From a stripper: What is most important part of a dancer?
stripperlover83
I've been dancing for a few years now at a full nude club and have heard a ton of different responses when customers are asked what they like best about a dancer. Just curious to see what everyone thinks? Legit dancer here so please don't put stupid things. Just looking for honest conversations. Not an extras girl so again nothing about that please.
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1. Cute face, preferably with "bedroom eyes" that just say "I want you" without effort.
2. Perky, firm breasts of pretty much any size, preferably natural; if they're not a well done pair that look natural in any position are OK.
3. Flat or almost flat tummy.
4. Nicely proportioned hips, butt and legs.
5. Personality! Maybe the most important attribute of all. My ATF covers all four of the attributes above, but it was this woman's (yes, being a woman instead of a girl!) personality that sealed the deal for me.
As for things you can at least partially control, I look for a reasonable weight (not heroin skinny, just not overweight), and a fun, outgoing personality.
Don't smell bad.
Don't lie to me about what you'll do.
Your pussy is the main ingredient.
You gonna get more money if you hand it over to me.
Be funny and playful.
The club I normally go to allows girls to sit on my lap and ask about dances. If she sits next to me, I usually take that as a bad sign. Some staddle me and start putting the tits in my face before saying hi, and usually do this to try and avoid me actually look at them, I think...
One girl there, first time I met her, sat down next to me and asked me to sit on her lap. Then started asking me to dance for her. It was a slow night, and ya, she was pretty hot. But with that kinda sillyness and a playful personality I always enjoy seeing her when I am there, although her private dances are a bit less "touchy" (what she'll allow me to touch) than most of the other girls there.
Another girl, who in the first dance stated she wanted to make me cum, and told me to rub her clit while she intently focused her stare on the wall behind me, I generally avoid (and there's no chance she was going to make me cum with the distracted way she was rubbing and grinding, really barely even got me hard).
I don't want to hear about your pathetic job and your loser BF. If I want to hear bitching there are lots of women I can sit with.
Enthusiasm is a start. Be imaginative. Don't be "wanna dance?" girl. Only complain about how slow it is or how much money you aren't making if I can offer to help you with your finances through some other arrangement.
Too many hot girls with no personality or desire to improve.
Different physical attributes appeal to different people but personality and good eye contact work on just about everyone.
I tend to like natural (both tits and hair color) blondes without too many tattoos, but I like to taste the rainbow.
I’m Hispanic so I like my women curvy and natural – IME it seems white/Anglo guys; especially older white/Anglo guys; often lie the thin/petite/spinner types.
For me substance gets my $$$ over style – i.e. I’ll get more dances and spend more $$$ on a 6 that gives great dances and good mileage over a 9 that acts as if it’s a privilege for me to even look at her.
Eye contact and smiling def is a plus though not necessarily a deal sealer – wouldn’t you be more attracted to, or feel more comfortable with; a guy that smiled and made eye contact rather than one that sees thru/past you – i.e. qualities that you may like in a guy may be the ones you should keep in mind when dealing w/ and trying to attract a custy.
Touchy/feely – when seating next to him talking; rubbing his back; his thigh; his hand; often has a positive effect - and the SC handshake often has a trans effect.
Probably not a good idea to assume you won’t be somebody’s type just by looking at them; even if they don’t seem friendly or receptive – dancers probably develop a gut feeling for which type of custy will be attracted to them but obviously it’s just a gut feeling and not 100% accurate – don’t prejudge a custy by looks alone b/c you may be passing up on some cash – but also don’t spend a 1/2 hr talking to a custy you are not getting a good vibe from.
Assuming you are into guys – think what gets your guy/past-BFs going; engaged; and turned-on; and that will probably work w/ most custies.
Natural B or (better yet) C tits
Warm personality
Better conversational skills than "Wanna dance?"
For heaven's sake, shave your legs and bathe -- and if Aunt Flo is visiting, take a couple of days off.
Physically, I don't think I have any particular preferences -- it's just too much of a mood thing, along with what I'm seeing at the time -- but a woman who takes care of herself is very attractive. She doesn't have to have rock-hard abs or be an athlete -- nuts, she can even be a little on the plush side; I don't think I'd really mind.
Women who are skeletal or obese, I pass on, as well as the hygienically-challenged, the major smokers (especially if I can smell it from several feet away), the perfume-marinated, the heavily tattooed, and the pierced, especially if the piercings are in the private areas (ow and ew).
"Bitch" is a personality! :)