gave a girl behind the counter at McDonalds $1 and she gave me a cheeseburger. Does she like me?"

By the way ilbbaicnl, what was the posted price for a cheeseburger? If is was >$1 she likes you, if it was <$1 then she doesn't like you! ;)

If a Stripper has Sex With You.....
It means you have an STD.

Does it really matter?

I've pretty much grown beyond caring if they like me, or enjoyed it. Occasionally if I'm really liking the way a girls fucking I'll do my best to get her off too. But if I'm paying, it's all about ME!!!