Obligatory dances ?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Carlos posted a thread about sympathy dances a couple of days ago – I take “sympathy dances” to be getting dances from someone you normally wouldn’t.
Do you ever get caught up in the “obligatory dances”; per se – i.e. when a dancer you’ve kicked it with in the past and even had a good time w/ comes up to you expecting/wanting you to buy dances from her again and spend $$$ on her?
I always post that I like variety and it’s rare for me to want to get dances from the same dancer again the next time I visit the particular club – actually it usually takes a couple of months b/f I’m in the mood to get dances from the same dancer; even if I had a good time w/ her in the past.
Sometimes I say no to the “obligatory dances” and sometimes I just get them in order not to make the dancer feel bad (although I know this is about business; but still).
How often is this an issue for you (if it’s an issue at all)?
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So if a girl sits with me and she's horrible I will immediately tell her I don't want company or sometimes even get up and leave if she can't take a hint (say, excuse me I have to go to the restroom). But if a decent dancer sits down and I have a nice conversation with her or if she's pretty but not what I'm looking for I will usually get a dance or two from her. I'd rather do that than pay for a drink. Sometimes I've gone back and been surprised as maybe she gave me a better dance (or offered more) than expected.
I ran into that last night in detroit. Not every girl out there is an extras girl and sometimes you don't have the time to sit and have a conversation to find out. My best bet is just to take them in the back and see how they act or what they offer when I sit down. I'm only out of $30 in most cases anyway so it's not the end of the world if I just get a normal lap dance from a decent looking girl.
Seriously, my attitude is to only agree to a dance when I want it so bad I can't resist. If I'm not sure, I don't allow us to get into a long conversation that might leave her feel slighted. And, although great dances on past visits usually mean I'll want to get them again, the choice is always 100% optional for me.
C asked me to buy one from a friend. It was mediocre at best. Friend asked if I'd buy one more. I had no interest, but was feeling generous, so told her I would if she gave the dance to (the very bi) C instead. Damn -- the stuff that women can get away with on the main floor.
J asked me to buy one from P. Although never surpassing J, P quickly became a fave. Which became even better when J hung it up.
I've had this happen a few times.
But, I like variety now too. So, getting repeat dances from a girl I've known for quite sometime, doesn't do it for me anymore. I'd rather experience someone new now (unless the experience was so good that I wanted a re-tap... But that rarely happens anymore).